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Re: I Hate Been Looked On As A Sex Object! by SNOWCREAM(m): 10:23pm On Mar 30, 2017
ZarZar:


LMAO. Based on your 5 points, I'm not even a runner-up, I went straight to disqualification on arrival cheesy The woes of not being seen, as you guys have subtly put it tongue
hahaha don't tell me you're unseen? Who's more seen? You or the other unseen lady? grin
Re: I Hate Been Looked On As A Sex Object! by TakeBanana: 11:18pm On Mar 30, 2017
Alero3Arubi:
I find it annoying.
I don't like the cat calls from men.
Or the balant stare men give my pesky breast, hips or ass and lick their lips.
Basically this disgusts me and makes me loose respect for that male.
I can talk to any and everyman.
I am no snob.
But I will not stand for sexual crudeness.
Now its bad enough that as a lepa girl that I am, I have yo deal with this from guys. And if that had been the only sphere of endurance I would not have wished to rant.
The insane thing is when Females do the same thing!
You will gear words like
'you should wear heavier padded cups to make your breasts look fuller'
'dont you think your hips need some enhancement cream?'
'gosh you've got such flat tummy, if only you had an ass to go with it!'
'your lips need some work on it, so it can look fuller and pink'
'if I had your height I would flaunt it and get a lot of magas'
I know my breasts are pesky.
I know my hips aren't full.
My ass is flat yes i get it.
But I don't really bother about these things.
So can they think of more important things to say?
The one that really gets at me is:
'dont you think you should exchange your glasses for contacts? They would look better on you. Plus a lot sexier if you got a free colour'
I hate wearing glasses.
I have never been able to pull it off as cool the way a lot of people do.
I make sure no one sees me, except in occasions when the itching starts and I just have no choice.
So it bites me when I'm being ridiculed about them.
And for the reason of seeming sexy too!
Crap.
I give up.


You make me laugh. It's obvious you haven't had a taste of a good banana.


Dont bother disturbing me though.
Re: I Hate Been Looked On As A Sex Object! by agrovick(m): 12:22am On Mar 31, 2017
Which kain wahala be this?
Does perky buubs have a new meaning cos Ayam not understanding
Re: I Hate Been Looked On As A Sex Object! by lilmax(m): 12:33am On Mar 31, 2017
but you are not attractive na grin......if na Kim dey talk now we go understand

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Re: I Hate Been Looked On As A Sex Object! by Nobody: 5:37am On Mar 31, 2017
lilmax:
but you are not attractive na grin......if na Kim dey talk now we go understand

Exactly why I get frustrated when it happens.
Re: I Hate Been Looked On As A Sex Object! by SNOWCREAM(m): 6:17am On Mar 31, 2017
Alero3Arubi:


Exactly why I get frustrated when it happens.
oya take your frustrations to third mainland bridge and jump angry
Re: I Hate Been Looked On As A Sex Object! by duduade: 6:48am On Mar 31, 2017
Alero3Arubi:
I find it annoying.
I don't like the cat calls from men.
Or the balant stare men give my pesky breast, hips or ass and lick their lips.
Basically this disgusts me and makes me loose respect for that male.
I can talk to any and everyman.
I am no snob.
But I will not stand for sexual crudeness.
Now its bad enough that as a lepa girl that I am, I have yo deal with this from guys. And if that had been the only sphere of endurance I would not have wished to rant.
The insane thing is when Females do the same thing!
You will gear words like
'you should wear heavier padded cups to make your breasts look fuller'
'dont you think your hips need some enhancement cream?'
'gosh you've got such flat tummy, if only you had an ass to go with it!'
'your lips need some work on it, so it can look fuller and pink'
'if I had your height I would flaunt it and get a lot of magas'
I know my breasts are pesky.
I know my hips aren't full.
My ass is flat yes i get it.
But I don't really bother about these things.
So can they think of more important things to say?
The one that really gets at me is:
'dont you think you should exchange your glasses for contacts? They would look better on you. Plus a lot sexier if you got a free colour'
I hate wearing glasses.
I have never been able to pull it off as cool the way a lot of people do.
I make sure no one sees me, except in occasions when the itching starts and I just have no choice.
So it bites me when I'm being ridiculed about them.
And for the reason of seeming sexy too!
Crap.
I give up.

If guys don't look at you wahala.... You will say it's spiritual.... What exactly do you want
Re: I Hate Been Looked On As A Sex Object! by numericalguy(m): 6:59am On Mar 31, 2017
Kai!! Danburoba!

Men don suffer.. Even extremely wowwor, silly and broke azz girls now talk at men.
Re: I Hate Been Looked On As A Sex Object! by HARDDON: 8:22am On Mar 31, 2017
Nma27:
I won't b surprised if you all already sent a pm.... Yimu for all d guys yabbing d op

undecided undecided

Nice try,
Still i didnt notice U
Re: I Hate Been Looked On As A Sex Object! by BaEnki(m): 8:43am On Mar 31, 2017
Alero3Arubi:
I find it annoying.
I don't like the cat calls from men.
Or the balant stare men give my pesky breast, hips or ass and lick their lips.
Basically this disgusts me and makes me loose respect for that male.
I can talk to any and everyman.
I am no snob.
But I will not stand for sexual crudeness.
Now its bad enough that as a lepa girl that I am, I have yo deal with this from guys. And if that had been the only sphere of endurance I would not have wished to rant.
The insane thing is when Females do the same thing!
You will gear words like
'you should wear heavier padded cups to make your breasts look fuller'
'dont you think your hips need some enhancement cream?'
'gosh you've got such flat tummy, if only you had an ass to go with it!'
'your lips need some work on it, so it can look fuller and pink'
'if I had your height I would flaunt it and get a lot of magas'
I know my breasts are pesky.
I know my hips aren't full.
My ass is flat yes i get it.
But I don't really bother about these things.
So can they think of more important things to say?
The one that really gets at me is:
'dont you think you should exchange your glasses for contacts? They would look better on you. Plus a lot sexier if you got a free colour'
I hate wearing glasses.
I have never been able to pull it off as cool the way a lot of people do.
I make sure no one sees me, except in occasions when the itching starts and I just have no choice.
So it bites me when I'm being ridiculed about them.
And for the reason of seeming sexy too!
Crap.
I give up.

Hey Arubi,
Men are bullies, we can do and undo to get under.
You're perfectly okey and you'll get the right man at the right time.

Don't succumb to men pressure, and don't allow yourself to be subdued by them and then see you as a sex object.

Don't give up.

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Re: I Hate Been Looked On As A Sex Object! by Nobody: 10:39am On Mar 31, 2017
HARDDON:

undecided undecided
Nice try, Still i didnt notice U
Lol, yet u quoted me.... Swerve
Re: I Hate Been Looked On As A Sex Object! by Nobody: 10:39am On Mar 31, 2017
HARDDON:

undecided undecided
Nice try, Still i didnt notice U
Lol, yet u quoted me.... Swerve
Re: I Hate Been Looked On As A Sex Object! by hardbody: 11:35am On Mar 31, 2017
torres89:
y do i have the feeling this op isn't attractive

It is not your feeling, it is her confession
Re: I Hate Been Looked On As A Sex Object! by Amarabae(f): 11:46am On Mar 31, 2017
Chai. Men get bad mouth o

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Re: I Hate Been Looked On As A Sex Object! by SNOWCREAM(m): 11:52am On Mar 31, 2017
Amarabae:
Chai. Men get bad mouth o
You're pretty kiss You see? I get good mouth, only me
Re: I Hate Been Looked On As A Sex Object! by Amarabae(f): 11:59am On Mar 31, 2017
SNOWCREAM:
You're pretty kiss You see? I get good mouth, only me
go jor, see how you guys insulted the OP, Its bad. Don't hurt innocent peoples emotion.

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Re: I Hate Been Looked On As A Sex Object! by SNOWCREAM(m): 12:04pm On Mar 31, 2017
Amarabae:
go jor, see how you guys insulted the OP, Its bad. Don't hurt innocent peoples emotion.
See this our wonderful brother below actually put in nice words for her, we can't all say she's hot and dope, her shakara will be plenty towards the few genuine guys trynna approach her, it's the bro code dear wink


BaEnki:


Hey Arubi,
Men are bullies, we can do and undo to get under.
You're perfectly okey and you'll get the right man at the right time.

Don't succumb to men pressure, and don't allow yourself to be subdued by them and then see you as a sex object.

Don't give up.
Re: I Hate Been Looked On As A Sex Object! by jakandeola(m): 12:05pm On Mar 31, 2017
Amarabae:
go jor, see how you guys insulted the OP, Its bad. Don't hurt innocent peoples emotion.
hmm my wife u just forgot me
Re: I Hate Been Looked On As A Sex Object! by Nobody: 1:12pm On Mar 31, 2017
Mtchew..dem ladies love the attention. Is it the stares on there buts or boobs?? They enjoy it alot because it boosts there confidence. There frurstrations comes from the fact that they hate being shy whenever those kinda attention are hulled towards them. (E.g) a girl would wear a tight fitting gown just a little above there knees,goes straight to the mirrow draws it up a little to review there thighs. The same lady would draw the top of the gown down a little to revill cleavages and smile to herself how hot she is,then she goes out and walks pass a group of guys who then stares at those God-given feminine assets in a manner that'll make her want to fall mostly if she's on hills. This ladies would annoyingly start adjusting herself and curses in her mind not because of Dem boyz,but because of her failure to handle those piercing looks from the men-folk.

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Re: I Hate Been Looked On As A Sex Object! by Nobody: 2:30pm On Mar 31, 2017
pablo69:
Mtchew..dem ladies love the attention. Is it the stares on there buts or boobs?? They enjoy it alot because it boosts there confidence. There frurstrations comes from the fact that they hate being shy whenever those kinda attention are hulled towards them. (E.g) a girl would wear a tight fitting gown just a little above there knees,goes straight to the mirrow draws it up a little to review there thighs. The same lady would draw the top of the gown down a little to revill cleavages and smile to herself how hot she is,then she goes out and walks pass a group of guys who then stares at those God-given feminine assets in a manner that'll make her want to fall mostly if she's on hills. This ladies would annoyingly start adjusting herself and curses in her mind not because of Dem boyz,but because of her failure to handle those piercing looks from the men-folk.

I don't do any of this.
I don't mind men trying to become friends.
My major concern is that they are always lusting even after you have covered everything.
I don't use make up either.
Except when I did do facial model for some makeup firms.
Recently I stopped making my hair and switched to low cut.
The annoying thing is because of how most guys view ladies, ladies themselves now view their fellow females in a sex light.
I feel there is more to life than the need to look hot! Sexy! Alluring!
Anyway seems to me that that's what's appealing now.
And from the responses I gathered the guys just confirmed my initial assumption.

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Re: I Hate Been Looked On As A Sex Object! by Nobody: 2:33pm On Mar 31, 2017
BaEnki:


Hey Arubi,
Men are bullies, we can do and undo to get under.
You're perfectly okey and you'll get the right man at the right time.

Don't succumb to men pressure, and don't allow yourself to be subdued by them and then see you as a sex object.

Don't give up.

I wont.
Thanks.
I actually have met very wonderful men in my little lived life.
Poets, engineers, economists, think tanks themselves alright.
And its been a wonderful experience.
Oh I forgot to add doctors.
But then they are always in the minority.
Am not currently interested in any relationship anyway.
Trying to build my life up, to my profession.
So there is no distraction of any sort.
Re: I Hate Been Looked On As A Sex Object! by Lagusta(m): 2:45pm On Mar 31, 2017
SNOWCREAM:
oya take your frustrations to third mainland bridge and jump angry

you are nothing but a cyber bully, its because of people like you, others contemplate suicide....

go and lick your wounds elsewhere....

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Re: I Hate Been Looked On As A Sex Object! by SNOWCREAM(m): 2:48pm On Mar 31, 2017
Lagusta:


you are nothing but a cyber bully, its because of people like you, others contemplate suicide....

go and lick your wounds elsewhere....
Read my signature
Re: I Hate Been Looked On As A Sex Object! by KaBabs1: 3:32pm On Mar 31, 2017
Alero3Arubi:
I find it annoying.
I don't like the cat calls from men.
Or the balant stare men give my pesky breast, hips or ass and lick their lips.
Basically this disgusts me and makes me loose respect for that male.
I can talk to any and everyman.
I am no snob.
But I will not stand for sexual crudeness.
Now its bad enough that as a lepa girl that I am, I have yo deal with this from guys. And if that had been the only sphere of endurance I would not have wished to rant.
The insane thing is when Females do the same thing!
You will gear words like
'you should wear heavier padded cups to make your breasts look fuller'
'dont you think your hips need some enhancement cream?'
'gosh you've got such flat tummy, if only you had an ass to go with it!'
'your lips need some work on it, so it can look fuller and pink'
'if I had your height I would flaunt it and get a lot of magas'
I know my breasts are pesky.
I know my hips aren't full.
My ass is flat yes i get it.
But I don't really bother about these things.
So can they think of more important things to say?
The one that really gets at me is:
'dont you think you should exchange your glasses for contacts? They would look better on you. Plus a lot sexier if you got a free colour'
I hate wearing glasses.
I have never been able to pull it off as cool the way a lot of people do.
I make sure no one sees me, except in occasions when the itching starts and I just have no choice.
So it bites me when I'm being ridiculed about them.
And for the reason of seeming sexy too!
Crap.
I give up.

Hi Alero, myname is Yinka. I really love this piece. Its absolutely beautiful. Please, do you write prose? I will like you to write some fiction stories for me. I will pay you, of course. Please contact me. Thanks
Re: I Hate Been Looked On As A Sex Object! by Gwan2(m): 4:02pm On Mar 31, 2017
KaBabs1:


Hi Alero, myname is Yinka. I really love this piece. Its absolutely beautiful. Please, do you write prose? I will like you to write some nonfiction stories for me. I will pay you, of course. Please contact me, 08060059836. Thanks
KaBabs my guyyyy.... E sure 4 u, Nice concept bro. grin
Re: I Hate Been Looked On As A Sex Object! by Afriifa(m): 4:03pm On Mar 31, 2017
nikkypearl:
Dear Sis,

please show us the peckey breasts. .coz me I no see any percky breast and hips.


yours faithfully
signature
nikkypearl
e tire me ooo
Re: I Hate Been Looked On As A Sex Object! by Nobody: 4:17pm On Mar 31, 2017
KaBabs1:


Hi Alero, myname is Yinka. I really love this piece. Its absolutely beautiful. Please, do you write prose? I will like you to write some nonfiction stories for me. I will pay you, of course. Please contact me, 08060059836. Thanks

Joke or real.
Re: I Hate Been Looked On As A Sex Object! by Nobody: 4:19pm On Mar 31, 2017
Lagusta:


you are nothing but a cyber bully, its because of people like you, others contemplate suicide....

go and lick your wounds elsewhere....

My padi always there for me.
Even after my many offenses.

I love ya.
Thanks.
Re: I Hate Been Looked On As A Sex Object! by KaBabs1: 5:53pm On Mar 31, 2017
Alero3Arubi:


Joke or real.

Lol am dead serious
Re: I Hate Been Looked On As A Sex Object! by KaBabs1: 5:56pm On Mar 31, 2017
Gwan2:

KaBabs my guyyyy.... E sure 4 u, Nice concept bro. grin

Lol no be like that bros. Am surprised that Alero herself thinks I'm trying to toast her
Re: I Hate Been Looked On As A Sex Object! by PrinzCarter(m): 6:37pm On Mar 31, 2017
nikkypearl:
Dear Sis,

please show us the peckey breasts. .coz me I no see any percky breast and hips.


yours faithfully
signature
nikkypearl
she must show us d breast ooo #istandwithyou#
Re: I Hate Been Looked On As A Sex Object! by Nobody: 7:25pm On Mar 31, 2017
Alero3Arubi:


I don't do any of this.
I don't mind men trying to become friends.
My major concern is that they are always lusting even after you have covered everything.
I don't use make up either.
Except when I did do facial model for some makeup firms.
Recently I stopped making my hair and switched to low cut.
The annoying thing is because of how most guys view ladies, ladies themselves now view their fellow females in a sex light.
I feel there is more to life than the need to look hot! Sexy! Alluring!
Anyway seems to me that that's what's appealing now.
And from the responses I gathered the guys just confirmed my initial assumption.
(clears throat) hey miss... For the fact you ain't like that doesn't mean others ain't the way i explained above...anyways,who'z ya witness?? Lolz.. Ladies put up good fonts wen deh need to...ain't you fascinated at how ladies act "all wife" materials on facebook criticizing there fellow girls on how they behave...truth be told,90% of those ladies ain't what they play to be. Anyways right now i plead thee to answer this question truthfully ...don't you occasionaly fantasize or should i say feel good when guys stare at you?

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