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11 Ways To Tell If Someone Is Telling You The Truth, According To Science by Takeit2017(m): 7:11pm On Mar 13, 2017
Wouldn’t the world be such a simple place if someone’s nose really grew when they told a lie? Then we wouldn’t have to spend so much time trying to determine whether people are telling the truth. Luckily, though, there are scientific ways to tell if someone is being honest that can guide us in the right direction. The signs of honesty, which we'll get to below, are a combination of both verbal and non-verbal cues that all are dead giveaways, based on research and practice.

It can be nothing short of frustrating when we feel someone might be lying to us, but we can’t seem to get to the bottom of whether they are really telling the truth or fibbing. Lies can be thrown at us by countless people in our lives — from friends, to family, to significant others, coworkers and more. Sometimes the lies are tiny little white ones — like, “I love your new dress,” or “No, your hair doesn’t look messy today” — but, other times they might be big and very significant — like, “No, I didn’t cheat on you,” or “It wasn’t me who stole money from you.” When considering the latter group of lies, I’m sure many of us can agree that it's vital to be able to tell if the person is telling us the truth or not. For that reason, let’s discuss some tactics that could be helpful in cracking the case. Here are 11 scientific ways to tell if someone is telling you the truth.

1. Their Story Is Longer & Detailed



If you’re suspecting someone is lying, yet they tell you a story that is lengthy, complete, and fully detailed, it’s likely they’re actually telling the truth, according to Psychology Today. The outlet said a short story, or one that seems to be strung together and incomplete, might tend to be one that is fabricated.

2. They’re Holding The Right Amount Of Eye Contact



Eyes have the power to be extremely telling at times, particularly when it comes to whether people are telling the truth or not. When I think about it, I assume liars would have a difficult time holding eye contact, but it turns out the opposite is true. According to research reported on in Psychology Today, “liars maintain more deliberate eye contact than do truthful people.” With that in mind, pay attention to the eye contact the person in question is maintain with you — if it doesn’t feel like a complete stare down, and rather is moments of eye contact followed by glances away, it could be a sign they’re being genuine.

3. Their Breathing Is Steady


Business Insider spoke to Dr. Lillian Glass, a behavioral analyst and body language expert and author of The Body Language of Liars, who said someone who is lying to you may begin to breathe heavily as they’re speaking. “In essence, they are out of breath because their heart rate and blood flow change,” Glass said of liars. “Your body experiences these types of changes when you’re nervous and feeling tense — when you lie.” Is the person you’re speaking with maintaining steady breathing? The words they’re speaking could likely be the truth.

4. Their Voice Is Steady, Too


In addition to steady breathing, those who are telling the truth also tend to have a steady speaking voice. Real Simple spoke to Gregg McCrary, a retired FBI criminal profiler and a crime analyst in Fredericksburg, VA, who said it’s important to first pick up on how the person usually speaks (animated, subdued, etc.) and then take note of if their voice is changing as they tell certain parts of a story. If their voice is steady, it’s a good indication the person is telling the truth.

5. They Neglect To Blame Negative Outside Forces


While liars tend to use negative outside forces as excuses (e.g., “I’m late again because there was so much traffic”), truth tellers are less likely to do so. Fox News Magazine quoted Noah Zanden, science communicator and chief executive of Quantified Communications, who said liars will tend to blame these outside forces because deep down — on some level — they might actually feel guilty about the fact that what they’re saying isn’t true. Listen closely to the person you’re speaking with. Are they constantly blaming in this way? If not, they might be in the clear.

6. You Haven’t Noticed Them Touching Their Nose



Watch the person’s hands. Are they reaching up and touching their nose as they’re speaking? Nose touching is a sign of fibbing, according to Dr. Alan Hirsch of The Smell & Taste Treatment and Research Foundation in Chicago. This is because certain tissues in the nose usually engorge when a person is telling a lie, releasing histamine and making the nose itch. If the person hasn’t been touching their nose at all, take this as a good sign.

7. They’re Not Covering Their Throat



Likewise, hands will cover certain “vulnerable” body parts when someone is telling a lie, according to Glass. Glass told Business Insider the areas liars tend to cover include their throat, head, abdomen, or chest. On the flip side, truth tellers won’t have the urge to do so, so watch their body movements and take note of how they’re moving and what they’re covering.

8. Their Rate Of Blinking Doesn’t Change



Back to the eyes for a moment — blinking is a very easy way to detect if someone is telling you the truth. Those who are being honest will maintain a consistent rhythm of blinking as they’re speaking to you. Oppositely, according to research discussed by the Daily Mail, a liar will blink more slowly when they’re telling a lie, and then the blinking speed will increase up to eight time faster than normal after the lie has been told.

9. They’re Speaking In Complete Sentences



According to research out of UCLA on the topic of lying, liars tend to use sentence fragments more often while speaking, while truth tellers tend to speak in complete sentences. So, in addition to picking up on the non-verbal cues we’ve discussed already in detail, be sure to pay attention to how the person is forming sentences.

10. There’s No Fake Smile In Sight



A genuine smile (that which engages the eye muscles) is good. A fake smile could mean something is up. The Telegraph reported on a study that showed one of the body movements associated with a lie is a fake smile. Why? According to the study, liars have an “increased activity of the ‘zygomatic major muscles’, located around the mouth,” and it can force the face into a fake smile.

11. Your Instincts Are Telling You It’s The Truth



Did anyone ever tell you you should follow your instincts? Turns out that when we’re deciding whether to trust someone or not, we really should rely on those automatic instincts we have after all. According to research out of the Haas School of Business at the University of California, Berkeley, our instincts for determining whether someone is lying or telling the truth are fairly strong. The research showed, rather, that it’s our conscious minds that sometimes let us judge the situation the wrong way. If you have that gut feeling either way, listen to it.

Now that you’re schooled on some of the tell tale signs someone is being honest, you might be pleasantly surprised to learn the people around you are more truthful than you might have imagined. We al know not everyone is going to tell the truth all of the time, so at least now we can more easily detect when stories or statements are honest, or big ‘ol fibs.

SOURCE: TRENDZ BASE.COM

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Re: 11 Ways To Tell If Someone Is Telling You The Truth, According To Science by mazimee(m): 7:18pm On Mar 13, 2017
I guess this your list doesn't apply to Nigerians

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Re: 11 Ways To Tell If Someone Is Telling You The Truth, According To Science by yomi007k(m): 7:23pm On Mar 13, 2017
mazimee:
I guess this your list doesn't apply to Nigerians


No mind am....dem no sabi
Re: 11 Ways To Tell If Someone Is Telling You The Truth, According To Science by Nobody: 7:26pm On Mar 13, 2017
Nice list. grin

Tell tale signs I use to spot a liar.

Body language.

Eye contact.

Talking too much in an attempt to distract me.

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Re: 11 Ways To Tell If Someone Is Telling You The Truth, According To Science by kayo80(m): 7:36pm On Mar 13, 2017
Hmm! Using this to judge Stephanie Otobo, I think she is tell the truth. I have watched all her video interviews and she has been very consistent and detailed with her stories, never blinks unnecessarily, doesn't cover her throat, doesn't touch her nose, and is always relaxed.

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Re: 11 Ways To Tell If Someone Is Telling You The Truth, According To Science by BlackDBagba: 7:39pm On Mar 13, 2017
Still a liar! grin
Re: 11 Ways To Tell If Someone Is Telling You The Truth, According To Science by themonk(m): 8:03pm On Mar 13, 2017
Uniquegrace and rawgirl has been lying about their love for me cry


Now I know
Re: 11 Ways To Tell If Someone Is Telling You The Truth, According To Science by Nobody: 8:07pm On Mar 13, 2017
themonk:
Uniquegrace and rawgirl has been lying about their love for me cry


Now I know
lol, you should know I love you to the moon and back now.


but , I don't this moniker, LMAO
Re: 11 Ways To Tell If Someone Is Telling You The Truth, According To Science by themonk(m): 8:15pm On Mar 13, 2017
UniQuegrACE:
lol, you should know I love you to the moon and back now.


but , I don't this moniker, LMAO


grin I love you too dear kiss
*hugs her tight*
But you are breathing heavily, I hope you are jonzing me undecided
My moniker? I had to leave the.monastery so I could love you I feel its part of my life calling to hold you tight and sing sweet song to your ears kiss

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Re: 11 Ways To Tell If Someone Is Telling You The Truth, According To Science by Nobody: 8:17pm On Mar 13, 2017
themonk:

grin I love you too dear kiss
*hugs her tight*
But you are breathing heavily, I hope you are jonzing me undecided
My moniker? I had to leave the.monastery so I could love you I feel its part of my life calling to hold you tight and sing sweet song to your ears kiss
lol, who are you.
alobright17 right
Re: 11 Ways To Tell If Someone Is Telling You The Truth, According To Science by themonk(m): 8:22pm On Mar 13, 2017
UniQuegrACE:
lol, who are you.
alobright17 right
Who is that? angry
Have u been cheating one?
Re: 11 Ways To Tell If Someone Is Telling You The Truth, According To Science by asahnwaKC: 8:23pm On Mar 13, 2017
Wow
Re: 11 Ways To Tell If Someone Is Telling You The Truth, According To Science by Nobody: 8:26pm On Mar 13, 2017
themonk:

Who is that? angry
Have u been cheating one?
lol, cheat keh?? lailai. you're the only one in my register. but this themonk?? I fear ooo
Re: 11 Ways To Tell If Someone Is Telling You The Truth, According To Science by themonk(m): 8:41pm On Mar 13, 2017
UniQuegrACE:
lol, cheat keh?? lailai. you're the only one in my register. but this themonk?? I fear ooo
*Singing in davidos voice * if I tell you say I love you oo, my money,
my body na your own oo baby,
grin
Lol, I just saw you viewing this post went through your profile and saw so many interest ing posts and decided you are someone I would love to flirt with.. grin
Re: 11 Ways To Tell If Someone Is Telling You The Truth, According To Science by Nobody: 8:44pm On Mar 13, 2017
themonk:

*Singing in davidos voice * if I tell you say I love you oo, my money,
my body na your own oo baby,
grin
Lol, I just saw you viewing this post went through your profile and saw so many interest ing posts and decided you are someone I would love to flirt with.. grin
lol, you're not serious and I decided to play along.
just checked your profile na so so women you follow hay hay, hmmmm
Re: 11 Ways To Tell If Someone Is Telling You The Truth, According To Science by themonk(m): 8:52pm On Mar 13, 2017
UniQuegrACE:
lol, you're not serious and I decided to play along with you
lol, Funny enough all the best friends ive made in life where through wierd ways like this. grin

When I was at the university, I once poured water from the top floor of my lodge and unintentionally it just rained on a girl who cane to visit another girl in my lodge, see shouting for my head that day sad
This girl later later become my tight friend o, come dey cook for me for lodge sef grin
Re: 11 Ways To Tell If Someone Is Telling You The Truth, According To Science by Nobody: 9:00pm On Mar 13, 2017
themonk:

lol, Funny enough all the best friends ive made in life where through wierd ways like this. grin

When I was at the university, I once poured water from the top floor of my lodge and unintentionally it just rained on a girl who cane to visit another girl in my lodge, see shouting for my head that day sad
This girl later later become my tight friend o, come dey cook for me for lodge sef grin
lol, poured water on a stranger, that's weird. if I were the girl I would have made sure I broke your head, the way I use to break ice in my grandma's shop. see themonk your jazz won't work for me
Re: 11 Ways To Tell If Someone Is Telling You The Truth, According To Science by themonk(m): 9:05pm On Mar 13, 2017
UniQuegrACE:
lol, poured water on a stranger, that's weird. if I were the girl I would have made sure I broke your head, the way I use to break ice in my grandma's shop. see themonk your jazz won't work for me
Hahahhaahaha @break ice at your mama's shop
This girl you funny o, the last girl that made me laugh like this I fell in love with her but she later broke my heart.
I hope you wont break my heart cry
Its not jazz o, its love. Love works in spiritual ways you know. I believe you are a nice person, please dont break my head o, grin
Re: 11 Ways To Tell If Someone Is Telling You The Truth, According To Science by Nobody: 9:21pm On Mar 13, 2017
themonk:

Hahahhaahaha @break ice at your mama's shop
This girl you funny o, the last girl that made me laugh like this I fell in love with her but she later broke my heart.
I hope you wont break my heart cry
Its not jazz o, its love. Love works in spiritual ways you know. I believe you are a nice person, please dont break my head o, grin
aww, broke your heart?? but as for me I won't only break your heart , I'll smash it too! lol, I'm nice. okay mo ni break head ee tan
Re: 11 Ways To Tell If Someone Is Telling You The Truth, According To Science by themonk(m): 9:33pm On Mar 13, 2017
UniQuegrACE:
aww, broke your heart?? but as for me I won't only break your heart , I'll smash it too! lol, I'm nice. okay mo ni break head ee tan
Aah, please ooo, seems you like breaking things but my love would change everything for you, you will not feel the urge to break heart or head again, I mean maybe you will only feel the urge to break your virginity but not heart or head grin...lol
I dont speak or hear yoruba but ive always wanted to learn. Hope you can help me cheesy
Re: 11 Ways To Tell If Someone Is Telling You The Truth, According To Science by Nobody: 9:48pm On Mar 13, 2017
themonk:

Aah, please ooo, seems you like breaking things but my love would change everything for you, you will not feel the urge to break heart or head again, I mean maybe you will only feel the urge to break your virginity but not heart or head grin...lol
I dont speak or hear yoruba but ive always wanted to learn. Hope you can help me cheesy
lol, you're not serious. Oh, so you ain't Yoruba, you what then?
Re: 11 Ways To Tell If Someone Is Telling You The Truth, According To Science by themonk(m): 9:51pm On Mar 13, 2017
UniQuegrACE:
lol, you're not serious. Oh, so you ain't Yoruba, you what then?
Igbo o
I just came to southwest last year ending sha, since then ive been making some yoruba friends. I stay in lagos sha, you?
Re: 11 Ways To Tell If Someone Is Telling You The Truth, According To Science by Nobody: 9:51pm On Mar 13, 2017
themonk:

Aah, please ooo, seems you like breaking things but my love would change everything for you, you will not feel the urge to break heart or head again, I mean maybe you will only feel the urge to break your virginity but not heart or head grin...lol
I dont speak or hear yoruba but ive always wanted to learn. Hope you can help me cheesy
lol, you are not serious. oh, so you ain't Yoruba, you what then?
Re: 11 Ways To Tell If Someone Is Telling You The Truth, According To Science by themonk(m): 9:58pm On Mar 13, 2017
UniQuegrACE:
lol, you are not serious. oh, so you ain't Yoruba, you what then?
Am a Igbo o grin
Re: 11 Ways To Tell If Someone Is Telling You The Truth, According To Science by chicoMX(m): 10:01pm On Mar 13, 2017
Op I wish you could see the way I'm lookingat you, let me not reveal my secrets
Re: 11 Ways To Tell If Someone Is Telling You The Truth, According To Science by rawgurl(f): 10:09pm On Mar 13, 2017
themonk:

Am a Igbo o grin

this guy ina achu so nwanyi.
Re: 11 Ways To Tell If Someone Is Telling You The Truth, According To Science by themonk(m): 10:10pm On Mar 13, 2017
rawgurl:


this guy ina achu so nwanyi.
My love, it is you that is my real love o grin
Ive missed you
Re: 11 Ways To Tell If Someone Is Telling You The Truth, According To Science by themonk(m): 10:12pm On Mar 13, 2017
rawgurl:


this guy ina achu so nwanyi.
Kedu ka I mere nwanyi oma

Ada mara mma
Re: 11 Ways To Tell If Someone Is Telling You The Truth, According To Science by rawgurl(f): 10:13pm On Mar 13, 2017
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Re: 11 Ways To Tell If Someone Is Telling You The Truth, According To Science by tosyne2much(m): 10:15pm On Mar 13, 2017
This can only work for enthusiast liars.. Lemme introduce a veteran liar to you , Kolade, my childhood friend, and you will see that this lists cannot help you decipher his truth from lies cheesy

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Re: 11 Ways To Tell If Someone Is Telling You The Truth, According To Science by Nobody: 10:15pm On Mar 13, 2017
themonk:

Igbo o
I just came to southwest last year ending sha, since then ive been making some yoruba friends. I stay in lagos sha, you?
okay , good to know. but where in the east are you from?. good, Yoruba 's are friendly
Re: 11 Ways To Tell If Someone Is Telling You The Truth, According To Science by themonk(m): 10:18pm On Mar 13, 2017
rawgurl:


how many girls have u told that today ? cheesycheesycheesy
Noooo, how can I say that to anyother girl, I have told you that you are the only one that turn me on, without you I might turn gay or something more deplorable. Its your love that keeps me sane grin

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