Berbierklaus:

I understand you dear,my point is,what about your Exed man,you moulded him right,another woman is moulding him now
And the current one you are moulding,if it doesn't work out between you two,another woman will do the moulding tomorrow and the circle continues.

Happy moulding though

Amarabae:
happy moulding to u too. Hahahahaha Maybe we should form a club.
Moulders Association.

I don't mould sister,any man coming my way should get himself moulded by his mother,I was moulded by my own mother.

its you that should form the association,you have been moulding since

Berbierklaus:

I don't mould sister,any man coming my way should get himself moulded by his mother,I was moulded by my own mother.

its you that should form the association,you have been moulding since

Amarabae:
you are welcome.

BreadandBeans:

Wow.. is that you on your d.p??

Amarabae:
"Behind every succesful man,there is a woman".
Don't you think that "moulding" by a woman is involved?

Supporting should be a better and more appropriate word.

Unless he never had a mother or a dunce, that's understandable

RedRubberDucky:
I have him

Tim whose sensitive amd a good listener
Qasim the Maga to take me out
Kingston for wild hot sex
David with the big brain to solve life's equations
And Sony the church boy to please Mama

Go girl

Benita27:
Don't mind those critising you. We consciously and unconsciously inspire people to greater heights.

I could remember proof-reading my boo's work and then telling him he did a great job before or after he post it...we don't know how much encouragement mean to certain persons.

My bestie would call and say he has a business plan he would love me to make input, which i do and could see how pleased he's with it.

Berbierklaus:

Supporting should be a better and more appropriate word.

Unless he never had a mother or a dunce, that's understandable

Amarabae:
wow, thanks sis. What many think is that Men are complete beings.
Men can be insecured and need a moral booster,thats where a lady can excel.
Love involves Correction,Forgiveness,Cheering eachother up,Scolding etc.
They are all part of moulding.
MICHELLE OBAMA Played a key role in the life of Barrack. He is a confident man, he knows that his beautiful strong black wife is his number one Fan.

Amarabae:
supporting is part of moulding. Don't u think so?
If you have a business guru as a husband and he cheats on you while away on a business trip? If you find out,will u "support"him? NO. Am sure u will confront and scold him.
Thats the Moulding we are talking about.

That is why I said unless he never had a mother to mould him or he is simply a dunce.
Every reasonable man knows that cheating on his wife is disastrous and any good mother knows to teach her son not to be a cheat.
And no,I won't scold a grown ass man from cheating,can't come and give my self hypertension on issues like cheating.

I still insist that moulding is for dunces,men who don't have a mind of their own,men who can't come with ideas that can better their lives, such men should not expect ME to do that for them,I will surely support an intelligent man.

Sister please meet intelligent men,you won't have to mould nothing
Because after you mould,another woman might still take over the moulding, to which end? Are they that daft?

Berbierklaus:

That is why I said unless he never had a mother to mould him or he is simply a dunce.
Every reasonable man knows that cheating on his wife is disastrous and any good mother knows to teach her son not to be a cheat.
And no,I won't scold a grown ass man from cheating,can't come and give my self hypertension on issues like cheating.

I still insist that moulding is for dunces,men who don't have a mind of their own,men who can't come with ideas that can better their lives, such men should not expect ME to do that for them,I will surely support an intelligent man.

Sister please meet intelligent men,you won't have to mould nothing
Because after you mould,another woman might still take over the moulding, to which end? Are they that daft?

Amarabae:
I understand ur point now.
Have a cool night rest and sweet dreams,dear

Yes you do

In summary,women should stop painting men as dumb people who can't do anything for themselves, that is why the society is the way it is today

Berbierklaus:

That is why I said unless he never had a mother to mould him or he is simply a dunce.
Every reasonable man knows that cheating on his wife is disastrous and any good mother knows to teach her son not to be a cheat.
And no,I won't scold a grown ass man from cheating,can't come and give my self hypertension on issues like cheating.

I still insist that moulding is for dunces,men who don't have a mind of their own,men who can't come with ideas that can better their lives, such men should not expect ME to do that for them,I will surely support an intelligent man.

Sister please meet intelligent men,you won't have to mould nothing
Because after you mould,another woman might still take over the moulding, to which end? Are they that daft?

truthsayer007:


This your opinion Ehn, is too funny. In summary, you are basically asking ONLY to meet a ready made guys who has learnt from his past experience & now doing well in every area including financially, career wise & being responsible. Because you fear that if you start small someone else will reap the fruit of your labor. This is a naive way of thinking !

It has nothing to do with intelligence. So don't deceive yourself. Both dumb & intelligent men cheat.

My point is, you are just looking for excuse. #Simple.

Berbierklaus:
Mould him,then another woman will have him and mould him all over again,then the circle continues,until he enters marriage with another woman who starts the process of moulding all over again


is not only mould,my man better come as a complete package
my mother trained me,his own mother should do her part

I'm a complete package though

Berbierklaus:
Mould him,then another woman will have him and mould him all over again,then the circle continues,until he enters marriage with another woman who starts the process of moulding all over again


is not only mould,my man better come as a complete package
my mother trained me,his own mother should do her part

I'm a complete package though

popefuse:
y did u spoil this thread. u think all guyz can behave tha way? hell No sis. If a lady can lead me to my promise land bet u she is mine 4life. If u cant bring out the best in u how do u want to change lifes around u.u need 2 quench tha mindset.am out

Berbierklaus:
Mould him,then another woman will have him and mould him all over again,then the circle continues,until he enters marriage with another woman who starts the process of moulding all over again


is not only mould,my man better come as a complete package
my mother trained me,his own mother should do her part

I'm a complete package though

Berbierklaus:
Mould him,then another woman will have him and mould him all over again,then the circle continues,until he enters marriage with another woman who starts the process of moulding all over again


is not only mould,my man better come as a complete package
my mother trained me,his own mother should do her part

I'm a complete package though

Amarabae:
Good day friends, This is my first topic on this wonderful forum.
I love maturity and will love matured comments.
Lets go.
- "Nothing like a perfect Man"- 70% of ladies have this convinction firmly,
Are you suprised?many ladies have experienced nightmares in the hand of a man they perceived as Perfect.
The raw truth is that "THERE IS NO ALREADY MADE PERFECT MAN" but rather you can mould an imperfect guy into perfection.
Sometimes, we ladies underrate the high amount of influentiality we have on Menfolk.
YES, A woman can control a man, this topic will look at 5 Ways at how a woman can harness such a controlling ability to mould a PERFECT MAN.
...
1. MANAGE HIS WEAKNESS:- is he a stammerer?a disabled?timid?poor in dressing?extreme introvert?etc .
Sweetheart,manage it! Don't feed on it,rather with love, it can be handled and corrected.. Stop putting him on the spotlight all the time.
...

2. BE PART OF HIS VISION: You have to cheer him up, and play a role in any legitimate visionary project that he is handling.
He will appreciate it.
....

3. BUILD UP HIS CONFIDENCE:- He embark on a project and fail, build him up with encouraging ideas.
The confidence level should not be low while you are there.
Be his psychologist and councillor.
....

4. SCOLD HIM:- This is very important, a perfect man is a responsible man.
If he fails to live up to his responsibilities on anything, confront it.
Don't look the other way, let him know where he failed and how to correct himself. Scold him. Do it.
....

5. INSTILL A FINANCIAL SAVING LIFESTYLE IN HIM :- Don't be the party type all the time, maybe he earns below 100k a month,yet you are expecting him to be spending up to 250k on you monthly.
It sucks. Do you dream of buying a new house or business empire with him?
Then instill in him how to save up.
Love you all.
...

Amarabae:
Good day friends, This is my first topic on this wonderful forum.
I love maturity and will love matured comments.
Lets go.
- "Nothing like a perfect Man"- 70% of ladies have this convinction firmly,
Are you suprised?many ladies have experienced nightmares in the hand of a man they perceived as Perfect.
The raw truth is that "THERE IS NO ALREADY MADE PERFECT MAN" but rather you can mould an imperfect guy into perfection.
Sometimes, we ladies underrate the high amount of influentiality we have on Menfolk.
YES, A woman can control a man, this topic will look at 5 Ways at how a woman can harness such a controlling ability to mould a PERFECT MAN.
...
1. MANAGE HIS WEAKNESS:- is he a stammerer?a disabled?timid?poor in dressing?extreme introvert?etc .
Sweetheart,manage it! Don't feed on it,rather with love, it can be handled and corrected.. Stop putting him on the spotlight all the time.
...

2. BE PART OF HIS VISION: You have to cheer him up, and play a role in any legitimate visionary project that he is handling.
He will appreciate it.
....

3. BUILD UP HIS CONFIDENCE:- He embark on a project and fail, build him up with encouraging ideas.
The confidence level should not be low while you are there.
Be his psychologist and councillor.
....

4. SCOLD HIM:- This is very important, a perfect man is a responsible man.
If he fails to live up to his responsibilities on anything, confront it.
Don't look the other way, let him know where he failed and how to correct himself. Scold him. Do it.
....

5. INSTILL A FINANCIAL SAVING LIFESTYLE IN HIM :- Don't be the party type all the time, maybe he earns below 100k a month,yet you are expecting him to be spending up to 250k on you monthly.
It sucks. Do you dream of buying a new house or business empire with him?
Then instill in him how to save up.
Love you all.
...

Amarabae:
Good day friends, This is my first topic on this wonderful forum.
I love maturity and will love matured comments.
Lets go.
- "Nothing like a perfect Man"- 70% of ladies have this convinction firmly,
Are you suprised?many ladies have experienced nightmares in the hand of a man they perceived as Perfect.
The raw truth is that "THERE IS NO ALREADY MADE PERFECT MAN" but rather you can mould an imperfect guy into perfection.
Sometimes, we ladies underrate the high amount of influentiality we have on Menfolk.
YES, A woman can control a man, this topic will look at 5 Ways at how a woman can harness such a controlling ability to mould a PERFECT MAN.
...
1. MANAGE HIS WEAKNESS:- is he a stammerer?a disabled?timid?poor in dressing?extreme introvert?etc .
Sweetheart,manage it! Don't feed on it,rather with love, it can be handled and corrected.. Stop putting him on the spotlight all the time.
...

2. BE PART OF HIS VISION: You have to cheer him up, and play a role in any legitimate visionary project that he is handling.
He will appreciate it.
....

3. BUILD UP HIS CONFIDENCE:- He embark on a project and fail, build him up with encouraging ideas.
The confidence level should not be low while you are there.
Be his psychologist and councillor.
....

4. SCOLD HIM:- This is very important, a perfect man is a responsible man.
If he fails to live up to his responsibilities on anything, confront it.
Don't look the other way, let him know where he failed and how to correct himself. Scold him. Do it.
....

5. INSTILL A FINANCIAL SAVING LIFESTYLE IN HIM :- Don't be the party type all the time, maybe he earns below 100k a month,yet you are expecting him to be spending up to 250k on you monthly.
It sucks. Do you dream of buying a new house or business empire with him?
Then instill in him how to save up.
Love you all.
...

Amarabae:
How to Mould the Perfect Woman will be my topic next time.