My brother,be grateful to God that she even expressed her feelings towards your satisfying her sexually.what if she didn't tell you any thing about her ex's dick,would you have gone for a toy?
Again I don't think she would go ahead to cheat owing to the fact that the toy worked wonders for its purpose.
But I must advice you my brother don't take any thing for granted,always ask her if she is satisfied with your sex life with her.
A good wife will not cheat but try to make good the situation at hand.
My advice to you also:
Occasional use Vega 100,before love making.
Apart from delaying your ejaculation time,it also enlargers your manhood over time.be reminded that no medication comes without a side effect.
Try as well to know if she is still communicating with that her ex with over size dick.
If she is,then she might be tempted to cheat that's after remembering all the past good times spent with the guy.
Be wise,marriage is an instution were one cannot even graduate.
We keep leaning day in day out.
Above all,let Christ be d pillar of your marriage.
Cheers bro.

KKKWHITE:
You dont have to go extra mile to satisfy her . Just be yourself . Remember we are who will are .

I don't think the op is going extra mile. He is just caring. We can always use technology to positive advantage. Same way most ladies use make -up to enhance their beauty. If u insist that all ladies be their natural selves without make up then many will remain unmarried. So nothing wrong in finding solution to your spouse's sexual fantasy just as she does for you.

pocohantas:

It does o.
It does...check it well.

then if it does, what next. Pls allow him joo

darsool500:
Hi Nairalanders, Good morning and I hope you all had a great night rest? I just wanted to seek a quick opinion here if any of you married guys were in my own shoes, which I feel no-one or probably few might be in the same shoes as I am in now. During the short time we courted before we married, she was always opened to me, and that made me sort of more attracted and glued to her, because thats my type of person. She told me about her ex, most especially their sexual past, infact while with me then, the ex used to call, and then she'll pass the phone to me to answer, but I wouldnt. She opened up as to how big his manhooooood is, and how it took her months when they started dating to adjust to his size. I am just a normal sized person, with lots of skills and stamina to make any woman whose appetite for big manhood satisfied regardless, and this is exactly what my wife portrayed while dating her, she made me feel she was satisfied.

On one faithful day, we were doing it, then suddenly my pe.niis had entered her an.us, oh my, it was so wide that I felt maybe my pe.nis had mistakenly throbbed her butttt cheek, cos she has a massiveness butttt. I didnt say anything, then she later on sent me a text right after I left the house that I did I notice we just had anallll sexxxx, I was like, it cant be that if that was ur an.usssss, then its damn toooo wide. By the time I got back, I started to question her that in my life, though I have had few anallll intercourse, but I have never come across an.us as wide as that, asked if she has been doing it b4, she said NO, claiming it was the kind of body she has. I was stuck to believing her, even though I was not convinced. Few months later, we got married, then she started opening up the more. Funny thing months after marriage, we started having more of anallll intercourse, the an.us is now back to what I can call normal, tight and enclosed, and then I asked how come ur an.us is now tight considering the fact you told me thats how your body is, she said well, she doesnt understand why its all tight up now. That I just put aside and didnt want to worry about, knowing fully well, she was probably doing it while she was dating me or whatever.

Almost a year entering into our marriage, she started talking about how she loves to have his man have a kind of di.ccckk that can handle her fat asss, bla bla bla, though we were just having a flirty chat while she was abroad to give birth, going deep into the convo with her, I decided I'll buy penile extension, the type that a man wears, like an artificial diccck, to give that deep and widening feel that she has always been used to. I am this kind of man that wants to bring fulfillment and happiness in terms of sexual contentment not thinking if I am less of a man or allowing complex to hold me down, Infact I was happy we agreed to start making use of it. Lo and behold, she was back, and we started using this stuff, 11 inches of penile extension, up to 8 inches up her butt, for the first time, my wife was all smiles and very happy after the first try. Then I knew this was what she has been missing all these while. It now came to a level where after usage of the penile, she can drop it anywhere around our bathroom where our kids do go into, and I have been complaining that this is a private tool that needs to be kept and secured for no one to see, the kids can mistakenly take it when visitors are around which can be seen. This has been happening over and over again, the last time when I decided to throw the tool away was when she had dumped it in the visitors bathroom after usage for 2 days, I just figured it out the third day, I was furious and I threw it away, because nobody should see it.

My fellow nairalanders, judging from my write up, many will think, I probably have a small manhood, in all sincerity, I dont, infact my wife is the only woman in my entire life that I had to go and extra mile for, because of the experience she had with her ex who she claims has an extremely huge manhooood, so it made my case very different. Also, my experience and skills and stamina does work, but sometimes, she just needs that deep feeling so her orgasm can be 3 times more powerful than the orgasm she gets from my own normal penetration. My fear now is, regardless of the fact that I see as a faithful woman, is there a probability that she'll cheat? Because the constant carelessness of the tool was better off for me to have thrown it away, also if we had sex 10 times in a month, we only make use of the toy twice.

I need response from experienced married men please.

Dude, almost all women like very big dicks, or at least imagine being dealt a very big one. Your wife is not alone in this.

Cheating has nothing to do with the size of the manhood or skills. It is more or less a character trait. We decide on principles whether to cheat or not. It is almost always around the corner. You can never satisfy a woman throughout the life span of a marriage, and vice versa. There's always someone better or younger, or even richer. Fidelity is a choice we all have to make or choose not to make.

Don't stress yourself about her. Marriage is not primarily a sexual relationship. It is more about love and companionship.Then children. Sex is overhyped. At the rate you are going just to satisfy her, you will wear yourself out, that's if you don't kill yourself. If she is gonna cheat, you can't stop her, even with the biggest dick in the world. Take it one day at a time and love her the best you can. Trust her with the Lord and be yourself.


Good luck.

So people believe this "story"?? Msheeewww!

Dera25:
Oga I think it is a mistake for buying an intimacy gadget for your wife in the first place, that is masturbation for crying out loud. Just imagine! Your wife using a gadget while you are around, it is so irritating and disgusting. Why not channel the whole effort to your sexual capability to ensure you are giving her maximum satisfaction. Remind you that whatever she starts doing now will be very hard to stop it once she becomes used to it, whether anal sex or whichever I think it should be done with your manhood, if anything should be worked on I think it should be your manhood and sexual capability. Please oo this is my opinion I am sorry if I have in any way sounded somehow abeg, just that I really felt for you after reading your story, I almost shed tears because I can't imagine myself being in that position for any reason.

in fact that lady is not in love. A woman who is truly in love with a man, will only manage him the way he is, or better still help him to work on his manhood to be bigger. Besides, the lady initially didn't tell him the truth, in fact that was a sex addict before they met, and not just that her ex's manhood is big. She lied to you op, and she may later cheat on you if it's not already happening. So sorry and don't be offended with my comment. I will also advice you take it to God in prayers for God to quench that satanic urge in her.

Dyt:
Omo mehn
Different marital issues everywhere

You mean your wife takes 8 in her an.us?


And 11 deep down her punny?




Well
Who are my to judge
We all have different fantasies

Just trust
You give her what she wants
No reason to cheat
When a woman loves
She definitely loves with all


Sisisioge

true. .. when a woman truly loves you she will never cheat on you.

8 inches up the ass, hmmmmmm i find it hard to really believe

Bleep big yanch,but no marry big yanch for house, because their toto na lagoon

pcguru1:
8 inches up the ass, hmmmmmm i find it hard to really believe

The op and wife are just throwing some numbers around. Fantasies!!!

Eluwilussit:


Dude, almost all women like very big dicks, or at least imagine being dealt a very big one. Your wife is not alone in this.

Cheating has nothing to do with the size of the manhood or skills. It is more or less a character trait. We decide on principles whether to cheat or not. It is almost always around the corner. You can never satisfy a woman throughout the life span of a marriage, and vice versa. There's always someone better or younger, or even richer. Fidelity is a choice we all have to make or choose not to make.

Don't stress yourself about her. Marriage is not primarily a sexual relationship. It more about love and companionship.Then children. Sex is overhyped. At the rate you are going just to satisfy her, you will wear yourself out, that's if you don't kill yourself. If she is gonna cheat, you can't stop her, even with the biggest dick in the world. Take it one day at a time and love her the best you can. Trust her with the Lord and be yourself.


Good luck.

You're male and claiming almost all women like big dick. Desist from presumptuous assumptions.

darsool500:



Your story is upside down. dont get it.

You still don't get it after that long narrative? Oga your middle name is sorrrrryooooo! Unless your first post is not true. Or you just decided not to see the crack in the wall or you have your own illegit runs.

MummyIMadeIt:
[s]SEX THIS.... SEX THAT.... SEX THERE.... SEX WHO.....SEX WHAT.....[/s]
I JUST TIRE WITH THE WAY OUR GENERATION CARRY THIS SEX ISSUE ON TOP THERE HEAD LIKE SWEET BANANA.

ABSTINENCE IS THE KEY TO GOOD LIVING...... VIRGINITY IS THE JOY OF THE HUMAN SOUL; SEX NEVER SATISFIES EITHER A MAN NOR A WOMAN THOUGH IT MAY LAST A TIME BUT WHAT HAPPENS AFTER THAT FEW MINUTES PLEASURE.

IMAGINE READING DAY IN AND DAY OUT ABOUT THE DEATH OF MEN WHO KILLED THEMSELVES ON THE VERGE OF SATISFYING THEIR MATE

WHO SEX EPP!! HAVE NEVA SEEN A PORN STAR CELEBRATED GLOBALLY, NEIDA BECOMING THE 100 RICHEST PERSONS ON EARTH

OP I GAT FEW WORDS FOR YOU AND THAT IS "IF THE FOUNDATION BE FAULTY WHAT CAN THE RIGHTEOUS DO".

YOU NEED TO START ALL OVER FROM THE SCRATCH TO REFORMING YOUR MARRIAGE, ELSE YOU ARE IN FOR THE WORSE.

SEEK OUT A BIBLE BELIEVING CHURCH FOR COUNSELLING ASAP...

ALSO YOU NEED CHRIST IN YOUR HOME MAN...

I've been saying this, Sex is overrated. Even dumb animals have sex in the heat of the day. Max 10mins and you're all back to your initial potential energy levels. Human beings would carry it on their head like it's worth anything.

When I look at our streets, I see oloshos loiter everywhere with different brand names and I ponder if they will someday end up of as our wives, mothers and grand mothers. The answer is obviously Yes. But wait a minute. will the world ever know that these women were once whores ? No, they will lie about how they actually learnt sex and attribute it to a wonderful-in-bed Ex, after all, it is foolhardy for a woman to say that she is a former prostitute.

I really do not envy some husbands, when I see teenagers who do drugs and Bleep like migs. I know on them, many man shall fall and breath their lasts. May such not be the portion of this God-fearing and pussy conquering OP.

darsool500:
Hi Nairalanders, Good morning and I hope you all had a great night rest? I just wanted to seek a quick opinion here if any of you married guys were in my own shoes, which I feel no-one or probably few might be in the same shoes as I am in now. During the short time we courted before we married, she was always opened to me, and that made me sort of more attracted and glued to her, because thats my type of person. She told me about her ex, most especially their sexual past, infact while with me then, the ex used to call, and then she'll pass the phone to me to answer, but I wouldnt. She opened up as to how big his manhooooood is, and how it took her months when they started dating to adjust to his size. I am just a normal sized person, with lots of skills and stamina to make any woman whose appetite for big manhood satisfied regardless, and this is exactly what my wife portrayed while dating her, she made me feel she was satisfied.

On one faithful day, we were doing it, then suddenly my pe.niis had entered her an.us, oh my, it was so wide that I felt maybe my pe.nis had mistakenly throbbed her butttt cheek, cos she has a massiveness butttt. I didnt say anything, then she later on sent me a text right after I left the house that I did I notice we just had anallll sexxxx, I was like, it cant be that if that was ur an.usssss, then its damn toooo wide. By the time I got back, I started to question her that in my life, though I have had few anallll intercourse, but I have never come across an.us as wide as that, asked if she has been doing it b4, she said NO, claiming it was the kind of body she has. I was stuck to believing her, even though I was not convinced. Few months later, we got married, then she started opening up the more. Funny thing months after marriage, we started having more of anallll intercourse, the an.us is now back to what I can call normal, tight and enclosed, and then I asked how come ur an.us is now tight considering the fact you told me thats how your body is, she said well, she doesnt understand why its all tight up now. That I just put aside and didnt want to worry about, knowing fully well, she was probably doing it while she was dating me or whatever.

Almost a year entering into our marriage, she started talking about how she loves to have his man have a kind of di.ccckk that can handle her fat asss, bla bla bla, though we were just having a flirty chat while she was abroad to give birth, going deep into the convo with her, I decided I'll buy penile extension, the type that a man wears, like an artificial diccck, to give that deep and widening feel that she has always been used to. I am this kind of man that wants to bring fulfillment and happiness in terms of sexual contentment not thinking if I am less of a man or allowing complex to hold me down, Infact I was happy we agreed to start making use of it. Lo and behold, she was back, and we started using this stuff, 11 inches of penile extension, up to 8 inches up her butt, for the first time, my wife was all smiles and very happy after the first try. Then I knew this was what she has been missing all these while. It now came to a level where after usage of the penile, she can drop it anywhere around our bathroom where our kids do go into, and I have been complaining that this is a private tool that needs to be kept and secured for no one to see, the kids can mistakenly take it when visitors are around which can be seen. This has been happening over and over again, the last time when I decided to throw the tool away was when she had dumped it in the visitors bathroom after usage for 2 days, I just figured it out the third day, I was furious and I threw it away, because nobody should see it.

My fellow nairalanders, judging from my write up, many will think, I probably have a small manhood, in all sincerity, I dont, infact my wife is the only woman in my entire life that I had to go and extra mile for, because of the experience she had with her ex who she claims has an extremely huge manhooood, so it made my case very different. Also, my experience and skills and stamina does work, but sometimes, she just needs that deep feeling so her orgasm can be 3 times more powerful than the orgasm she gets from my own normal penetration. My fear now is, regardless of the fact that I see as a faithful woman, is there a probability that she'll cheat? Because the constant carelessness of the tool was better off for me to have thrown it away, also if we had sex 10 times in a month, we only make use of the toy twice.

I need response from experienced married men please.

A woman that will cheat will cheat, no matter how rich you are, how good in bed you are, how small or big your dick is. Put this in your head that a woman that will cheat will find a way to cheat because it is in the blood and they see it as part of the game. The marriage game

darsool500:



Your story is upside down. dont get it.

u seem averse and hostile to opinion u don't like. U brought ur private life to a public forum and asked for peoples opinion.what do xpect?its very impolite of u to tell people to shut up just cos they said something u dont like.if u no u couldn't handle d negative comments, u should have kept ur issue private

But for how long would this continue? It's one thing to start something and another thing to maintain the status quo.There comes a time when you will get tired of not being able to satisfy her with your natural d'ck or she will get tired of it all the same. It's evident that she wasn't honest with you about her sex life from the onset considering the wideness of her anus. Chinekeeeeeeeeee!

say no to anal sex!

pocohantas:
You and this your wife...
If she isn't driving down to Ikorodu, she is doing anal.
Maybe she is going to Ikorodu to receive the anal.

From the look of things there is no way he can satisfy her sexually. Very soon the woman will look for a bigger d'K and that's if she is not receiving it already.

Dyt:


I actually don't see anything wrong in their sexual life

The only thing I will frown at is disposing them anywhere
And cheating

You can hardly find a man that's ready to explore and have it all

Openness in marriage is what keeps it going
You get tired of sex
Boredom sets in
And then reality hits you both

But when you have a friend as a partner, talk about anything and everything
Marriage will be √√√√√

This is a very sensible post. Toys can actually be enjoyed by couples. It creates better bond. Many older couples in Nigeria are not into themselves. They are only together for societal and economic reasons

In as much as she make references about her ex and their sex life, there is that tendency that u don't satisfy her and there is this unique thing she remember about her sex, my dear marriage are for matured people, though from your write up that she can likely cheat on you.

That's why marrying a virgin is the only sure thing to guarantee you peace of mind. Marrying a non virgin whose sexual history you know nothing about is a no-no.

Some of them ladies have engaged in all sorts of kinky, weird, debasing, depraved, nauseating sexual acts with their numerous past lovers, and you are only bringing untold woes to yourself if you marry them. Marry a virgin and she'll be content with whatever you give her, she'll be satisfied with what you have to offer her in the bedroom. If this Op had married a virgin, this thread would not have been created in the first place.

A lesson to every guy in the house.

IamShakti:


You're male and claiming almost all women like big dick. Desist from presumptuous assumptions.

That's how they deceive themselves by generalizing it.. Truth is big d*k is overrated.

Why did I start reading this disgusting piece of shiiit! Now I feel like puking..

It's a shame how lost the human race is and I'm surprised nobody has mentioned it yet. If you enjoy anal sex then most likely you wouldn't mind banging a guy, same concept just different words. As if that was not bad enough, you went out to buy extension toys for love making, come on man! Sorry to say you married a freak and no amount of improvising can save your woman from realizing that you ain't really about that life! You can play the game now but naturally libido will have its day and then she'll remember her ex with the big bazooka and before you know it, it's over. I've heard of eating your woman, trying crazy sex positions even watching Indecency together but buying penile extension in order to have anal sex just so you can measure up to your wife's ex is PATHETIC!

TinaAnita:


That's how they deceive themselves by generalizing it.. Truth is big d*k is overrated.

I see you'd rather have a dïldo for a fleshy looking pęnis..

sonofLuci:





them don Bleep your wife pussy and asshole comot line, tufiakwa, god forbid that kind woman, see why virgins are good, she will only be used to your dick once you deflower her.

Nor go there o. There is always that curiosity in virgins to find out what the next man is. Besides, as much as frequent sex can alter virgina, there is also an elesment of gene. Just you see people with small lips or big ones, tiny eyes or big ones, so is the the slit in vigina. Child bearing could also alter it if the doctor don't do a good job at reconstructing it

Acidosis:
ahahaha

Oga, you don jam wetin pass you.


I bet when next you're coming to this world, you'll learn to abstain and seek after abstinence


On a serious note though; I still think you both deserve each other. You guys ever acted for por.n directors?

U shld have just passed jeje..

DIKEnaWAR:



You seem to be building your life around sex and women of sex. Ease up and do better things with your life, instead of trying to satisfy a woman sexually or materially. As an endowed man down there, I have found out that women will complain it's too big when you start with them, grow to love it later and transform to want it every time any time, more, more, more, and more. My brother, you will start running then and they will be wanting more. Will a man kill himself? Sometimes, I tell them, see this d11ck, I know you like it, please take it home and leave me here to rest and conserve my small energy.

Bottom line is, no woman has ever been admitted into a hospital because her toto is filled up with sperm or with too much d11ck. Do your best to satisfy her, if she wants hercules to ride her, na she sabi. Don't let that woman kill you with sex and emotional and complex problem. She has infected you with an insecurity that will soon drive you to taking enhancing drugs that might stop your heart in the middle of sex one day.

You married her cos she got you in bed. Such women might be good as girlfriends, but not as wives.

You just killed off my intention to post a comment after reading your post.
Your view is on point and a lesson for most men.

Let me just add that
There some women that are sexually insatiable.
This same woman going 11" and 8" today with might feel satisfied.
It's just a matter of time, she will start yearning for 14" & 10".

Let me also add that idleness adds to this kind of scenario.
It gives time for weird fantasies.
Imagine a woman who leaves her home very early for work and gets back late and tired as a weekly routine.
Tendencies are low that her crave for this kind of weird sex will last long in marriage.

Men should learn to do their best and leave the rest.
You can't stop a woman who wants to cheat from cheating.

Faithfulness in marriage is a decision and not a product of fulfilled six fantasies

darsool500 how long will you continue to use the penile extension I understand that you want to satisfy your wife but you would have been comfortable with yourself and rock your kini with her.

I think she's masturbating with the extension.
but why indulge in anal sex

Thorpido.....thanks for making me laugh this loud. Oh my!

Dyt has said it all.
Op is just a caring husband. Many will kill to have this kinda relationship but can you keep this up? What happens when you are weak and tired of wearing strap on? What happens when you don't feel like doing it? She does have massive explosion...do you?
I will advise that you take it easy. She has to love you for you. I love toys and all kinda sexual crazies but nothing beats the pleasure u gain from the natural zippy.
Your wife has something else going in her head. You can only help for a little time. If she can't fantasize about ur rod.....mehn u r on a very long ride.

What an excellent wife you have. Biko if and when you catch her cheating and divorce her. Send her to me immediately. I can very well handle dat rectum and its wonderful in my heart. A woman made of gold and you are here complaining. Read through all comments and see many lying and pretencious women who are likkely in similar behaviour to ur wife, yet theyy lie and deny. Bro you have seen what ur wife loves and you provide it adequately albeit with innovation and here yyou are complaining. Am an anals loving man, can kill for ur woman cos na wetin I dey chop. This same trait happens to apply to you as well. So why not relax and enjoy the good thing God has ggiven you instead of complaining. Why not hide d extension urself after use since madam is careless.

Anyway if u take useless advise here and she leaves you. Know that people like me will be here to accept her and give it to her GOOOOOOOOOD!!!!!!