mployer:

And who told you that is the criteria for God's mercy in marriage?

UjSizzle:
Why all the negativity?
Is it your virginity?

The way you paint it, makes the whole thing feel like a character flaw.

Yes, people's marriages fail but at least it didn't happen because they were ho'ing around.

Pained b*tches everywhere.

Generalsamm:
IT IS. God will never overlook or entertain immorality from any of his children, he wont beg u not to break the virginity but the fact that u broke it meant u've asked him to go to hell and you don't care about his instructions, its only when the going gets tough after marriage that u will call upon him and only to realize there is blood on your hands.....If u said it is not?. Will God turn a blind eye to sin?. Will you still call on him after doing that and expect him to answer?..am referring to Christians here, and any married Christian, Godly lady can testify to this, so its beta u keep shut if u don't understand what am talking about

t2luv1:



I do want to marry a virgin. I want someone with experience.

davidif:


This is wrong on so many levels. The fact that you are a virgin might not mean that your marriage will be perfect but it means that it would save you a whole lot of trouble. It would mean that you won't go into your marriage with so much unnecessary baggage which a lot of couples and the unnecessary scar tissues in your heart from all the nonsense you have been through. There are so many people that go into there marriage with so many issues from there past relationships its not even funny so i don't understand why the writer would write something so reckless. If those guys want to keep theirs let them do so just don't demean there efforts by typing up this rubbish.

godsluvee:
Same here too...

JeffreyJamez:
Many people just commented based on the title and not the post.
The OP made valid points.

If your viginity is all that you have to offer in a marriage,then you're setting yourself up for a shocker!

ethene:

u no get talk, because them don tear ur Toto does not mean u should come here to talk trash. if ur not a virgin am sorry but the bitter truth is that u can't reverse it, it is an irreversible chemical reaction.

emmaitive:
may God punish u for this write up...dnt u know dt the act of sleeping a man once aside marriage can destroy ur destiny, and can even kill

magnificient7:
usually don't comment on topics this long, but my vexation for the op is unparallel. your entire value system needs to be evaluated.

Did you open this thread to draw attention or to discourage virginity?
sometimes we fail to understand the impact of our writeups on an average Nigerian youth.

May you bear the punishment for all those that will be led astray or misguided by this post.

midehi2:
And one virgin that was married into the family sweeps the house once in 2weeks, hunger will vanish if you enter the kitchen for food, washes clothes with basin in the bedroom....mtcheeeew

ShawttySoFyne:
What non_virgins say to make themselves feel better

Vikky014:
that means all virgins sweep the house once in two weeks and keep their kitchen untidy? Lmao. Nairalanders won't kill me oooo

midehi2:

Eeyaa! the sun is too hot for ya brain to see "and one virgin" mtcheeeew!

Vikky014:
Lol. as if you know I dey north.

midehi2:
I thought as much, I can imagine that

midehi2:

then, may you marry such a wife. Amen

Vikky014:
Gerrarahia

sulesadat:


all i pray for is a blessed virgin and not a LovePeddler that isnt ashamed to open her private part for men, what a shame to all NON- virgins girls. I MEAN REAL SHAME!!!, cant guard their privacy for their husband.

midehi2:
can i ask you one question?

sulesadat:


ask ma

midehi2:
no need sef

midehi2:
you too sweetie

Incline:
That someone's a virgin doesn't mean they're devoid of baggage. Everyone has baggage, virgin or not. Everyone goes into marriage with some sort of baggage.

Young03:
Who is a virgin?

Well, i never meet virgins before, all i keep meeting are oloshos

like my stewpid gf