I'll go straight to the point.....
I met this girl and not long we started dating and it was fun and gud until this weekend. We walked home from church and we were cool and even agreed to hanged out later dat day at around 7pm den we went our different ways.... Den I later called her to tell her about change in time cuz I was to ve a 30mins meeting somewhere and we both agreed dat I'll call her after d meeting. Immediately after d meeting I called and called but she wasn't picking. She later picked and said she was busy day I should call back. I called back but was picking. She later called back at about 9.45 and by den I was pissed already. She told me to call back which I didn't but I later called and she said she's with her boyfriend dat I should call her the next day. It sounded like a joke in my ear dat I had to drop the call dialed the number again and she said d same tin. I slept without thinking about it. I called the next day and she repeated same thing dat she's still with him. I asked if I could speak with the guy and she said no. I dropped the call. She called called back to say if I can help her beg d guy not to live her. I was raged wen I heard dat so dropped d call without saying a word. She called back n said I shouldn't call her again. This is d guy she told me she's not been picking his call for months n can never go back cuz he's a serial cheat......
Mine now is am really confused if she's trying to play pranks with me or if she's serious. Since day time almost a week now I haven't call her she hasn't called too.
Should I call first to find out tins? pls ur kind comments re welcome tho I know some comments will be harsh tho

You were her side guy. Her main guy is back and she can't surely keep two of you.
You also mentioned that you two met and started dating not too long afterwards.

Bro, truth is, you got carried away.

Move on, she's not what or who you thought she was.

Keep your head high too and go make money and develop yourself .
The right one will come along and cling to you.

What sort of nonsense is this..

It could be one of three things---

1)You escaped from the "friendzone' and she has sent you back.

2)She has found someone better and decided to let you go

3)She is upset that you postponed the movement and decided to torment you(its what my ex gf does)


Whichever it is, she doesn't respect you and you need to teach her to, dont call! Lock up, if you know where she hangs out, go there with another girl and make sure you display affection with the other girl, this is "Operation Torment the Tormentor"

To me oo,she isn't playing pranks better u 4get abt her existence

guy shez damn serious

Its too much of a shit to take....nonsense. Ditch her.

dingbang:
What sort of nonsense is this..

...childish stunt.. E funny

You are on a long thing.It is what it is,you are his side guy(runz),she is f*cking serious with you,just let go of her,those people above me have said it all.




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You dey work for MTN? Don't you have reasonable people to call? Nor dey waste airtime for who no worth am. For me, at the mention of 'boy friend' i don quit.

You were keeping her coochie warm for that other dude... Better run from that childish demon

It's not a prank , you were the "just in case man" or the "revenge date" pick one neither is better than the other.
They might have indeed split up you guys met then someone told him about the pair of you ( she might have done it herself some women have a strange way of processing things). This mysterious boyfriend jumps back on to the scene woes her back with gifts and promises. She then forgets all previous misdeeds in an instant and you find yourself in the position you are in. Confused and perplexed wondering what's going on. Well not much for you she took him back.

thank you all for d cool comment.....why am actually surprised is we met in church n she was all over me n we went home together. wat if d time didn't change?

I just read a story from LORD OF THE CALLS




Interesting!

emeijeh:
I just read a story from LORD OF THE CALLS




Interesting!

hahahahah..... guy u funny sha

U called, she picked she told u to call bk, u called bk later! She didnt pick.... She later called bk u didnt pick nnna nawa oo bros me i no understand oo

bilulu:
thank you all for d cool comment.....why am actually surprised is we met in church n she was all over me n we went home together. wat if d time didn't change?

That was the warning sign.... Church babe VS all over you and followed you home.

She's not serious with you, there are other decent ladies waiting on guys like you to smoke their way.

Move on.

Lol,Op,take heart,you have been played.

Move on and just play solo. Go make money,the babe will come back in tears.

When she comes back, make sure you flaunt someone as beautiful as @Harbosede02,the funny babe will just faint.

all dz wans happened on phone.. I for say make u waka go hear from her wella., u know weda somethn de compel her to talk so? .

Judasjudas:
all dz wans happened on phone.. I for say make u waka go hear from her wella., u know weda somethn de compel her to talk so? .

u spoke differently from others.... reason I wanted to call again jux to hear from her

forget about her n move on bro! mst of dis girls ar naturally confuse, even wen dy see a gud tin, dy stil wont forget d other dude's cassava d've bin missin/recievin sex is sometimes a bondage, dy are held by d clawz of the pleassure d've bin enjoyin n lik a slave to his master dy baw each time he comes calling. move on bro urs well come in due time girls full every wer if u knw ur game

u used u and dump yhu simple learn to move on

soberdrunk:
It could be one of three things---

1)You escaped from the "friendzone' and she has sent you back.

2)She has found someone better and decided to let you go

3)She is upset that you postponed the movement and decided to torment you(its what my ex gf does)


Whichever it is, she doesn't respect you and you need to teach her to, dont call! Lock up, if you know where she hangs out, go there with another girl and make sure you display affection with the other girl, this is "Operation Torment the Tormentor"

lol...this comment got me laughing.. guy you funny oh

Walahi....I'm speechless....op just leave the girl alone and look for your own gf elsewhere

Noblepreneur:
Lol,Op,take heart,you have been played.

Move on and just play solo. Go make money,the babe will come back in tears.

When she comes back, make sure you flaunt someone as beautiful as @Harbosede02,the funny babe will just faint.

awwwwwww

U can decide to go see see you.
Hear the words from her mouth physically.

And don't go there with a defeated face. Be on your beat moment

Diss her if u not into her...she wud b bk... had similar experiences.. . gals act all special kinda shit in bid of forming hard to get... trust me she do b bk..nd when she is, make sure u Bleep her and dump her...it works all d tym.. if u know wah u doing..take charge....# FUCKING AMATEUR... #

Before I got to the point where she told you that she's with her boyfriend, I somehow had clear vibes that she had another boyfriend somewhere

Call her for what now?, you called twice and she made herself clear, you where the side guy, the real g is back now. You where the only one dating her, she never did.

LET HER GO....!!!

Sup dear,how have you been?

Harbosede02:
awwwwwww