receiving a call from a very close friend last night left me devastated.what am supposed to say to her?, how am I supposed to sooth her?,why are some men this way.

at about 8:47pm last night she called saying her man called her 3 days back to tell her that he got a lady pregnant.And when she demanded to know why he said body no be wood!!.can you imagine!..what a reply.this is a relationship she has invested so much into.she got a job so she had to move out of the area but nevertheless she makes sure that every weekend She goes visiting him.he never return her visits at least to know where his fiance stays now and office.but she didn't take offence.only for this man to call her and tell her he got some lady pregnant.
now the ish is ...fast track to three days later which was yesterday,she found out she was pregnant!!!
for this same man........She is not getting younger...She has been having bad luck with guys....I believe she is approaching 34 or something.
what should she do?
She is talking of removing the baby.but what of other factors?
pls I need constructive answers now as she is in a dilemma.
thanks nairalanders

Nairalanders don't have problems, it is always their friends with all the problems

She should tell him she is pregnant. At 34 she wants to remove a baby.

MissCuppy:
She should tell him she is pregnant.
At 34 she wants to remove a baby.

he is having another lady pregnant at the same time.two women at once

Lol.. We men sef. The kind of depression we bring on our ladies can actually make d devil to be tired or causing harm

She should keep the baby...to hell with that man..i hate men that don't ve control over their emotions

SuperSuave:

Nairalanders don't have problems, it is always their friends with all the problems

you advice here would be highly appreciated thanks.

MhissBelva:
She should keep the baby...to hell with that man..i hate men that don't ve control over their emotions

I want to tell her to keep the baby too but that means she might never get her own man

Let her keep the child...nobody knows tomorrow...

omonighoblessing:
you advice here would be highly appreciated thanks.

if the pregnancy is still young then it will do her a lot of good to abort it if it won't affect her. It seems she's weak emotionally and the guy seems reckless and doesn't even care.

SuperSuave:

Nairalanders don't have problems, it is always their friends with all the problems

Lmao

omonighoblessing:
he is having another lady pregnant at the same time.two women at once

So?

Women don't mind being co-babymamas when money is there.


Or is the guy broke?

Kondomatic:
So?

Women don't mind being co-babymamas when money is there.


Or is the guy broke?

it's not about been a co baby mama.it just means she can't marry him.for him to tell her her about the other lady means he made up his mind on her.tho he don't know her own status.

omonighoblessing:
receiving a call from a very close friend last night left me devastated.what am supposed to say to her?, how am I supposed to sooth her?,why are some men this way.

at about 8:47pm last night she called saying her man called her 3 days back to tell her that he got a lady pregnant.And when she demanded to know why he said body no be wood!!.can you imagine!..what a reply.this is a relationship she has invested so much into.she got a job so she had to move out of the area but nevertheless she makes sure that every weekend She goes visiting him.he never return her visits at least to know where his fiance stays now and office.but she didn't take offence.only for this man to call her and tell her he got some lady pregnant.
now the ish is ...fast track to three days later which was yesterday,she found out she was pregnant!!!
for this same man........She is not getting younger...She has been having bad luck with guys....I believe she is approaching 34 or something.
what should she do?
She is talking of removing the baby.but what of other factors?
pls I need constructive answers now as she is in a dilemma.
thanks nairalanders

such is life my dear sis....but ur friend made a grave mistake , she should have read in between d lines dat d guy did not love her by his actions...nevertheless i would strongly advice her to keep d baby cos abortion aint an option at all cos its murder nd she could also die in d process or damage her womb, so she has gotta be strong nd be determined to let go of d man nd face reality,,,just try to encourage her at all times ...so she wont something she would later regret in life cos life goes on

omonighoblessing:
it's not about been a co baby mama.it just means she can't marry him.for him to tell her her about the other lady means he made up his mind on her.tho he don't know her own status.

Babymamas are not wives

omonighoblessing:
I want to tell her to keep the baby too but that means she might never get her own man

Who said she can't hv her own man?? I've seen men that marry single mothers, atleast, they say "love is blind". Abortion is risky n at her age, I won't advise that

omonighoblessing:
I want to tell her to keep the baby too but that means she might never get her own man

I know most men wouldn't want to marry a woman with a child.

But I strongly believe she will find love again if she has a positive attitude towards life.


Ladies should be careful and extra vigilant about who gets into their pants..some men no just follow

Keep the baby. There is a man out there, who will treat her right.

omonighoblessing:
I want to tell her to keep the baby too but that means she might never get her own man

she will definitely get her own man....but d thing is she should allow depression to take over her life cos it will not end well.....she should man up ,brace her self with determination nd courage eventhough it may not b easy, she has got to fight this cos notin good comes easy.....she should take care of her body nd her kid nd God will definitely see her through.....she must never give up nd i know she will overcome her challenges by GODS grace

u mean she's a baby mama

Safiaa:
Keep the baby. There is a man out there, who will treat her right.

exactly....there is a man designed for her nd in due time dey will definitely meet

Karma is a bitch, i know she might have did dsame thing to a guy when she was young

now she is getting old, all her evil deeds r comin back to haunt her


God bless that guy

the lady will die if she abort that pregnancy

In what way is an abortion risky at her age? Please stop feeding people with lies.

Gladiator1:
Who said she can't hv her own man?? I've seen men that marry single mothers, atleast, they say "love is blind". Abortion is risky n at her age, I won't advise that

Kingoflotto:

such is life my dear sis....but ur friend made a grave mistake , she should have read in between d lines dat d guy did not love her by his actions...nevertheless i would strongly advice her to keep d baby cos abortion aint an option at all cos its murder nd she could also die in d process or damage her womb, so she has gotta be strong nd be determined to let go of d man nd face reality,,,just try to encourage her at all times ...so she wont something she would later regret in life cos life goes on

thank you so much ....

Gladiator1:
Who said she can't hv her own man?? I've seen men that marry single mothers, atleast, they say "love is blind". Abortion is risky n at her age, I won't advise that

thank you dear

omonighoblessing:
he is having another lady pregnant at the same time.two women at once

She should tell the guy she's pregnant and tell her to keep the pregnancy

So after all my advice, dis nairaland girls n dia friends,still phuck dia boyfrds without condom,if he can phuck u wivout,so can he phuck odas,some guys r animals, dey can never ever have conscience

let's be realistic, she's not growing any younger and she's working, so my advise is for her to keep the baby, but she telling the father of the baby is now totally her own decision to make.

omonighoblessing:
he is having another lady pregnant at the same time.two women at once

Let him deal with that

Safiaa:
In what way is an abortion risky at her age? Please stop feeding people with lies.

Was about to ask; in what age is abortion safe?

Safiaa:
In what way is an abortion risky at her age? Please stop feeding people with lies.

Plz,Nxt tym, read before commenting. I said "abortion is risky" irrespective of d age cos one can die or lose her womb and by her age, I meant she's 34 and shouldn't be contemplating abortion cos she's no more a kid... She cud be a single momma

Donpoker9:
Let her keep the child...nobody knows tomorrow...

Sorry I had to quote u, I no wetin dey worry Glo network the reply button refused to open....

Oya back to the gist, I think dat lady is matured enough to know wat is good for her. If she's comfortable and can cater for herself and the baby to hell with the guy. At 35 she wants to remove pregnancy when she's not sure of another man coming her way.... She should wise up ooo, marriage ain't d ultimate abi e get anywhere for bible wey dem say if u no marry u will go to hell. She should relax, if marriage comes she accepts it if it doesn't life goes on..



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