Side-chick as mentioned in this topic is not just referring to the female gender but but sexes.

I was baffled when a lady said that she will definitely have another man outside her marriage as her fiance cannot go more than one round or two at most when they make love.

If you have managed to be faithful during courtship which is the time to know each other before making the oath which seals the relationship, then, you should have accepted your fate as you cannot get all of it in your partner.

This is not just a woman thing, it is so surprising and extremely funny that men that struggle to even go a second round fornicates, what then do you have left to satisfy your woman who is trying all best possible to cope with your little fault?

To have settled with a man/woman means he/she is perfect for you among the rest.

To spark up the relationship all you need to do is to try something new with your partner and look for solutions together to make some of the imperfection to turn perfect just for you.

When you fornicate as a man you spend more, you expose yourself to series of infections thereby putting the rest of the family in danger.

As a woman, you risk loosing the home you have built for years and the negative effect of your children living without you is enormous.

It is never easy to be with a partner for so long, however, we must try to learn to do to others what we can accept.


Source: http://bamisepeters..in/2017/05/side-chick-is-not-just-distraction-but.html

But will they listen



This is not just a woman thing, it is so surprising and extremely funny that men that struggle to even go a second round fornicates, what then do you have left to satisfy your woman who is trying all best possible to cope with your little fault?

These set of men are the worst! Spreading sexual frustration quicker than STD

well. I guess our fore fathers were pretty distracted being involved with many women.

Not condoning cheating tho. Real busy men won't have time for a bae talkless of a side chica.

It's not just a guy thing, some babes these days dey get back-up boyfriend. I don't even know how they do it.

One guy/girl is enough headache, let alone two or more. People should learn to be faithful to their partners, treat people the way you want to be treated.

Enemy of progress..

On point

I didn't read all that

There's nothing wrong with having a side-chick. It's like having a spare tire for one's vehicle.