amhurting:

^^^^

Amen. A good man will come our way.

Amen, Up till this day, I have not had sexual intercourse with any man in my life, I want my husband to be the first partaker of the fruit. thats why i said I have waited this long.

amhurting:

long story.
summary: the relationship is over. he ended it.

Oh really? Saw it coming. Take care. Hope you are holding up pretty good.

Gestapo will you marry me?

chika98:

Oh really? Saw it coming. Take care. Hope you are holding up pretty good.

thanks. Its been tough. Very.
But good news is:  i have stopped all the crying 

adolfe bad:

Gestapo will you marry me?

How old are you ? Whats your height, and your Body Structure ?

How much do you earn,  and whats your source of Income ? what are your qualifications ?

Do you have a Green card or Red Passport ?

gestapo:



How old are you ? Whats your height, and your Body Structure ?

How much do you earn, and whats your source of Income ? what are your qualifications ?

Do you have a Green card or Red Passport ?

gestapo:

Amen, Up till this day, I have not had sexual intercourse with any man in my life, I want my husband to be the first partaker of the fruit. thats why i said I have waited this long.

 **** coughs******

gestapo:

Wao, hell no, dont want any relative choosing my own man for me, all my friends are married, ill try to hook up with 1 or 2 though  

With the kind of way and manner u have gone about this man issue, I dont think U have the luxury to decline help. U need to open urself to all possibilities , including blind dates set up by relatives and well-wishers  
Besides, U are going to Naija for only three weeks after a long absence; what are the odds of landing urself a dude in that time frame without outside help?  

gestapo:

Amen, Up till this day, I have not had sexual intercourse with any man in my life, I want my husband to be the first partaker of the fruit. thats why i said I have waited this long.

What fruit?
Oh. . . .I see the reason behind your 'predicament' now.
Good luck with you and em fruit.

I'll be praying for you.

gestapo:



How old are you ? Whats your height, and your Body Structure ?

How much do you earn,  and whats your source of Income ? what are your qualifications ?

Do you have a Green card or Red Passport ?

Chineke meee!!!  

Uche2nna:

Chineke meee!!!  

Looking for a wife too?

The Sly:

What fruit?
Oh. . . .I see the reason behind your 'predicament' now.
Good luck with you and em fruit.

I will not compromise my stand, Ill rather die than have a man who is not married to me violate my body, My body is God's temple.

The way that seems right unto man, the end thereof is destruction.

amhurting:

thanks. Its been tough. Very.
But good news is:  i have stopped all the crying 

Good to hear that you've stopped crying. At least now you know where you stand as opposed to him ignoring you. Life goes on. Better things can only be had.

FL Gators:

Looking for a wife too?

And you'll never find one.

chika98:

Good to hear that you've stopped crying. At least now you know where you stand as opposed to him ignoring you. Life goes on. Better things can only be had.

very very true. thanks

amhurting:

long story.
summary: the relationship is over. he ended it.

He ended it ?

I have had 6 relationships and i have not given in to sex, the last guy is a Frencg guy, he is still the most adorable man i have ever found, no pressures for sex and all that, but my Mum says i have to marry a Naija man.  

mama-gee:

And you'll never find one.

gestapo:

He ended it ?

I have had 6 relationships and i have not given in to sex, the last guy is a Frencg guy, he is still the most adorable man i have ever found, no pressures for sex and all that, but my Mum says i have to marry a Naija man.  

that just there might be the genesis of this whole thing.

Uche2nna:


With the kind of way and manner u have gone about this man issue, I dont think U have the luxury to decline help. U need to open urself to all possibilities , including blind dates set up by relatives and well-wishers  
Besides, U are going to Naija for only three weeks after a long absence; what are the odds of landing urself a dude in that time frame without outside help?  

I will not just give in to just anything in trousers because of parental pressures, i still have my criteria and im very picky when it comes to men.

FL Gators:

gestapo:

He ended it ?

I have had 6 relationships and i have not given in to sex, the last guy is a Frencg guy, he is still the most adorable man i have ever found, no pressures for sex and all that, but my Mum says i have to marry a Naija man.  

Same here, but I dnt see it happening

gestapo:

He ended it ?

I have had 6 relationships and i have not given in to sex, the last guy is a Frencg guy, he is still the most adorable man i have ever found, no pressures for sex and all that, but my Mum says i have to marry a Naija man.  

And herein lies ur problem.

gestapo:

I will not just give in to just anything in trousers because of parental pressures, i still have my criteria and im very picky when it comes to men.

Thats very noble. However, since u set a time frame for urself (3 weeks in Naija) I figure U are going to need all the help U can get. Or else, U are going to fall for one smooth talking brutha    And boy, do we talk smooth these dayz!!!!!!!

FL Gators:

Same here, but I dnt see it happening

Am I finding it hard to get a man because im in the wrong country ?

If i had stayed back in Nigeria 18 years ago would i have been married with kids now ?

Im so Confused.

Now i have all the physical and financial qualifications except a green card but i culd sweet talk you over that and~
supposing we got married and i used you to get a green card, i culd patiently endure you for say five years during which you won't get pregnant becuz i wuld always add a chemical to your drinking water at intervals but you'l neva find out then i wuld frustrate you and give you numerous reasons to get a divorce. Then i wuld be free to get myself a real wife not minding that i kind of ruined you~
now don't call me callous but do you know why i wuld do all that?

this topic made my evening.    

gestapo:

Am I finding it hard to get a man because im in the wrong country ?

If i had stayed back in Nigeria 18 years ago would i have been married with kids now ?

Im so Confused.

They're there. Its just that the population is small.

Giving them the right to act shi.t.ty because they think they're all naija womenz got.

While you're looking or when you find one, dont make it obvious that you want to get married.

FL Gators:

They're there. Its just that the population is small.

Giving them the right to act shi.t.ty because they think they're all naija womenz got.

While you're looking or when you find one, dont make it obvious that you want to get married.

Thank you my sister, I live in Washington, Naija men here are whacked, I guess youre in FL

adolfe bad:

Now i have all the physical and financial qualifications except a green card but i culd sweet talk you over that and~
supposing we got married and i used you to get a green card, i culd patiently endure you for say five years during which you won't get pregnant becuz i wuld always add a chemical to your drinking water at intervals but you'l neva find out then i wuld frustrate you and give you numerous reasons to get a divorce. Then i wuld be free to get myself a real wife not minding that i kind of ruined you~
now don't call me callous but do you know why i wuld do all that?

I think this is a true reflection of an average naija man, they just want to use us as passport materials

gestapo:

Am I finding it hard to get a man because im in the wrong country ?

Nope. U have had 6 relationships, so it is not as if U have problems attracting a dude.
The problem is that U have restricted urself. If U have to marry a Naija man and U are overseas, then be ready to exercise some patience. Or an alternative (which I actually favor), open up ur possibilities. U cant live among midgets and insist on NOT marrying a dwarf.  

Uche2nna:

Nope. U have had 6 relationships, so it is not as if U have problems attracting a dude.
The problem is that U have restricted urself. If U have to marry a Naija man and U are overseas, then be ready to exercise some patience. Or an alternative (which I actually favor), open up your possibilities. U cant live among midgets and insist on NOT marrying a dwarf.  

If Opening up possibilities is compromising my body to please a man, then ild rather die a spinster, I will get married in heaven.

gestapo,
If u go back to naija, u will meet guys who will be desperate to marry u because they want to leave the country. lol

Your pastor's prophesy is correct, 2010 is your year to get a husband. a french husband  
for a correct naija husband and a good marriage, you have to wait till 2050 for that. srry


ur very pretty by the way no homo.

my dear not all our men with only a green passport see a potential wife as a way to get them out of the country - i think putting that in ur mindset may help.

don't u have friends who can help with a introduction