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Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by Chiefpriest1(m): 5:34pm On May 25, 2017 |
No |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by cuedish: 5:36pm On May 25, 2017 |
Raine80: YOU NAILED IT......YOU BE MARRIAGE COUNCELOR? 1 Like |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by Nobody: 5:36pm On May 25, 2017 |
now ,let me share a true life story,this couple wedded on Saturday, flew back to Lagos on Saturday evening only to return to her father's house on Monday with bruises and a swollen eye,what happened?,the man found $5,000 inside her bible during their first morning devotion gifted to her by her aunty that came from the States.my people that was how the man spent some days behind bars and the marriage was annulled.Most Nigerian men are too egocentric to handle her having things in her name 8 Likes |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by Mofpearl: 5:37pm On May 25, 2017 |
Don't see anything wrong with it. Why would he need hubby's permission to get me a car in the first place? |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by charain: 5:38pm On May 25, 2017 |
Snow84: The question you should ask yourself is why an egoistic poor man will marry a rich woman ? when a woman refuse to marry below her class you say; women are only after money, when a rich woman fall for a poor guy you accuse her of disrespecting the husband by being rich. What exactly do you want ? 21 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by Nobody: 5:38pm On May 25, 2017 |
I wonder how the marriage would look like the wife rides a car and he doesn't. Why not transfer it to cash and give the couple to start their family. That man is unknowingly causing trouble. 1 Like
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Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by mfm04622: 5:39pm On May 25, 2017 |
Raine80:A father do not need ANYBODY's permission to give his daughter gifts! Nobody's permission! So you don't know inheriting one's parent through a will is a form of gift? So a parent need the husband permission to will something to his daughter? LOL!!! 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by Nobody: 5:40pm On May 25, 2017 |
Saintsammurai:Its not really necessary to eat rice with beans. I learn't that the Acting president is performing well. |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by Nobody: 5:40pm On May 25, 2017 |
There is nothing wrong with it! She is my daughter, and I will give her whatever I wanna give her. This African mentality of 'husband is the owner of the wife, and everything that belongs to her' needs to be gone!!! Gosh! sometimes I don't blame feminists! If it's the husband that was gifted, nobody would say anything oh, but because it's the woman, it has become taboo. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by tutudesz: 5:40pm On May 25, 2017 |
dominique:Gift or no gift marriage that will end will end! Next the daughter will need permission from her husband to visit her dad. 3 Likes |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by Nobody: 5:43pm On May 25, 2017 |
dangotesmummy:sisi |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by mfm04622: 5:43pm On May 25, 2017 |
padiga047: What is your business with what your wife own? Please what your wife own, is hers alone! What you own is for the family! 4 Likes |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by tutudesz: 5:45pm On May 25, 2017 |
mfm04622:So who among the husband or the wife will a guest take permission from before bring a car gift? |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by Afam4eva(m): 5:46pm On May 25, 2017 |
I saw this on facebook and i was like WTF? People are taking this marriage shebang a little too seriously. How on earth is a father giving his own daughter a gift an issue bikonu? 10 Likes |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by kindkingsley: 5:47pm On May 25, 2017 |
makydebbie: The wrong now be say the daughter go go marry the papa with the gift. Rubbish father. Why he nor gv them as wedding gift even though we all know its indirectly for the daughter. Anything you do apply wisdom. |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by DOnlooker(m): 5:49pm On May 25, 2017 |
HITTED:Be careful what you wish for. A father who just one hour after you and his daughter has been joined together as ONE, singles her out and gifts her a car in the full glare of the wedding guests is sending you some strong non-coded messages among which are; 1.) He doesn't see you as the head of the newly created family otherwise it should have been both of you together he will hand over the car keys. 2.) No matter the circumstances, in the event of any misunderstanding, you will always be the one at fault. 3.) He is trying to intimidate you already with money. etc, etc. I wouldn't want to have a FIL that will do that, not on the wedding day at least because it will leave a lasting impression on the guests that her father will continue to bankroll my marriage. A real man will understand. |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by Nickymezor(f): 5:50pm On May 25, 2017 |
Mofpearl:Well said dear. I dont knw why some folks think its totally wrong wen it aint. 1 Like |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by mfm04622: 5:50pm On May 25, 2017 |
Snow84: Please!!! This is wrong! Very wrong! My wife is from a rich background. She brought jewellery worth more than a million to my house after marriage! Is it my business? Her money is her money. Presently, she has 2 cars she bought with her money. I don't have any! It is never a problem. I maintain the cars. But they are hers. Registered in her name. Why should that be a problem? 11 Likes |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by Nobody: 5:50pm On May 25, 2017 |
mfm04622:hahahahaha, if you are a woman, I would NEVER marry you. |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by ImaIma1(f): 5:51pm On May 25, 2017 |
padiga047: Does it matter who drives the car? Most responsible men allow their wives to drive the only car while they find their way. They put their wife's comfort above theirs. A car gift us a gift. 9 Likes |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by mfm04622: 5:53pm On May 25, 2017 |
tutudesz: Some gifts are too big to be given without explanation. A guest will need to explain why he or she is given another man's wife a car! Don't you think so? |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by mfm04622: 5:54pm On May 25, 2017 |
padiga047: Am a man. Married for 13 years now 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by Nobody: 5:54pm On May 25, 2017 |
ImaIma1: There is a line between kindness and mumism. The man who did what you said has unfortunately crossed that line. 1 Like |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by Nobody: 5:55pm On May 25, 2017 |
mfm04622:Did your wife have a car and you didn't? |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by Dpharisee: 5:55pm On May 25, 2017 |
Giving a woman a big gift such as a house or car can create problems for the new couple; I know of a couple whose rich parent gave their daughter a house as wedding gift and one day they had a quarrel and she told him to his face that 'after all, he is living in her house given to her by her parents' he threw her out and she ran home to report him to her parents. The father invited the guy and his wife and told the daughter to kneel before her husband and ask for his forgiveness and told her that the house he gave was for the two of them and that her husband is the head of the home and custodian of the property and not her. He then asked her to promise in their presence that she will always be a good wife and she goes back to her husband's house and that solved the problem. If the father had not handled it carefully, that marriage would have packed up and today they are a happy couple. Like was done by my family in a recent wedding, the gift of a new car by the family for the wife was placed in her hands with the husbands hand underneath same way the place the couples hands over the knife during the wedding cake cutting event. 1 Like |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by papauju(m): 5:55pm On May 25, 2017 |
HITTED:stop wishing and work smart to buy it and think of giving your own daughter too 1 Like |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by mfm04622: 5:56pm On May 25, 2017 |
padiga047: Men are supposed to take care of their family. Even if your wife is a billionaire, her feeding and her housing, you MUST provide. Also some clothes once in a while. That is how to be a man. 4 Likes |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by Nofuckgiven: 5:56pm On May 25, 2017 |
The lady is lucky she escaped a low self-esteemed loser! How can the man ever grow with such poverty mentality?? Envy and resentment would eventually make him either become a wife beater or worse! She should find her class abeg,that dude is way below her. Marriage is not just based on love. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by woodmood: 5:57pm On May 25, 2017 |
dominique: Good comment. This should not be a topic for discussion. Useless and worthless ego predicated on emptiness. The guy should go and double his hustle. Or in the alternative he should go and pray more because if he has cars already, he would be happy that at least his wife will NO longer drag cars with him. On a serious note, I think the guy should know that a lot of things come along with marrying from a rich family. On of these is insult if that is what he classifies the gift as. People now see marriage as something you can walk out of at any provocation. What a world. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by mfm04622: 5:58pm On May 25, 2017 |
padiga047: She presently have 2 cars while I don't have any! So? 1 Like |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by Nobody: 5:59pm On May 25, 2017 |
mfm04622:wonderful
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Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by Nobody: 5:59pm On May 25, 2017 |
Which useless topic is this? Permission to give my own daughter gift? Is the guy's brain on reverse or what? If it were the other way round, we would have been hearing "my mother that watched my infant bed, my mum comes first". Ordinary car? Not house? Some Nigerian men ego be bigger than Jupiter. See why some babes are hypergamous? Mtcheew. 10 Likes 4 Shares |
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