Raine80:
Let's clarify this
1. If the gifts were for the daughter then there is a problem. He could have done this before she got married
2. Since when do you give one party gifts at a wedding is it not meant for both of them?
3. Maybe the daughter is one of those women who makes the man know she comes from money, they argue " get out of my house" she is unhappy " get out of my car!" So the man left. It's not just about the car or the house as it was 6 months after the wedding. It is about what the car represents.

Snow84:



Learn how to pass relationship-related comments from that Raine80 moniker. If the father had made it known that he gave the car to her daughter, that marriage is doomed, especially if the man is not rich enough to own a car. If the husband is not rich, and the wife is from a rich family, enrich the man, for charity sake, and see the man becoming grateful by loving his wife more, assuming what brought them together initially is genuine love. Before marriage, the father should have tested the man by giving him 1m naira to see r what he can do with it. If the 1m naira vanishes without making any good use of it, the father would advise her daughter to be wary of the man, and steer clear of interfering in the affairs of the upcoming family. You don't have to teach young people, adversities will teach them.

Raine80:
Let's clarify this
1. If the gifts were for the daughter then there is a problem. He could have done this before she got married
2. Since when do you give one party gifts at a wedding is it not meant for both of them?
3. Maybe the daughter is one of those women who makes the man know she comes from money, they argue " get out of my house" she is unhappy " get out of my car!" So the man left. It's not just about the car or the house as it was 6 months after the wedding. It is about what the car represents.

Saintsammurai:
I saw this on twitter..
Must a father seek permission from his daughter's husband-to-be before giving her a car or house as wedding gift?
A guy left his wife because her dad gave her a car as a wedding gift without his permission..

dominique:
Even an in-law must walk on eggshells to massage the bloated ego of an average Nigerian man. This shouldn't even be a topic for discussion. Why on earth should a woman reject a gift from her own parent? Asking for permission means that there is a possibility of rejecting the car gift which is a huge disrespect to the father that raised her. So many rules and regulations a Nigerian woman must follow all in the name of "keeping her marriage". Nigerians can make marriage harder than rocket science sha.

dangotesmummy:
men and their ego again.kini big deal for goodness sake.shebi its the 2 of them that owns the car.una no dey taya

padiga047:
I wonder how the marriage would look like the wife rides a car and he doesn't.


Why not transfer it to cash and give the couple to start their family.


That man is unknowingly causing trouble.

mfm04622:

A father do not need ANYBODY's permission to give his daughter gifts! Nobody's permission! So you don't know inheriting one's parent through a will is a form of gift? So a parent need the husband permission to will something to his daughter? LOL!!!

makydebbie:
What makes it wrong for daddy to buy his daughter a gift?

HITTED:
I wish for a wife who will get a car gift from her father on our wedding day.

So help me God!

Mofpearl:
Don't see anything wrong with it.

Why would he need hubby's permission to get me a car in the first place?

Snow84:



Learn how to pass relationship-related comments from that Raine80 moniker. If the father had made it known that he gave the car to her daughter, that marriage is doomed, especially if the man is not rich enough to own a car. If the husband is not rich, and the wife is from a rich family, enrich the man, for charity sake, and see the man becoming grateful by loving his wife more, assuming what brought them together initially is genuine love. Before marriage, the father should have tested the man by giving him 1m naira to see r what he can do with it. If the 1m naira vanishes without making any good use of it, the father would advise her daughter to be wary of the man, and steer clear of interfering in the affairs of the upcoming family. You don't have to teach young people, adversities will teach them.

mfm04622:


What is your business with what your wife own? Please what your wife own, is hers alone! What you own is for the family!

padiga047:
I wonder how the marriage would look like the wife rides a car and he doesn't.


Why not transfer it to cash and give the couple to start their family.


That man is unknowingly causing trouble.

tutudesz:

So who among the husband or the wife will a guest take permission from before bring a car gift?

padiga047:
hahahahaha, if you are a woman, I would NEVER marry you.

ImaIma1:


Does it matter who drives the car? Most responsible men allow their wives to drive the only car while they find their way. They put their wife's comfort above theirs. A car gift us a gift.

mfm04622:


Am a man. Married for 13 years now

HITTED:
I wish for a wife who will get a car gift from her father on our wedding day.

So help me God!

padiga047:
hahahahaha, if you are a woman, I would NEVER marry you.

dominique:
Even an in-law must walk on eggshells to massage the bloated ego of an average Nigerian man. This shouldn't even be a topic for discussion. Why on earth should a woman reject a gift from her own parent? Asking for permission means that there is a possibility of rejecting the car gift which is a huge disrespect to the father that raised her. So many rules and regulations a Nigerian woman must follow all in the name of "keeping her marriage". Nigerians can make marriage harder than rocket science sha.

padiga047:
Did your wife have a car and you didn't?

mfm04622:


She presently have 2 cars while I don't have any! So?