STUPID THINGS A WIFE CAN DO TO MESS UP HER
MARRIAGE

There are fifteen stupid things a Wife can do to
mess up her marriage, I want you to check them
carefully and avoid them.

1) DARING HER HUSBAND TO BEAT HER: You
block the door way, and then dare him to beat you
and see what will happen. Lots of women have
done this in the past and they end up regretting it.
It is unwise to do this.

2) DARING HER HUSBAND TO SLEEP WITH
ANOTHER WOMAN: You will be making a major
mistake if you dare your husband to sleep with
another woman. You may live to regret it

3) NEGLECTING TO DRESS RIGHTLY BECAUSE SHE
IS MARRIED: “I am married, who is looking at me”
That was the defense of Mrs Layi when she was
confronted for the reason why she dressed so
shabbily. It is the mistake of most careless married
women and it’s a major mistake you can make

4) DENYING HER HUSBAND SEX REGULARLY: You
are a career woman; you feel sex in marriage is
secondary, you deny your husband your body
regularly, so he is sexually starved and intimacy
famished. His secretary, colleagues, and girls in
church are begging him to come but you padlock
your skirt. I can see danger signal.

5) LEAVING HER HUSBAND FOR HER FRIEND TO
CATER FOR: “My friend please be my eye as I
travelled for this one week, help cater for my
husband and my little kids” That was Mrs Rosa
when she made the journey she will later regret all
her life. By the time she came back her friend had
really helped her by sleeping with her husband. She
later eloped with the man, leaving her own husband
and two children.
It is very stupid to commit your husband into the
hands of your beautiful and very active but Godless
friend.

6) LEAVING HER HUSBAND IN THE HAND OF HER
HOUSE MAID: Your maid is the one that cooks,
cleans the house, and cares for the children and
your husband. You suddenly become a lazy bone
since the arrival of the maid, all you do is to shout
and back orders, nobody will snatch your husband
you are the one graciously giving him to those that
need him.

7) EMPLOYING FULLY GROWN, RED BLOODED
LADY AS A MAID: She is fully grown, well-endowed
in the back and very tantalizing in the front, dresses
like an actress, cat walks like a model and that is
your own house maid? What a mistake!

EMPLOYING HOUSE GIRL THAT IS MORE
BEAUTIFUL THAN HER: Employing a house girl
more beautiful than them is a major technical
mistake most women make. In the process many
of them used their money to employ a rival for
themselves. Don’t be foolish when getting a maid.

9) USING ANALOG BRAIN TO LIVE WITH A DIGITAL
HUSBAND: Your husband is growing; you are sitting
down at home eating. He is dressing like a guy with
jeans and face cap; you are celebrating the fact that
you are a married woman. Your husband is on
twitter, facebook, whatshap, skype etc; the only
thing you know about phone is to receive and make
call. Your husband is talking about stock market;
you only talk about tomato market. He is talking
about Forex; you are talking about fruit and
vegetables.

10) FAILING TO COMMIT HER FAMILY INTO THE
HANDS OF GOD: A wife won’t do well if she fails to
commit her family into the hands of God regularly.
Don’t make this mistake, be prayerful, hand over
your family to God. May you never labor in vain!

11) FIGHING HER MOTHER-IN-LAW: You may fight
your Mother-in-law dirty and think you can win, you
will end up losing. Her son and herself have been
friends and lovers for years; may be before you
were born. She was the first ‘wife’ of your husband
and also the first ‘girlfriend’. Her son cannot divorce
her and she is more experienced than you in
matrimonial battles, in fact she is a veteran of many
conflicts.

12) TELLING HER FRIENDS ABOUT HER SEX LIFE:
when you tell your friend about your sex life she can
size you up and know whether your husband is hot
or not, whether he is sexually fulfilled or not. She
can even know your husband “turn on” and use it
against him and grab your husband. Most women
have carelessly lost their husband as they complain
to their friends “my husband is too demanding, he
does not know anything but sex, I’m not a horse, I
can’t kill myself” A friend will pick information like
this and cover things up where you’ve been failing.

13) REPORTING HER HUSBAND TO HIS MUM: It
looks beautiful to report your husband to his Mum,
but the end result will end up hurting you.
Most mothers will support their sons any day;
children are always right before their Mothers. Seek
counsel in the right quarters, never report your
husband to his Mum.

14) LETTING CHILDREN TAKE THE PLACE OF
THEIR HUSBANDS: Many wives do abandon their
husbands, denying them of love, care and attention
as soon as babies begin to arrive. To sleep in bed,
they put the Baby between themselves and their
husband, making the man to feel lost in his own
house.

15) USING SEX WRONGLY: sex is supposed to
bind you together, it supposed to create intimacy
and love but in many homes it is the bone of
contention.
Some women do turn sex to a tool of manipulation;
some use it for trade by barter. Some wives will
suddenly become commanders at home when their
husbands touch them for sex, ordering the man
around, “go and off the Fan” “go and lock the gate”
“go and check whether our children are sleeping”
this is very bad.
Some wives sleep like log of wood in bed while
some even wear jean knickers to bed.

If you continue like this you will hurt your marriage deeply and you may destroy your future also.May God not let us use our hand to destroy our own marriage..

Now this is a good use of LISTS & WAYS.

Women will always be women

16. she fully depends on her husband both mentally and financially

If she blocks the door way daring you to beat her. Simply push her to the oza room 'cause that's the best beating she needs at that moment. Don't tell me we don't have such romantic men in Nigeria.

Why would a digital man marry an analogue wife?. Just wondering.

BTW, nice list.

I expected feminists to as usuall attack OP, but i am yet to find. Things are getting better. Our women are now getting sense.

kimbra:
If she blocks the door way daring you to beat her. Simply push her to the oza room

Yowaaa... Walai you are veli veli good in the oza room mattaias. Nagode.

that ur number 7 sha
i am yet to see a maid like dat

Splinz:


Yowaaa... Walai you are veli veli good in the oza room mattaias. Nagode.

Lol, that would soothe her.

lefulefu:
that ur number 7 sha
i am yet to see a maid like dat

lefu lefu

Viewing thru

pointless

18million:
lefu lefu

Viewing thru

jude jude..wats cooking?

lefulefu:

jude jude..wats cooking?

i dey oooo , been busy small , how things now?

very nice list.

kimbra:
If she blocks the door way daring you to beat her. Simply push her to the oza room 'cause that's the best beating she needs at that moment. Don't tell me we don't have such romantic men in Nigeria.

Why would a digital man marry an analogue wife?. Just wondering.

BTW, nice list.

Today its a form of romance or men(naija men) are not romantic, tomorrow they say the man raped his wife. The next thing you hear, the woman don cut his joystick. If i say i no dey fear, i dey lie.

kimbra:
Lol, that would soothe her.

The urge sef no go come

18million:
i dey oooo , been busy small , how things now?

everything"s fine.congrat on dat ur job interview.

lefulefu:

everything"s fine.congrat on dat ur job interview.

thanks bro , 2017 na we get am

snakes full this forum

NaeChris:
Today its a form of romance or men(naija men) are not romantic, tomorrow they say the man raped his wife. The next thing you hear, the woman don cut his joystick. If i say i no dey fear, i dey lie.

What happened to your sense of humour?.

On a serious note, some men know how to make it happen at such times.

18million:
thanks bro , 2017 na we get am

snakes full this forum

a big amen to that.
haha@snakes

Tajbol4splend:


The urge sef no go come

Try it with your babe and see what'll happen.

kimbra:
Try it with your babe and see what'll happen.

Your bf don do am to u before abi

kimbra:
What happened to your sense of humour?.

On a serious note, some men know how to make it happen at such times.

Well, i hope to fall into the right hands sha. But the question is, will the woman understand at suchh critical time? Talking of when there is tension. They say ''kiss her when she is angry'' or like you said, drag her to the other room, eh its good, but how many women will understand the man't trick? For me its like putting your hand inside lioness mouth, hoping you won't get hurt. Na risk o. She dey vex you wan(drag am) go the other room. Hmmmm.

NaeChris:
Well, i hope to fall into the right hands sha. But the question is, will the woman understand at suchh critical time? Talking of when there is tension. They say ''kiss her when she is angry'' or like you said, drag her to the other room, eh its good, but how many women will understand the man't trick? For me its like putting your hand inside lioness mouth, hoping you won't get hurt. Na risk o. She dey vex you wan(drag am) go the other room. Hmmmm.

You know two people can't be mad at the same time. If she's pissed at you and you think the rants is unnecessary try hugging her. Some women will succumb to the hug while others won't. So I think that's possible.

Tajbol4splend:


Your bf don do am to u before abi

Hug, that one worked on me.

kimbra:
You know two people can't be mad at the same time. If she's pissed at you and you think the rants is unnecessary try hugging her. Some women will succumb to the hug while others won't. So I think that's possible.

Yes, i d' prefer a hug as it is has lesser risk. But here you go again; you said 'Some women will succumb to hug, why others won't'. Which one do other succumb to? I know why am asking. My head is precious to me o. Make she nor 'broke' my head.

kimbra:
Hug, that one worked on me.

Unless there is how to go about the hug. Bible say ''its better to dey ontop zink than to live with an angry woman'' if na oyinbo, i fit agree. I see thesame reason why they(oyinbo babes) accept flowers as gift, but it scarcely accepted here. Different mindset.

NaeChris:
Yes, i d' prefer a hug as it is has lesser risk. But here you go again; you said 'Some women will succumb to hug, why others won't'. Which one do other succumb to? I know why am asking. My head is precious to me o. Make she nor 'broke' my head.

Have you heard of making up after a fight?. When I said you should push her to the oza room I didn't say you should rape her or rough handle her. From a hug, you kiss and then to other things.

Must I teach you?. But, it's relative. You know your spouses soft spot.

NaeChris:
Unless there is how to go about the hug. Bible say ''its better to dey ontop zink than to live with an angry woman'' if na oyinbo, i fit agree. I see thesame reason why they(oyinbo babes) accept flowers as gift, but it scarcely accepted here. Different mindset.

It depends on the situation surrounding the fight. Women are women worldwide. So, let's keep that oyinbo woman's mindset aside. Are you telling me that white women got soft minds while African women don't?. Women are emotional.

kimbra:
Have you heard of making up after a fight?. When I said you should push her to the oza room I didn't say you should rape her or rough handle her. From a hug, you kiss and then to other things.

Must I teach you?. But, it's relative. You know your spouses soft spot.

Lol. I know how to do those ones. But something tells me it may not work every time depending on the magnitude of her anger. I had better make up after the fight. She may need some time. I guess every woman will love that, but they need time to adjust to the mood that suites the other room. Like i said ealier, based on the magnitude of her anger. Not immediately.

kimbra:
It depends on the situation surrounding the fight. Women are women worldwide. So, let's keep that oyinbo woman's mindset aside. Are you telling me that white women got soft minds while African women don't?. Women are emotional.

Just thesame way ladies feel majority of african men are not romantic, yes, i agree, most niaja men, will not even remember to hug her, talk of taking her to the other room. Similarly, african men have thesame for white ladies with respect to being romantic. It seem to be 'safer' with them, than with african women. Atleast we dey watch film na.