I need advice on this. Am 26rs just graduated last year and he is 34years. I met him last year September through his sister and we started talking. After 1month he opened up to me that he was married, I was shocked and wanted to avoid him, he told me he got married 2015 and few months after their wedding the lady got pregnant for him but started talking concoctions without his knowledge so as to get rid of the baby, he took her to the hospital and the doctor confirmed that the baby is dead and they have to flush it.

It got him angry and he went extra mile to find out more about the girl, he found out that the girl is already married since 2010 and she also lied to him about her age, she is much older than him. He showed me the girl first wedding pictures and she was also heavily pregnant in the pictures.

The guy invited the girls parent, the pastor that wedded them and his own parents to his house to dissolve the wedding, the pastor destroyed their wedding certificate saying that the lady already belongs to another man.

He came to my house last christmas with his parents to confirm the story because i doubted him. This is 7months we started talking and he have asked me to marry him.

I do really like enough to marry him but the problem is the messages the ex-wife sends to him, the last message she sent was that God will fight for her and he replied her that her charm will no more work on him.

Do you think I should give time before accepting him?

Pls I need advice your advice and not insult.

Source: http://datebadoo..com/2017/04/he-wants-to-marry-me-but-am-scared.html

Well, this looks fabricated.

But then from legal point of view. There was no marriage at all in the first place.


Please check my signature below for your data. Thanks.

He sounds like a keeper to me. I love an honest guy that can back up the stories he tells with some real life evidence. To hell with the crazy lady & her hocus pocus. She just mad she lost a good man.

the lady above has said it all.... he seems plain, if you love him enough, follow him to the alter.

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Cholls:
my sister Sapphire86 come here what do u have to say on this matter.

Hmmmm.... it goes both ways..

The easier option is to X the guy.

But if she has fallen in love and wants to marry him then she must develop a thick skin and certainly be more prayerful. Clearly the ex wife or bae ain't giving him up without a fight but the question is the new bae battle ready??

My advise, if she wants to marry him, let him go and sort out his mess or else she might end being collateral damage caught in the cross fire.

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I would say leave the guy . However, If you are ready to commit, please factor in the ex wife cos she may be well be a thorn in your flesh and may make the marriage hell through means you may not be able to fight.

Have you started fucking him, if yes den u no need our advice go advice yourself.

ZarZar:
He sounds like a keeper to me. I love an honest guy that can back up the stories he tells with some real life evidence. To hell with the crazy lady & her hocus pocus. She just mad she lost a good man.

I wanted to say you sound like a keeper too but after checking your profile. You follow more than 80 people, with more than 90% of them, male.


Well, I am not understanding. Are you selling something?

My dear, he has a past just as u av one. everyone surely do. The interesting part of the story is that, he has an evidence which should convince u. I think u just av to move on if u love him.

Mille:


I wanted to say you sound like a keeper too but after checking your profile. You follow more than 80 people, with more than 90% of them, male.


Well, I am not understanding. Are you selling something?

Wow, really? It made you think I must be selling something? Well, let me tell you something. I'm a very friendly person by nature. If I see a notification, saying someone is following me, I follow back to be polite. It takes nothing out of me to acknowledge someone & give them the same kindness or whatever you wanna call it. I don't even look at their gender, I just follow back. Following each other doesn't mean there's something more to it. It's just people with common interests following each other's posts. At least that's what I assume when I get those notifications. I assume the person must relate to something I said or something along those lines. I never think, "Ooh, potential BF" or anything to do with romance because that's not the kind of person I am.

ZarZar:


Wow, really? It made you think I must be selling something? Well, let me tell you something. I'm a very friendly person by nature. If I see a notification, saying someone is following me, I follow back to be polite. It takes nothing out of me to acknowledge someone & give them the same kindness or whatever you wanna call it. I don't even look at their gender, I just follow back. Following each other doesn't mean there's something more to it. It's just people with common interests following each other's posts. At least that's what I assume when I get those notifications. I assume the person must relate to something I said or something along those lines. I never think, "Ooh, potential BF" or anything to do with romance because that's not the kind of person I am.

Ma'am. I think you took me too serious. It's not like I am insinuating anything. I was just joking and fooling around.

Oya cool down. No vex. Follow me and let me follow you back

ZarZar:
He sounds like a keeper to me. I love an honest guy that can back up the stories he tells with some real life evidence. To hell with the crazy lady & her hocus pocus. She just mad she lost a good man.

once again i totally agree with you. I think the guy is honest, no doubt he is honest. but which keeper is he ? Buffon, casilass or de gea

Alphamale2017:
once again i totally agree with you. I think the guy is honest, no doubt he is honest. but which keeper is he ? Buffon, casilass or de gea

Lol, whichever is the best one between the 3.

But yeah, the guy is a rare breed

ZarZar:


Lol, whichever is the best one between the 3.

But yeah, the guy is a rare breed

lol which of the breed ? German shepherd or rottwelier

Alphamale2017:
lol which of the breed ? German shepherd or rottwelier

Pure bred something. Maybe even a unicorn lol

ZarZar:


Pure bred something. Maybe even a unicorn lol

, u got me, i give up, lol but this guy is one of my students so how come i do not know him ? Because i am the chairman of honest guys association

Alphamale2017:
, u got me, i give up, lol but this guy is one of my students so how come i do not know him ? Because i am the chairman of honest guys association

LMAO. Really? Tell me more...

As far as heaven is concerned he has never been married because she was married to someone else. Moreso, she lied. But take it easy with him. Observe carefully and don,t rush into this MARRAIGE . Let his ex hear he is now dating

ZarZar:


LMAO. Really? Tell me more...

lol its a secret group 8-) would you like to join ?

Alphamale2017:
lol its a secret group 8-) would you like to join ?

I wanted to hear more about the chairman

goodnews777:
As far as heaven is concerned he has never been married because she was married to someone else. Moreso, she lied. But take it easy with him. Observe carefully and don,t rush into this MARRAIGE . Let his ex hear he is now dating

as far as heaven is concerned ? Wow secretery to jesus christ, oshey record keeper

This one strong o...


Just follow your heart.

Alphamale2017:
as far as heaven is concerned ? Wow secretery to jesus christ, oshey record keeper

Hahaha.

ZarZar:


Wow, really? It made you think I must be selling something? Well, let me tell you something. I'm a very friendly person by nature. If I see a notification, saying someone is following me, I follow back to be polite. It takes nothing out of me to acknowledge someone & give them the same kindness or whatever you wanna call it. I don't even look at their gender, I just follow back. Following each other doesn't mean there's something more to it. It's just people with common interests following each other's posts. At least that's what I assume when I get those notifications. I assume the person must relate to something I said or something along those lines. I never think, "Ooh, potential BF" or anything to do with romance because that's not the kind of person I am.

Do you need to Continue replying those trash things? Hell No! Let's them say whatever fits their mouth it won't adds or decreases anything. Some people are attention seekers and they are not worth it

ZarZar:


I wanted to hear more about the chairman

the chairman used to be honest to a fault but after a terrible heartbreak that left a sour taste he rebelled against the 'honesty' code and planned to carry out series of well executed revenges on those daughters of jezebel . The brotherhood heard about it and decided to make him the chairman of the honest guys association , because of his position he could no longer carry out those plans , but who knows , when i hand over to a new chairman, i may decide to still go on a sporadic revenge , judging from your signature what do you suggest i should do ? Revenge or temper justice with mercy ?

MhizTenderly:
Hahaha.

lol , the guy talks like he lives in heaven

ABOKI9ja:
Do you need to Continue replying those trash things? Hell No! Let's them say whatever fits their mouth it won't adds or decreases anything. Some people are attention seekers and they are not worth it

Was just putting it out there because I know the reasoning of some people here. You're obviously wiser than me, oh sage lol. At any slight provocation, I feel the need to rise to the occasion & strike right back Thanks for the reminder though. You're correct. Will try to just ignore

Alphamale2017:
the chairman used to be honest to a fault but after a terrible heartbreak that left a sour taste he rebelled against the 'honesty' code and planned to carry out series of well executed revenges on those daughters of jezebel . The brotherhood heard about it and decided to make him the chairman of the honest guys association , because of his position he could no longer carry out those plans , but who knows , when i hand over to a new chairman, i may decide to still go on a sporadic revenge , judging from your signature what do you suggest i should do ? Revenge or temper justice with mercy ?

Lol, funny. Rise above it all