Break ups happen in different ways and forms. For some people, they will walk straight to you and throw words to your face, Others will call for a meeting at a neutral ground and discuss the break up. Some also call it off in a heated argument or fight.

The dangerous one being the silent hiatus where the person decides to break up through signs for the other person to read in between the lines and understand that it's over.

Here are some of the signs to look out for as dubbed out by Relationship blogger, Drift King

1. Level of communication drops. He or she doesn't call you like before anymore. You try to call and the person feels reluctant in picking your calls. When he or she picks excuse is given. His or her answers are just to put you off and end the conversation.
He or she can be online for hours without a simple hi or hello to you but will chat others. Your messages are not replied.

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2. Suddenly the person becomes the most busiest person on earth. He or she is no more able to make time for you because 'I am busy' rules his world. Even the president who governs the whole nation make time for his family.

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3. Unnecessary fight galore. He or she will pick a fight out of everything you say or do simply to frustrate you so you give up. At this point in the relationship there will be fights and misunderstandings throughout. As soon as an issue is resolved another one surfaces.

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4. Some few people will give you the biggest clue by making you hear or see that the have interested in somebody else indirectly. They will be talking on phone with one particular person even in your prescence. They wouldn't mind making some moves in your presence so you see for yourself. This sign is used to get the person pissed off or to make the person feel jealous.

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5. People around you get to know things about your partner and you only hear it from them but not from your partner. It's like you don't exist to him anymore.

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6. He or she doesn't care about you, what you do or how you feel anymore. The love is gone or expired. When you try to fix things he or she gets upset instead.

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7. The person does not make any effort to resolve whatever differences exist between you two. You call for a discussion on what is happening to the relationship and he or she will brush it off or play the busy card. You make every effort to make things work but stiiiillllll.

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8. He or she is comfortable using other people's pictures as dp or profile pictures or screen saver but not you or at least not anymore. Even if you push the person to do it, he or she may put your picture there and tell those who will ask that you are just a friend or you are sick or it's your birthday. So if you really want to put the person to test on this, then the picture must go with a status that defines your status.

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9. You wouldn't be the only person to be avoided but all your close friends especially those who care about you will all be avoided. If the person is known to your parents he or she will equally avoid them so when the break up finally happens they wouldn't feel so sorry or answer questions they don't want to.

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10. If it's a sexual relationship then the sex will be taken out of the relationship either gradually or suddenly with so many excuses. Hugging or kissing sef becomes a problem and if the hug, kiss or sex happens, you can always tell the difference...You can feel you are not wanted. In the case of sex, the person lies down like a log of wood. The kiss is like kissing a statue and the hug is like hugging a tree.


NB: Don't just look at one sign and stand on it to break up. Give the relationship your best shot and if the person doesn't make any effort before calling it off. If the LOVE is gone then no matter what you do or say to the person NOTHING WILL WORK. You will only be in a relationship with yourself while his or her soul and spirit is somewhere else.

As written by Relationship Blogger

Onyejeme Chimere 'Drift King'

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