ahahnow:
My story is about my mother. I called the police on her today. She is stu.pid. I know many of you will be against me because I insulted her but that is less than she deserves. Throughout my life she has physically and verbally assaulted me. The straw that broke the camel's back happened this afternoon when she told me to go and cook rice. I started to grumble about it. This doesn't mean I wont do it. I think its something about me that automatically happens when I have to do a chore but I still get the job done and she knows it. I hate her alot and have wished many times that I would just wake up one day and she is just not there. I have tried many times to look past my grievances with her but another day will be something new. I have thought many times about moving out of the house but I do not earn enough to do so. She told me one time to go and drink poison and die one day like that. Right now, if you see me, I have patches on my head because she pulled out my hair and I have scratches all over my face. She is always using fearmogering tactics to try to get me but it only makes me angry. Why should a mother want their child to be afraid of her. It is only in my household that a mother behaves more like a disgusting, lazy, violent roommate. She complains, she does cooks all that often, she will sweep the house and leave the debris in one corner where it will stay for many months, her toilet is dirty, and she is a housewife o. she doesnt work. she sat on me today and was hitting me. When I told her I couldnt breath she said she didnt care and that is what drove me to call the police. When my dad came home she was now forming victim, crying her crocodile tears. Today, I learned some people can not be loved. God knows I tried. I feel very bad for my dad, he suffers. This is why it is dangerous to marry a girl because her makeup is nice. I advice that you marry for brains only. Find out if the girl you want to marry loves children. Inside my mother is beyond rotten. If anything happens to her today. I do not know if I will shed a tear because I do not have a good memory of her. I never have. I know I am not wrong but if I am God will judge me and deal with me, what I deserve. However, I know for dam.n sure she is not innocent. She has never cared. If not for my dad, I would have dont worse. I have never in my life raised my hand to my mother but enough was enough. Mother's day was yesterday, I am not grateful for mine. In fact if she had swolled me it would have been better. I dont know if I will ever move past this but I know that I will never trust her.

ahahnow:
My story is about my mother. I called the police on her today. She is stu.pid. I know many of you will be against me because I insulted her but that is less than she deserves. Throughout my life she has physically and verbally assaulted me. The straw that broke the camel's back happened this afternoon when she told me to go and cook rice. I started to grumble about it. This doesn't mean I wont do it. I think its something about me that automatically happens when I have to do a chore but I still get the job done and she knows it. I hate her alot and have wished many times that I would just wake up one day and she is just not there. I have tried many times to look past my grievances with her but another day will be something new. I have thought many times about moving out of the house but I do not earn enough to do so. She told me one time to go and drink poison and die one day like that. Right now, if you see me, I have patches on my head because she pulled out my hair and I have scratches all over my face. She is always using fearmogering tactics to try to get me but it only makes me angry. Why should a mother want their child to be afraid of her. It is only in my household that a mother behaves more like a disgusting, lazy, violent roommate. She complains, she does cooks all that often, she will sweep the house and leave the debris in one corner where it will stay for many months, her toilet is dirty, and she is a housewife o. she doesnt work. she sat on me today and was hitting me. When I told her I couldnt breath she said she didnt care and that is what drove me to call the police. When my dad came home she was now forming victim, crying her crocodile tears. Today, I learned some people can not be loved. God knows I tried. I feel very bad for my dad, he suffers. This is why it is dangerous to marry a girl because her makeup is nice. I advice that you marry for brains only. Find out if the girl you want to marry loves children. Inside my mother is beyond rotten. If anything happens to her today. I do not know if I will shed a tear because I do not have a good memory of her. I never have. I know I am not wrong but if I am God will judge me and deal with me, what I deserve. However, I know for dam.n sure she is not innocent. She has never cared. If not for my dad, I would have dont worse. I have never in my life raised my hand to my mother but enough was enough. Mother's day was yesterday, I am not grateful for mine. In fact if she had swolled me it would have been better. I dont know if I will ever move past this but I know that I will never trust her.

ahahnow:
My story is about my mother. I called the police on her today. She is stu.pid. I know many of you will be against me because I insulted her but that is less than she deserves. Throughout my life she has physically and verbally assaulted me. The straw that broke the camel's back happened this afternoon when she told me to go and cook rice. I started to grumble about it. This doesn't mean I wont do it. I think its something about me that automatically happens when I have to do a chore but I still get the job done and she knows it. I hate her alot and have wished many times that I would just wake up one day and she is just not there. I have tried many times to look past my grievances with her but another day will be something new. I have thought many times about moving out of the house but I do not earn enough to do so. She told me one time to go and drink poison and die one day like that. Right now, if you see me, I have patches on my head because she pulled out my hair and I have scratches all over my face. She is always using fearmogering tactics to try to get me but it only makes me angry. Why should a mother want their child to be afraid of her. It is only in my household that a mother behaves more like a disgusting, lazy, violent roommate. She complains, she does cooks all that often, she will sweep the house and leave the debris in one corner where it will stay for many months, her toilet is dirty, and she is a housewife o. she doesnt work. she sat on me today and was hitting me. When I told her I couldnt breath she said she didnt care and that is what drove me to call the police. When my dad came home she was now forming victim, crying her crocodile tears. Today, I learned some people can not be loved. God knows I tried. I feel very bad for my dad, he suffers. This is why it is dangerous to marry a girl because her makeup is nice. I advice that you marry for brains only. Find out if the girl you want to marry loves children. Inside my mother is beyond rotten. If anything happens to her today. I do not know if I will shed a tear because I do not have a good memory of her. I never have. I know I am not wrong but if I am God will judge me and deal with me, what I deserve. However, I know for dam.n sure she is not innocent. She has never cared. If not for my dad, I would have dont worse. I have never in my life raised my hand to my mother but enough was enough. Mother's day was yesterday, I am not grateful for mine. In fact if she had swolled me it would have been better. I dont know if I will ever move past this but I know that I will never trust her.

shinarlaura:
Mehnn. Even to type sef just weak me

But wait ooo like seriously op , are u talking about ur mum or someone else

FelixFelicis:
lol gradually you're typing like you're from here

shinarlaura:


Lol. Abi?

Freewoman:


For all this bullshi.t you make up here, hope is for just attention seeking or you are talking about your girl friend and or your wife, if na your mother aaaaah, thunder wey do press-up will fire that your hand wey you used to type this shiit here, oloshi, mutum banzah, anu ohia,

Cool23:
To tell the truth I support Op on this one koz there are some mothers who don't give a shit about their child and does she pressurize u to get married

Nma27:
Seriously. What woman would wanna marry a guy that allows his mother to bully him like so? Perhaps she's taking out her frustration on him.

NotOfThis:
Sorry, op. Sounds like your mom has issues and needs serious therapy. The best thing for you to do is to move out when you can, for your own well-being. Just make sure you go back from time to time to check up on your Dad, and her too.

OmaniPadmeHum:
Some of the responses on Nairaland. The idiocy of Nigerians and the "if you talk bad about your parents curses will follow you" hogwash. There are a few parents who aren't worth it. I don't care if such a parent brought me into the world. After all what is so spectacular about the world? That you brought me into this world does not mean you should practically kill me. I did not tell you to have sex, have me and then murder me to complete the cycle of life. Some parents are violent, unreasonable, abusive and outrightlying dangerous to their kids. They do things that physically and emotionally scar children for life. I know of parents that torture their kids and do all these things in the name of not sparing the rod. After all the beating, look at us. Corrupt, self centered, bigoted, prejudiced, thieving and lieing hypocritical humans who are only good at showing fake respect to elders.

If this is truly the situation in your house, my advise is you move out quickly. That will end the friction. Why I say move out is because while you wait for it to get better the worse could happen. In defending yourself someone might get hurt or worse. If you are old enough to move out, try and do so. Already, it seems there are many captains in the ship already with too many cooks spoiling the broth in the galley as a matter of fact. For now, as much as possible, do obey her and don't grumble. It is a sign of disrespect. Let us assume it is a lecturer in school taking you a compulsory course, you won't give the excuses about always grumbling. Or if it was a soldier on the street your grumbling will do you more harm than good. You might need to change your attitude towards her. That she calls you names and insults you does not mean you must respond/reply. Unfortunately a lot of us don't know how to desensitize ourselves to words and insults. The only time you should
engage her is to defend yourself by trying to get away from her if she gets violent. Best solution is to try and move out.