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When Is The Appropriate Time To Tell Your Spouse Of Your Horrible Past?. by Nobody: 12:36pm On Feb 19, 2017 |
For one to have a successful relationship i believe there shouldn't be concealment from both parties. But, some people are caught up in the right time to reveal horrible secrets and how such would be perceived and handled by their spouses. Others made the effort to be open, but ended up losing a "loved one", while before some could their spouses have deliberately become inquisitive and dug out some shocking past. Now, these have propelled me to ask... When do you think is the right time to tell your gf/bf of your horrible past?. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Tell Your Spouse Of Your Horrible Past?. by ikp120(m): 12:39pm On Feb 19, 2017 |
When he asks you a question, give am the answer (plus or minus nothing). If he no ask you, then shut the fvck up! Of course a guy like me doesn't really care about the goddamn past. But that doesn't mean say me no go ask her o. It's just to keep my database up to date as an ICT expert. ***Strokes my bear bear*** 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Tell Your Spouse Of Your Horrible Past?. by bamosagie(m): 12:40pm On Feb 19, 2017 |
Benita27: Never.... What the eyes doesn't see, the ears doesn't hear, the heart doesn't grieve about. 2 Likes |
Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Tell Your Spouse Of Your Horrible Past?. by youngdanee(m): 12:41pm On Feb 19, 2017 |
I'll never tell, it'll kill him No quote me abeg |
Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Tell Your Spouse Of Your Horrible Past?. by dingbang(m): 12:42pm On Feb 19, 2017 |
Ur boyfriend/girlfriend is not Jesus Christ who has mandated you to cast ur burdens on him... From personal experience its best u do not even let him or her know and pray he or she doesn't even find out.. You only confess when the time arises and whatever happens , you accept it in good faith.. Remember, its always a 50-50 chance. Peace. |
Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Tell Your Spouse Of Your Horrible Past?. by Nobody: 12:42pm On Feb 19, 2017 |
ikp120:What will happen in a situation he never asked but heard from someone?. Don't forget some past could freak someone out. |
Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Tell Your Spouse Of Your Horrible Past?. by CaroLyner(f): 12:43pm On Feb 19, 2017 |
"Horrible" is a rather strong word. |
Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Tell Your Spouse Of Your Horrible Past?. by Nobody: 12:43pm On Feb 19, 2017 |
youngdanee:What if he finds out?. |
Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Tell Your Spouse Of Your Horrible Past?. by Nobody: 12:44pm On Feb 19, 2017 |
Depends on the past you're telling. Some pasts better remain in the past 1 Like |
Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Tell Your Spouse Of Your Horrible Past?. by dingbang(m): 12:45pm On Feb 19, 2017 |
Benita27:then u ask him if he will marry you if u confess all to him.. If he says no, den u tell him u don't owe him any explanation and if he says yes, u tell him all |
Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Tell Your Spouse Of Your Horrible Past?. by Nobody: 12:45pm On Feb 19, 2017 |
Before s/he finds out |
Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Tell Your Spouse Of Your Horrible Past?. by Nobody: 12:45pm On Feb 19, 2017 |
dingbang:If you don't tell him and he finds out, you come up as a liar, which could make him never to trust you. |
Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Tell Your Spouse Of Your Horrible Past?. by dingbang(m): 12:47pm On Feb 19, 2017 |
Benita27:I just replied u about what to do next when he finds out |
Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Tell Your Spouse Of Your Horrible Past?. by ikp120(m): 12:47pm On Feb 19, 2017 |
Benita27: Then he will have himself to blame for not asking deep questions. The guy or girl CANNOT even tell you all the ugly things about him or her except you ask am really terrible probing questions. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Tell Your Spouse Of Your Horrible Past?. by Nobody: 12:47pm On Feb 19, 2017 |
dingbang:Asking him a question like "will you marry me if i tell you of my past?". Will make you seem desperate for marriage. Not a good idea. |
Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Tell Your Spouse Of Your Horrible Past?. by Nobody: 12:48pm On Feb 19, 2017 |
ikp120:Hmm!, kind of right. 1 Like |
Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Tell Your Spouse Of Your Horrible Past?. by dingbang(m): 12:49pm On Feb 19, 2017 |
Benita27:its not being desperate.. Will u afford telling every tom dick and harry you had a form of rship with in d past and when u both happen to break up, they go on spilling secrets just like I did to barbieklaus? think... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Tell Your Spouse Of Your Horrible Past?. by Nobody: 12:50pm On Feb 19, 2017 |
Jacksparr0w127:If he/she digs out this past don't you think it backfires?. |
Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Tell Your Spouse Of Your Horrible Past?. by Nobody: 12:52pm On Feb 19, 2017 |
dingbang:I suppose we're talking of a relationship where both parties are committed. Marriage is already on the table, transparency is required. |
Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Tell Your Spouse Of Your Horrible Past?. by Nobody: 12:53pm On Feb 19, 2017 |
CaroLyner:Yeah!, people do have horrible past. |
Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Tell Your Spouse Of Your Horrible Past?. by dingbang(m): 12:53pm On Feb 19, 2017 |
Benita27:no relationship is a committed relationship until they both take it to the altar! |
Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Tell Your Spouse Of Your Horrible Past?. by Nobody: 12:53pm On Feb 19, 2017 |
Benita27:'Dig' you said. Who dey find go see na. Sometimes, some secrets are kept from partners out of respect and love. To avoid hurting them 1 Like |
Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Tell Your Spouse Of Your Horrible Past?. by Nobody: 12:54pm On Feb 19, 2017 |
The first day he approached you... I mean it better you let him/her know what's in the river before swimming with him 2 Likes |
Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Tell Your Spouse Of Your Horrible Past?. by Gladiator1: 12:56pm On Feb 19, 2017 |
Itz best to STFU |
Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Tell Your Spouse Of Your Horrible Past?. by Nobody: 12:56pm On Feb 19, 2017 |
Jacksparr0w127:Most people don't see it that way, they would rather prefer to be told. 1 Like |
Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Tell Your Spouse Of Your Horrible Past?. by dingbang(m): 12:56pm On Feb 19, 2017 |
ikp120:mehn.... Have u ever been questioned by a prosecutor in a court? |
Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Tell Your Spouse Of Your Horrible Past?. by Nobody: 12:58pm On Feb 19, 2017 |
TheSlyone2:Is wrong to tell such on first days. I believe is preferable on the long run. |
Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Tell Your Spouse Of Your Horrible Past?. by Nobody: 1:00pm On Feb 19, 2017 |
Benita27:So you prefer to give someone unnecessary hypertension.. Abi. |
Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Tell Your Spouse Of Your Horrible Past?. by Nobody: 1:00pm On Feb 19, 2017 |
dingbang:Are you kidding me?, are couples not committed in courtship?. |
Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Tell Your Spouse Of Your Horrible Past?. by Nobody: 1:01pm On Feb 19, 2017 |
I thank God say i no get horrible past to share. |
Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Tell Your Spouse Of Your Horrible Past?. by Nobody: 1:02pm On Feb 19, 2017 |
TheSlyone2:I will need to know how much he could handle, that is only achievable on the long-run. |
Re: When Is The Appropriate Time To Tell Your Spouse Of Your Horrible Past?. by SINZ: 1:02pm On Feb 19, 2017 |
Nah... Don't do it. |
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