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Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by dynamic007(m): 10:35pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Acidosis:This is succint and very apt advice. |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by toloohthegreat: 10:35pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
MIB1:na cos she be woman man dey do am and ...nothing dey happen... (in 2baba's voice) so dis...no be lie, hear am (in 2baba's voice) buh chill guy, go dey enjoy your girl buh one eyes on that her coz sha o, so im no go become a curse for your union SOLUTION: keep him at an arms length. never so close. I'm talking from life experience. cheers 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by Nobody: 10:35pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
MIB1:Deep down, you don't trust her much. If you are still worried about it, QUIT!. Marriage is different from boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. There are days the love would fade off, you'd be left with trust... I pray you don't remember this her affair with her cousin on that day. Try and forget about it so you can enjoy your marriage. Some girls though... 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by chuksjuve(m): 10:36pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Posting it on Naira land won't change anything, it will instead leave you more devastated due to the diverse and misleading opinions you will get... As a Christian , God is whom you should pray to And He's the only one who can heal and grant you everlasting joy and peace of mind with regards to the situation.. kindly get off from listening to people's opinion and turn on to the scriptures . Shalom!!! 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by Alariwo2: 10:36pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
kratoss: cos you muslims do it doesn't make it proper Any form of carnal knowledge with an immediate family member is considered incest 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by JennyOfOldstones(f): 10:36pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
@MIB1. She has been honest with you about it so there's no reason for you to be bothered about it and since she opened up,there's little chance of her messing up again. ..besides Cousin-Cousin marriages and relationships are not regarded as incest and are legal in many countries in the world. It used to be most common type of marriage in Europe and Asia .It's just that it lost its popularity in the late 20th Century after WWII. And...surprisingly the Bible doesn't prohibit Cousin marriages or relationships. Unless you're a Catholic...A pope in the 6th Century banned it |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by rezzy: 10:36pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
tonyfran: I know a muslim Hausa guy that married his cousin. It's not a taboo to him. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by ndidibabe(f): 10:37pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
O MIB1: If you love her, do not marry her. For you to have brought this issue up here, you are really pained. I believe you will continue to refer to this issue if you eventually marry her. This would eventually ruin her and the marriage. If you love her deeply, just advise her to forget about you and never mention the incest relationship to anyone willing to marry her. The truth is bitter.... 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by GeniusDavid(m): 10:37pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Joavid: The Power of "Horniness". Word's got so much authority and power. Same Reasons Fathers sleep with daughters. |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by notoriousbabe: 10:37pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Must you tell the whole world about this? Na wa for you o Abet who get fresh cucumber for house make she borrow me, my dis thing dey scratch me 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by cybriz82(m): 10:38pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
MIB1: oga which incest...assuming she no tell u nko?? well i blame her since her mouth no dey stay 1 place...all ladies in d house pls n pls from 2day onward dnt share ur secret with any man..evn if u get chicken pox for ur yansh..i repeat do not tell him.. 5 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by gabicon: 10:39pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
that she told you shows her honesty and openness, if she has forgiven herself, and since she has prayed God has forgiven her also. my suggestion is you forgive her too and move on, the truth is she could have kept it to herself till her grave, don't make it difficult for her to confide in you in the future. and pls stop thinking or talking about it so that you can forget. I wish you a happy married life in advance. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by wristbangle: 10:39pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Majikals: Best comment on this thread. God bless you for this comment bro. It shows you are truly rooted in the word of God 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by charzy26(m): 10:40pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Acidosis:most stupid advice I HV heard in my life, we bro she and the cousin have already grown out of that moreover, she told u and still HV confessed to her creator, case closed go ahead and do the needful if u love her. |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by TonyeBarcanista(m): 10:40pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
notoriousbabe:i get, come and take it |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by Skimpledawg(m): 10:40pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Joavid:@ the bolded, my cousin has been professing love for me for a while now and when I asked her what she wanted out of such a relationship, she bluntly said sexx. The way I ran for my dear life ehh, Bolt dey learn It's just not right mehn 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by GeniusDavid(m): 10:40pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Evaberry:Just when we thought we've seen it all on Nairaland! 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by Alariwo2: 10:40pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
chuksjuve: you're not wise Even kings that God grants privilege to receive bow and worship of men which only He should have counsels The bible also made mention of elders and living creatures serving as counsels to papa God Himself so what's your point |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by menxer: 10:41pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Some Women sha, with itching mouth in the name of confession, abi na love. Some things are better left unsaid. What you don't know can never bother you. 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by Nobody: 10:42pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
t111:Na hunger punishment be fasting o-o. Op, never follow this advice.... We consign fasting and deliverance for the matter? Ehh? 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by Nobody: 10:42pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Chongaiman: It is totally different , he can stop her from seeing an ex who is not related to her but can he stop her from seeing her cousin or the cousin from seeing her , more so events will surely bring them together. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by ngmgeek(m): 10:43pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
It's ok to leave her now and move on, if you want to. That's your choice. But if decide to marry her and then revisit this revelation, God may punish you instead of her. She has probably atoned for her sin and that's a sign of strength and not weakness. She is ready to love you entirely without leaving anything behind and that means that she is a bold and courageous lady. What kind of woman would you rather marry? The one who told you the truth or the one who kept something like this from you? Anyways, the choice is yours. Take her or leave her 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by Nobody: 10:43pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
MIB1:Once on be relationship na |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by israel90: 10:44pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
guy dont make silly mistake,she confide to you because she is afraid you might know someday.you are going to live with it to the rest of your life.better go and look for another person to marry and live in peace rather than in pieces.u will regret it if you go ahead bet me. 5 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by fmarshal(m): 10:44pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
MIB1: You said you have prayed on her behalf, and she has also fasted and prayed. Then why doubt that the blood of Christ has not cleansed her from all unrighteousness I advise you to move on. God has forgiven and forgotten. |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by Majikals(m): 10:44pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
rinzylee:You are right though but if she had stomached that secret like most people naturally would have done, and you heard it from a different source when you are already miles into the marriage, you will feel a 1000 times worse than how you are feeling now. The ball is in your court chief. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by ikp120(m): 10:45pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
All these religious folks eh. Na wa o. Who never sin before? Abeg Gerarahia mehn! 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by kratoss(m): 10:45pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Alariwo2: Oga derz no place i mentioned it being proper or not proper, but go n browse anywhere incest varies with traditions, and that ur tradition forbids it dsnt mke it improper too.. ... U can start with Wikipedia |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by Nobody: 10:47pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
charzy26: Most stupid comment I've read in a while 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by jidebond: 10:48pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
There is nothing to be scared of she has repented already Wat if she didn't tell u, and in the Bible people even married their cousins |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by onadana: 10:48pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
MIB1: And you believed. Who licks sugar once? 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by Alariwo2: 10:48pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
kratoss: Ok The OP should dump that girl ASAP else he'll end up in deep regrets later in life The girl is simply worthless.. whether she opened up or not 2 Likes |
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