I have had three dates with a guy that I met online. We are still getting to know each other. He has been a perfect gentleman so far. We have not discussed about sex but I am curious if we are compatible on all levels specifically the bedroom. This has been a problem for me in my past relationships. So I want to know if I can ask about his sexual preferences in the bedroom so I will know if we can continue or not so as not to waste his time. Please advise.

Temi

My Response: No

You have only had three dates. You should not negotiate sexual preferences now because you may not get yourself into any relationship. What if every guy you meet is not sexually compatible with you? It is not necessary really. This is just like reading a book from the last page instead of the first page. You will definitely still find out and if he is not satisfying you, then you have every right to break up with him. You have a lot more leverage over a man you have been seeing for six weeks than when you have known eachother for just few hours over one or two weeks.

Thanks for taking time to read..what advice can you give to Temi?

Source: https://seunsdigest./2017/04/26/is-it-right-to-discuss-sexual-preferences-before-we-have-sex/

why the heck will you discuss something like.. do the practical and find out whether you like it or not

There is nothing wrong in discussing about your sexual preferences joor

SmellingAnus:
There is nothing wrong in discussing about your sexual preferences joor

lol....I see you joor. What if you discuss too early and she tells you she likes doing anal sex if you arent into that, wont it discourage you?

oluwasma:
lol....I see you joor. What if you discuss too early and she tells you she likes party..wnt that discourage you?

by party you mean party or thresome ? Anyway, I am not the party type but I dint think it will discourage me... As long as I see other qualities that I deem very important

SmellingAnus:
by party you mean party or thresome ? Anyway, I am not the party type but I dint think it will discourage me... As long as I see other qualities that I deem very important

so you will continue abi

oluwasma:
so you will continue abi

sweetheart do you mean tiresome? Or normal party ?

SmellingAnus:
sweetheart do you mean tiresome? Or normal party ?

party auto correct keeps changing it for me.. not normal party

oluwasma:
party auto correct keeps changing it for me.. not normal party

not normal party... Meaning like party etc... Well, it still can't stop me if it's just a fantasy that can be once in a while.... ( remember I told you that my mind is sexually crazy

SmellingAnus:
not normal party... Meaning like party etc... Well, it still can't stop me if it's just a fantasy that can be once in a while.... ( remember I told you that my mind is sexually crazy

hmmmmmmm I am really suspecting you. Why isnt your picture uploaded so I can know this guy whose mind is sexually crazy

oluwasma:
hmmmmmmm I am really suspecting you. Why isnt your picture uploaded so I can know this guy whose mind is sexually crazy

hahahah I am suspecting you like a sexually crazy guy because you are also sexually crazy

SmellingAnus:
hahahah I am suspecting you like a sexually crazy guy because you are also sexually crazy

bad shild..me and you are not together o