Mightyraw:

Really,?
You only see that in movies bro

kimbra:
For the fact that you won't, doesn't mean others don't. The world doesn't revolve around you.

Mightyraw:

It's not all about about, it's all about average reasoning,
There are over 4 billion female on the planet,
Why get your wife in a brothel

Safiaa:
Now, I know that know that not everybody is going to agree with me, but this is strictly my opinion. This is a thread strictly dedicated to the ladies.
If you're a virgin, kudos to you! I applaud you as it takes a lot of self control. However, this thread is not aimed at you.

We all have a past, and as we know most ladies these days are sexual active. A lot of girls are sexual active from the age of 18 +. I don't have time for hypocrisy on this thread, because we all know what happens behind closed doors. We live in a society where women are not allowed to be comfortable sexually. We are shamed for talking about our sex lives and labelled with derogatory names for having more than the average sex partners in our lives. This needs to stop and it starts from us.

The reality is that women enjoy sex just as much as men do. Probably even more. If you like to have sex, make yourself happy and do you! If you have slept with more than 5 men in your life, so what? Now i'm not promoting women to sleep with every tom dick and harry, but stop with the lies! Stop lying to your partners about sleeping with 1 or 2 guys when you know its 6 or 7. Be real and live in your truth. I'd rather someone judge me for my truth than for my lies. Stop with the pretense. If we accept our sexuality more, we could be looking at a positive change. Its okay to like sex, it doesn't make you a hoe! It's okay if you've had more than 1 or 2 sexual partners, doesn't make you promiscuous. STOP TRYING TO FIT IN WHAT SOCIETY WANTS YOU TO BE, BE YOURSELF!!!!

There's someone out there, who will love you for you.

kimbra:
But most guys still visit the brothel. So what are you talking about?.

Safiaa:
I have absolutely nothing to hide.I don't live in a life full of pretense. I live in my truth and i'm happy with that. My future husband will definitely know the amount of guys I've had sex with. That's what i'm trying to encourage other ladies to do.

Mightyraw:

Most Some guys do,
And they do so to ease the moment,
No one keeps a hoe forever

kimbra:
Like I said. If you won't keep a whòre forever doesn't mean another wouldn't.

Mightyraw:

If she a hoe, am definitely gonna tell my Niqqa she is a hoe, left to him to decide
Trust me, I haven't seen one willing to keep a LovePeddler

kimbra:
How many of your male-folks indulge in relationships without sex?, once someone is an ex the other person wishes they never got involved with such persons. Poo happens!.

Well, as for ladies, we often times come to that age we realize sex isn't the foundation a relationship should be built on then stop giving in easily.

bitcoinvin:
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This is the oly place u made sense..

Kondomatic:
Sometimes is just best to ignore these people, I meant these young ladies that think they already have guys figured out.

Before I started dating, friends already think I am pro because I flow well with women in and around our hood and I used to spice the night stories with a lie or two so they think I have nailed all the ladies they see me with.

@topic.

It isn't just body counts that ladies should stop lying about, there's a lie in virtually everything they say or do. My friend once once dated a lady who cries like a cat in labour during sex and would never initiate sex no matter what, fast forward to now that they're married, she initiates sex all the times except when the other thing is happening. Guy told me that the lady she dated and the one she married are two different people. The one she married rarely moan during sex.

Why the unnecessary lies?

An ex told me one day that I am her second but she doesn't know that I know too much about her and truth is I was actually her sixth and there's a seventh guy.

Nonsense.

NotOfThis:
For me, I don't have a body count, as I'm keeping myself from marriage.

But I think it's definitely good for women to be proud of and embrace their sexuality, however they define it for themselves. If the topic comes up with your partner, you should be able to speak your mind freely and if he wants to be judgemental, say goodbye and kick him to the curb. There's much more to a woman than her body count, or lack thereof.

kimbra:
Rules of a gentleman.

You don't ask a lady you're not dating her body count.

kimbra:
Why not look at it from another angle. Perhaps her message is, girls should stop lying about it when the need to discuss them with their spouses arise. If it's 20, say it's 20 not 15. One from the other 5 could hunt you later.

CreamyMoltenLar:
This thread would make more sense if it focused on the need for girls to ensure that they have a body count they can boldly reveal to their partners. Why keep having sex until you feel ashamed of the truth? If you know you'd be ashamed of admitting you've had sex with over 10 men, then don't have sex with up to 10 men, its that simple. And stop this "I was raped" story, its getting old. A guy that loves you will stay. I'd marry a girl I love deeply, even if she's had 100 lovers. Its unfair that guys get to have sex and women are expected to keep themselves, but that's just how it is.

kimbra:
I have seen, and have read such even on here.

bitcoinvin:




my dear this is wrong oooooooooooo..as a woman u must never say all truth at the same time,thats why we have many types of lies...There is a thread about many types of lie..
Infact in our respective lives,u must not claim holy or say u are a christain,therefore dont tell lies..
Sometimes lies saves.
No coming to what u said,Do u think if a woman i want to marry opens up to me that she has slept with 20 guys i will be happy..Many men will flee.
One thing about sex that woman dont understand is this:As many men u sleep in ur life,when the times for marriage comes which tides u down to one single man,many will never stay or addapt cos they are used to many sex partners.
Ladies reduce ur sex action with men..1 or 2 persons is ok but when u Bleep:chike,Him friend,emeka,Ikenna ,Ekene etc,u hardly desist from it

dingbang:
see dis one.. Did dey tell u say I be gentleman? Who dey do dah nonsense...

Splinz:


Shall we then use the word “providence”? Shall we say if “by providence you're able to sleep with 200 men, count it all joy and tell your would-be husband about it”?

kimbra:
That one concern you, Hector.

dingbang:
all these girls sef... Dey find who go wash their dirry feet

kimbra:
That's probably 'cause yours is dirty.

dingbang:
u ain't making sense girl.. Don't try too hard

Mightyraw:

If she a hoe, am definitely gonna tell my Niqqa she is a hoe, left to him to decide
Trust me, I haven't seen one willing to keep a wh|ore

MrsPhysics:

If you go around looking for who your wife have slept with, you will see many of them. Once it's marriage, forget the old playing days.

If my wife dated and slept with four guys at age 22 with an available one now? and she tell me that expecting me to be clapping for her, in as much as she is honest, I won't even accept she counted them right. Do you know how it feels knowing that someone around have slept with your wife.

TheCabal:


Lanre Gentry

dingbang:
but I didn't ask u... Did I?