chiraqDemon:
Im reserved when it comes to girls, i prefer to know what im getting to before i ask a girl out, and that brings me to the topic, i can only have feelings for long time friends, if i start catching feelings ill just start hanging out more n studying her then i pop the question (reason is that im not somebody that can stand any emotional stress, most times i battle with depression n have to act normal around ppl so any emotional stress might send me over the edge of a bridge, so i do the study stuff to make sure im going into the right ship.

Now how do u do this without getting fz'd b4 u pop d question

hibiscus76:
really I didn't get the message you were trying to pass across

Fmartin:
mhiztenderly i wana hug u tenderly

MhizTenderly:
Awwwwwwww!

Fmartin:
mhiztenderly i wana hug u tenderly

nepapole:
Ashawo. U no even know weda Na man.

Fmartin:
do u knw d meaning of hug? pastor

nepapole:

Wud u have said that to a male moniker? Imam.

Fmartin:
dictective get loss.. do we hv any biz?

chiraqDemon:
But i mean why do ppl get fzd in the first place, ur looking for someone to share alll ur emotional stress n best moments, then he comes along n u mske him ur brother, only to go and pick up someone that only fvcks and stresses and then he is gone...just don't gettit

Stanleysteno:

finally! Thought i was the only guy confused about this.. I've be looking for the perfect answer to this but got nothing, I'm beginning to think there is no answer to dis...
As for me, i will prefer dating a friend to someone i just met

nepapole:

U too crius bro. Loosen up man. U suppos don see since say Na joke I dey. Nawa for u ooo.

chiraqDemon:

Basically how do u get close to a girl b4 asking her out without getting friendzoned

Curvinus:


From personal experience, women are usually the ones who do the approaching but in a subtle manner. So, before you proceed, here are some of the signs you need to look out for as indication of interest in you:

1. prolonged eye contact: You are having a chat on something mundane like the weather or other basic stuffs and out of the blues you realize she's starring intricately into your eyes, apparently imagining the sweet little things you could do to her behind closed . If this happens, you are in luck bro. Go for the kill.


2. Arms or shoulders brushes past your body in an obvious manner: Okay, she could have noticed you but probably your thoughts are engaged in something else or you are feigning ignorance. Then she slightly lets her arm or shoulder hit yours as she walks past you. It's her own way of saying hi dude?


3. Swinging hips to indicate sexual availability: If she does this in an exaggerated fashion, she could be suggesting she wants you to be in there at the finish.

4. Overt niceness:Guys do this all of the time but what a man can do.......


5. She smiles/laughs at your remarks.

6. She doesn't freak out at your sexual innuendos: Ha ha! Do I need to explain this?

7. She wants to know where you stay....

8. She gets annoyed that you are showing interest in other girls.

9. She leans playfully on your body: Okay there are other guys around maybe at a pool table or a gathering but she still gets close enough to greet you. It's her way of saying to other guys/girls to back off.

10. Talks to you in a respectful and submissive tone: She gets moist at the tone of your voice and responds accordingly.

Like I said, they are all subtle signs but could be the start of something big.

She may pursue you more aggressively though (like grab your balls, hug you tightly, jump on your body) if she thinks you're the real deal.

Good Luck.