I just cant say No anytime a guy approaches me for either a date or later on Sex, i first thought it was all fun but now i think its a major problem, i don't have a will power to draw back and i think its affecting me psychologically, i need serious help please!!

Hey Seun,

I am khels. Can we talk? I think I can help.

No other elp other than God's intervention

kayemjay: Hey Seun,

I am khels. Can we talk? I think I can help.

kelvinmania@yahoo.com
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Hmmm,Kayemjay,w@ sort of elp do u want to gve ha?
U cn trust me,i wont tell ha

Prayer is d key...when a guy approaches u,what goes thru ur mind? What do u intend to get out of d guy? Money,s*x or love? What drives u? U need to do some soul-searching and know why u find urself in dis awkward situation.


Ask d Almighty God for forgiveness,ask for His help,determine in ur heart dat enuff is enuff den take it from there.With God n ur determination,u'll overcome dis.


Goodluck.

A series of steps on how I was able to help myself, and how a friend of mine too was able to do so. Her's was worse than yours, Seun.

Give me your number, I can help

Loool

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I missed ths girl ooooo..

DIAGNOSIS
Saying NO is actually what we fear to do especially if you're conscientous and I want to believe you are. You were brought up probably by a mum who advises you on not insulting guys that instead hear them out and respectfully turn them down. This may be because some close family members who called the bluff of guys then married very, very late or found it hard to get married. You live with this fear of not wanting to do the same mistake. Overtime, this has become a weakness and you probably look forward to a guy ''toasting'' you every time you come across one. When they do, they discover you are not having self-esteem, courage and not usually in control. Alas! You should be. The man should be doing all the explaining, defending etc. And when it's always like this, they succeed in getting your number and they always win!
SOLUTION
While it is good to always respect the guys that you meet and not treat them with disdain, it is not good to be subdued in reasoning. What about finding a way to make sure the conversation doesn't take place in the first place?
Fight your fears. Getting a good husband would not be hard for you as I deemed you welcoming and respectful.
Get a good guy from your livery and let others go. You must try to display a very solid strenght of character to do this (knowing the kind of person you are)
Pray about it. Tell it to God. ''whatsoever ye ask in my name, I will do it''.
Wish you joy and happiness

Hope she gives you a share

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I will be straight with u

1. U are too concious of ur look. U dress to kill jes for one purpose::::to be noticed

2. U av been brainwashed by the mentality of big girls tinz. U are small, but wanted to prove to the world u can aslo lift weights.

3. U are choosy! U pick the big ballers who throw parties, drive the best ammong their frnds and love clubbing!

4. U started sex wen u are naïve. Infact, i can deduce u are the type dt bilivs being a virgin is a shame! So, u lost it probably to proove u are on ground, and the ones u've been wit at the initials bilivd u are boring! Now, u are out to prove anyone who wanna knw how good u be!

5. U move with frnds without dignity. U discuss d new guy u bleeped and how much u made. U discuss the outings and swagaz!!!


Well, i can go on...but u need to undstnd dt ur problem is mere negligent while developing, wrong education and bad friends!

You are lucky. Some gals wld wish to be in your shoes...

This girl again with her preposterous threads.nonsense

ah ah where have you been
chai see spiritual attack eh
To be candid with you it not ordinary and you contributed to it, maybe from the onset you dont know how to tell a guy NO and they kept coming instead of you to sit and amend your ways, you think it because you b beautiful.
let forget about religion stuff for now, Seun you need to discipline yourself, Not every fine guy is responsible, you have to be selective you dont just jump into relationship anyhow, you need to understand that most guys out there want nothing more than your Pu**y.
Come wetin be my own sef, but seriously you need to discipline yourself.

bad bit.ch contest ... u in 1st place.
go girl, keep it up!

Maybe you yourself like the attention and the sex; you've gotten so used to saying Yes to these guys that nonchalance has settled in; you have no-self worth; you're mistaken these guys' attention for love when you're just being used for sex.

...and maybe you're just a woman sex maniac. Call on to Jesus. He's ever near. Amen.

I swear this girl reminds me of one girl I know in Unilorin, same name seun, shez in 300l linguistics, she even bleeped a fresher! She loves flashy tins...

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LOOOL

Na wa! This is mind-boggling, You said u easily date every Man that approaches You (both married,single,agberos,vulcanizers name them) and You dnt also repudiate their offer whn they ask For se'x. Wow, Your condition's beyond repair it's crystal clear that Your womanliness or whareva is a public latrine***spits!* join the convent.

SMH.....#this babes gonna be so trending on NL

hahahahaha, she's back with another hot thread!

Definitely following

Smh

wait wait!!! you guys dont know him her yet?

Now dat u knw u cant say no to sex, wen next som1 asks for it help urself and say NO!!! And stand by it..

Burp 3 times in the morning when you wake up...it works like magic.

*following*

be determined to say 'no' or seek advice frm pple who hv bin in ur shoes.