vincentjk:
He no longer feels comfortable handing his phone over to you and you're still hear asking long question

Wait until the side chick finally snatch him from u

Sometimes una gals dy fukup o, why don't u service him every night sote he go forget the side chick

vincentjk:
He no longer feels comfortable handing his phone over to you and you're still hear asking long question

Wait until the side chick finally snatch him from u

Sometimes una gals dy fukup o, why don't u service him every night sote he go forget the side chick

Cleopatra4:
Let him be. Give him a space. 5years is way too long for a relationship. Do the things you love to do. Flirt if you can more like a distraction. If he doesn't come to his senses then let him go. Love hurts that is the truth. Come on girl you deserve better. No guy is worth the heartache.

mykel25:



You just sounded like d perception I had for your moniker

Cleopatra4:
Let him be. Give him a space. 5years is way too long for a relationship. Do the things you love to do. Flirt if you can more like a distraction. If he doesn't come to his senses then let him go. Love hurts that is the truth. Come on girl you deserve better. No guy is worth the heartache.

Cleopatra4:

Sometimes we gotta tell ourselves the truth no matter how bitter.

pressplay411:


Lol so men have been reduced to generators that only need all night servicing?
All the servicing in the world won't make a guy marry you if he doesn't see his wife in you.
His sudden change might me attributed to either work transition stress or there's a side chic (hiding his phone which wasn't the case is a red flag)

Instead of speculations, try to communicate with him and ask the important questions; why the changes? what he wants from your relationship, Is he still as committed? if you both still have a future, does he still love you? if there's some one else, as you would rather know your fate than invest your time and energy for nothing.

He's got friends, set your ego aside and try to talk to one of his closest, chances are he'll have your back and talk some sense into his head.
Since you're in a long term relationship with your man, am I right in guessing you're already known to his family? Ensure you're close with them, spend weekends with his fam, when you can.

You're not perfect either, try to assess what you're doing wrong, ask him if you have to, and work on that.

mykel25:
My dear d guy loves you buh it obvious he can't cope with d distance....he has someone distracting him n sharing his attention with u..... If u gat nothing doing try to visit him in two to three months n spend days with him... Always try to rekindle d feeling with emotional gesture..... Crave for him romantically even if it pretense.... Engage him in erotic talks at night and if he wants sexchat or video x just do it....thats some tips to get your boo emotionally attached when distance is an issue..... It works for me it can work for u too1

mykel25:


You are misleading someone.... M sure you assumptions on your partner will make it easy for u to dump him like a rag.... Life is not always like that.... We have to help each other overcome our challenges... D guy Don OP mentioned is facing a challenge he's not cool with n was forced to open up to his gf.... N Ure suggesting d worst!

LordIsaac:

Why do some people think sex and romance is all a relationship needs to thrive? Ehn...where is the place of modesty, common sense, character, godliness...? My friend, any marriage forged in the heat of lust will not stand the test of time!

ladiebee:
Thanks a lot for the advice. He told me that if there were distractions on his own part, those distractions are no longer there but still he still finds it difficult to be the way he was to me.

ladiebee:
please, what advice do you have for me?

LordIsaac:

After 5 "dating" years, you offered such a lackadaisical advice to a fellow woman? You will speak differently when you experience such, as you will!

Cleopatra4:
Let him be. Give him a space. 5years is way too long for a relationship. Do the things you love to do. Flirt if you can more like a distraction. If he doesn't come to his senses then let him go. Love hurts that is the truth. Come on girl you deserve better. No guy is worth the heartache.

Cleopatra4:

Lackadaisical indeed forget it. If Na experience I have a degree in it. See we are all entitled to our opinions so lemme be.

Cleopatra4:

Lackadaisical indeed forget it. If Na experience I have a degree in it. See we are all entitled to our opinions so lemme be.

mykel25:


You are misleading someone.... M sure you assumptions on your partner will make it easy for u to dump him like a rag.... Life is not always like that.... We have to help each other overcome our challenges... D guy Don OP mentioned is facing a challenge he's not cool with n was forced to open up to his gf.... N Ure suggesting d worst!

daylyt:


I want to toast you like bread..

Cleopatra4:

Chai. Mr toaster. I'm all eyes

Cleopatra4:

Relationship expert clap for yourself.

vincentjk:
He no longer feels comfortable handing his phone over to you and you're still hear asking long question

Wait until the side chick finally snatch him from u

Sometimes una gals dy fukup o, why don't u service him every night sote he go forget the side chick

Cleopatra4:
Let him be. Give him a space. 5years is way too long for a relationship. Do the things you love to do. Flirt if you can more like a distraction. If he doesn't come to his senses then let him go. Love hurts that is the truth. Come on girl you deserve better. No guy is worth the heartache.

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