If you are unmarried, store this as info to use when you do get married. For the married, please share with your spouse.

MANY sisters have boasted in my presence of how often they have had to 'lock shop' early, or how they lock shop for weeks, sometimes months, in order to teach hubby a lesson or just to spite him. These sisters are of the impression that they can do as they please, because they have the shop keys. As a result, they lock shop for every little thing, without giving consideration to the 'shopper'.



There are exceptions to every rule, and opinions will sometimes differ. However, where shop-locking is concerned, my philosophy is that shop should remain open at all times. I agree that teeth and tongue will meet, but shop-locking should never be used as a weapon or tool in conflict resolution. Couples should find suitable ways to solve problems.



It is a fact that not all 'shops' have a common closing time. As a matter of fact when one shop door closes, another is usually right around the corner with a big neon sign that blinks 'OPEN FOR BUSINESS'. Be wary of shops that are open late! The goods they stock are usually illegal, contaminated or expired. Ladies, if you or hubby should get sick or go to an early grave, let it not be due to consumption of tainted goods from another woman's shop.



Shop-locking adds fuel to fire in most cases. Women should never be fooled into believing that by putting up a 'CLOSED' sign on the shop door they are on their way to problem solving. Women, a hungry man will not allow himself to starve to death. Some will stop at nothing in their quest to satisfy their seemingly insatiable hunger. They will accept anything, whether hot and spicy or cold and icy. Some men will eat food not for taste, but for mere survival. They eat to live, to satisfy a need. That, my friends, is the nature of man.



When shop locks, who suffers more? In reality isn't it the shopkeeper more than the shopper? Sisters, please, I implore you, learn from the immigrants who come and set up shop on our soil, and keep shop open. Stop closing shop for every little thing. Open shop in shop seasons. Open shop on holidays. Open shop late at nights. Open shop during storm and hurricane. Open shop when shop should be open.



Even the well-bred man who eats out and scrupulously cleans his hands and mouth will bring home even a morsel from his street meal. Visualise what could happen when shop reopens for business as usual and some of his contaminated crumbs fall onto your plate. Imagine that you would have contributed to this scenario by locking shop. Always leave your shop open to your man. A word to the wise is sufficient!

Source: https://www.google.com.ng/amp/amp.jamaicaobserver.com/magazines/allwoman/When-shop-lock


Lalasticlala mynd44

P.S
This also applies to boyfriend girlfriend relationship

hmm

WinningEleven:


When shop locks, who suffers more? In reality isn't it the shopkeeper more than the shopper? Sisters, please, I implore you, learn from the immigrants who come and set up shop on our soil, and keep shop open. Stop closing shop for every little thing. Open shop in shop seasons. Open shop on holidays. Open shop late at nights. Open shop during storm and hurricane. Open shop when shop should be open.

You must be an angel as well as a shop keeper.

CArt:


You must be an angel as well as a shop keeper.

I'm neither o

Hmmmm, shop locking lol

What's this one saying?

tee59:
What's this one saying?

He said u shouldn't lock shop

tee59:
What's this one saying?

kindly reboot your self and read the text again.

WinningEleven:
If you are unmarried, store this as info to use when you do get married. For the married, please share with your spouse.



MANY sisters have boasted in my presence of how often they have had to 'lock shop' early, or how they lock shop for weeks, sometimes months, in order to teach hubby a lesson or just to spite him. These sisters are of the impression that they can do as they please, because they have the shop keys. As a result, they lock shop for every little thing, without giving consideration to the 'shopper'.



There are exceptions to every rule, and opinions will sometimes differ. However, where shop-locking is concerned, my philosophy is that shop should remain open at all times. I agree that teeth and tongue will meet, but shop-locking should never be used as a weapon or tool in conflict resolution. Couples should find suitable ways to solve problems.



It is a fact that not all 'shops' have a common closing time. As a matter of fact when one shop door closes, another is usually right around the corner with a big neon sign that blinks 'OPEN FOR BUSINESS'. Be wary of shops that are open late! The goods they stock are usually illegal, contaminated or expired. Ladies, if you or hubby should get sick or go to an early grave, let it not be due to consumption of tainted goods from another woman's shop.



Shop-locking adds fuel to fire in most cases. Women should never be fooled into believing that by putting up a 'CLOSED' sign on the shop door they are on their way to problem solving. Women, a hungry man will not allow himself to starve to death. Some will stop at nothing in their quest to satisfy their seemingly insatiable hunger. They will accept anything, whether hot and spicy or cold and icy. Some men will eat food not for taste, but for mere survival. They eat to live, to satisfy a need. That, my friends, is the nature of man.



When shop locks, who suffers more? In reality isn't it the shopkeeper more than the shopper? Sisters, please, I implore you, learn from the immigrants who come and set up shop on our soil, and keep shop open. Stop closing shop for every little thing. Open shop in shop seasons. Open shop on holidays. Open shop late at nights. Open shop during storm and hurricane. Open shop when shop should be open.



Even the well-bred man who eats out and scrupulously cleans his hands and mouth will bring home even a morsel from his street meal. Visualise what could happen when shop reopens for business as usual and some of his contaminated crumbs fall onto your plate. Imagine that you would have contributed to this scenario by locking shop. Always leave your shop open to your man. A word to the wise is sufficient!

It's all about orientation and how the lady is brought up.
Also depends on if the shopper in this case has convinced the shop owner that he can't get goods elsewhere then begins the effrontery.
That kind of effrontery can only be combated the same way it was started.

1) She locks shop, u give her bedroom Sharia.

2) She throw away the key, u give her generalized Sharia (including Sharia on Ur credit cards and bank accounts). Ofcos u continue Ur responsibilities to Ur kids if u have them.

3) She begins to hyp about it, u give her total Sharia (including malice, not eating her food among other things). U cap it up with always being around to play with Ur kids, take them out, buy Ur kids things be a wonderful dad and all.
But on her level, just give her silent treatment, zero attention.

NB: never raise Ur hands on her, never but Ur silent treatment will definitely win u the honey pot.

Na leverage games and the first person to blink looses.
Just be there to collect Ur price once she comes to apologize and don't be an asshole about it.

4) None of this works then u don't have a relationship with Ur spouse and that means no form of leverage. Means u have a lot of work to do.

drnoel:


It's all about orientation and how the lady is brought up.
Also depends on if the shopper in this case has convinced the shop owner that he can't get goods elsewhere then begins the effrontery.
That kind of effrontery can only be combated the same way it was started.

1) She locks shop, u give her bedroom Sharia.

2) She throw away the key, u give her generalized Sharia (including Sharia on Ur credit cards and bank accounts). Ofcos u continue Ur responsibilities on Ur kids if I have them.

3) She begins to hyp about it, u give her total Sharia (including malice, not eating her food among other things). U cap it up with always being around to play with Ur kids, take them out, buy Ur kids things be a wonderful dad and all.
But on her level, just give her silent treatment, zero attention.
NB: never raise Ur hands on her, never but Ur silent treatment will definitely win u the honey pot.
Na leverage games and the first person to blink looses.
Just be there to collect Ur price once she comes to apologize and don't be an asshole about it.

4) None of this works then u don't have a relationship with Ur spouse and that means no form of leverage. Means u have a lot of work to do.

hmmm...
That's true. But it doesn't work all the time

LMAO @ locking shop

tosyne2much:
LMAO @ locking shop

Just wanted to add a bit of humour to it

WinningEleven:
hmmm...
That's true. But it doesn't work all the time

Have been in many relationship and Nr 1 always worked then.

After I got married, i never had to try Nr 2 and 3 till recently and it worked.
I mean I can't know how another ladies will react but if u have a good relationship with Ur spouse. It works everytime cos have given same advice to all my married friends and they all attest it works like magic.
I think the catch there is that u guys have to really have a thing before the quarrels for it to work.

WinningEleven:
hmmm...
That's true. But it doesn't work all the time

Have been in many relationship and Nr 1 always worked then.

After I got married, i never had to try Nr 2 and 3 till recently and it worked.
I mean I can't know how other ladies will react but if u have a good relationship with Ur spouse. It works everytime cos have given same advice to all my married friends and they all attest it works like magic.
I think the catch there is that u guys have to really have a thing before the quarrels for it to work.

drnoel:


Have been in many relationship and Nr 1 always worked then.

After I got married, i never had to try Nr 2 and 3 till recently and it worked.
I mean I can't know how other ladies will react but if u have a good relationship with Ur spouse. It works everytime cos have given same advice to all my married friends and they all attest it works like magic.
I think the catch there is that u guys have to really have a thing before the quarrels for it to work.

its okay

QueenNatasha:
messenger we hia you

Close shop for some men and see them never cared as if your shop ever existed.

highqueen:
Close shop for some men and see them never cared as if your shop ever existed.

Abhii ooo... Lol... I don't care,, if she likes to close shop...

DanDeeBoss:
Abhii ooo... Lol... I don't care,, if she likes to close shop...

True, there are guys like that.
They might not go outside or something but can deal with you with their strong mind

highqueen:

True, there are guys like that.
They might not go outside or something but can deal with you with their strong mind

guys like me

Can't it be broken?

highqueen:
Close shop for some men and see them never cared as if your shop ever existed.

can u open shop for me? I want to buy things."winks*

dancok:
Can't it be broken?

rape scandal loading

dancok:
can u open shop for me? I want to buy things."winks*

cant you see that I'm in front of you? Its better you queue and stay behind

highqueen:

True, there are guys like that.
They might not go outside or something but can deal with you with their strong mind

I can do that too...dunno but if you refuse me something,,, I wouldn't care about it any longer.... On many occasions sha

highqueen:
Close shop for some men and see them never cared as if your shop ever existed.

Lol

hmmm
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Depends on the spouse,
Don't eat,feel free to starve
Don't fvck,plenty alternatives dey
Credit cards,she no de work?

The world has changed.

For chicks that hoard sex I wonder why? Why not fvck and enjoy then find other ways to punish if you must?

In all,it is better to have a sensible conversation with your spouse than play mind games.

highqueen:
Close shop for some men and see them never cared as if your shop ever existed.

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Goddammit . You just described me perfectly.