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Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by tutudesz: 6:00pm On May 25, 2017 |
mfm04622:my question was who among the husband or the wife will a guest take permission from,since a father needs permission from the husband to give his daughter a car gift. Their is nothing wrong if a male friend give my wife a car gift or I receive one from a female friend 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by ImaIma1(f): 6:01pm On May 25, 2017 |
padiga047: Your mind is not yet mature for marriage. You still have a loooong way to go 5 Likes |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by thotianna: 6:03pm On May 25, 2017 |
Gosh African men are so annoying. Can you imagine some people saying any car gift must be for both husband and wife and not for wife alone? If the long throat man wants a car he should ask his wife to share her car or hustle like his mates and buy one instead of trying to get his greedy paws on his wifes property and claiming it as his own. Haba. A woman cannot get a gift from her father and have it in her name again. it must also belong to the husband. Men are so heartless and greedy. Such rubbish If you have a problem with your wife having more money than you then marry poor women that will depend on you financially so your stupid egos can get even more bloated. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by Nobody: 6:05pm On May 25, 2017 |
ImaIma1:Oh well. |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by Sterope(f): 6:06pm On May 25, 2017 |
The way marriage works when the man rides a car and the woman doesn't. Gosh! It is just a freaking car. It won't make your penis smaller, would it? He wants to give HIS DAUGHTER a car gift not a cash for family. No be his money again! padiga047: 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by Nobody: 6:07pm On May 25, 2017 |
So as a parent, after raising a daughter from birth to her wedding day, after paying her fees, feeding, clothing her and giving her all the love I can give, I then need to seek permission from one guy before I can give her a gift? I don't know about y'all, but I think its an ego problem. The car or house gift won't be a problem later, they have bigger problems waiting for them. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by Aleora(f): 6:09pm On May 25, 2017 |
charain:you are blessed 5 Likes |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by ziga: 6:10pm On May 25, 2017 |
After marriage, everything is jointly owned by the couple. And if they can't agree on how to "share" a vehicle, then the marriage was headed towards divorce anyway. NB - Share does not always mean 50-50 |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by Sterope(f): 6:16pm On May 25, 2017 |
The parents are stupid. They both owned the house as the the family house. They should have told her that even though it belongs to her legally. When they die, they shouldn't forget to will her share of their properties in her husband's names too because he is the husband. It is very convenient to insult women when a woman acts arrogantly over her property but if it is a man that threw his wife out of their house, you won't be saying that men owning a house is such a big deal. In fact, men throw out their wives all the time and I am yet to see most men rising against such foolishness. I guess it is cute for men to act like jerks over their properties, isn't it? Hypocrites! Anyways, It is stupid for one spouse to order his/her spouse out of a family house because of one small issue (except violence and abuse Sha). If the other partner cannot withstand his partner, he/she can get a hotel or stay with friends/family until issues are resolved. Dpharisee: 4 Likes |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by Innnovative(m): 6:20pm On May 25, 2017 |
I don't fink its right...........U don't give to HER u give it to THEM |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by sekem: 6:23pm On May 25, 2017 |
ImaIma1: Very good To you, you may think it is totally harmless I totally understand But sometimes, we just have to read in between the lines to understand certain human actions If the said father in law wanted to show a high level of deftness, I believe he would have found a way to specifically specify that the house belongs to both his son in law and his daughter That way, the young man will go home without necessarily having that sickening feeling that he is being controlled/owned. You will probably never understand that feeling because you are not a guy But that feeling is real, for men Believe it or not, that feeling is probably one of the main reason why some ladies just can't find a man to marry them The woman is not the problem. She may be very understanding, very respectful, very humble, very submissive But... That's just the problem Because according to James Hadley Chase, you never know with women!!! |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by phranq(m): 6:23pm On May 25, 2017 |
How old is the father? A gift should come as a surprise. Permission needs not to be taken before a gift should be presented. Any gift given to a newly wed is meant for both of them. If the person giving the gift tags one of the newly weds the giver of the gift is a home wrecker (if there's anything like wrecked). |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by seguntijan(m): 6:28pm On May 25, 2017 |
What if it was her ex? Oga! na inferiority complex dey worry the guy. Though he isn't respected by his father in law act, but they're better ways to go about it than divorcing, I passionately like marriage as much as I passionately hate divorce. |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by WHITEWIZARD(m): 6:30pm On May 25, 2017 |
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Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by ImaIma1(f): 6:32pm On May 25, 2017 |
charain: Your brain is working well |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by Nobody: 6:35pm On May 25, 2017 |
for Kaniwood or Nollywood |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by tonero230(m): 6:36pm On May 25, 2017 |
firstking01:It is meant to be a surprise..... |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by ImaIma1(f): 6:42pm On May 25, 2017 |
sekem: That feeling is an overbloated ego that constantly needs massaging. It is not present in every man. Some men are not threatened by things like that. When a wedding gift is given, the father does not need to.point out that it is for both of them. For both of them to come together to get married means that they agree and they have become one. The father doesnt owe them an explanation for a gift. If you cannot handle being married to a lady from a wealthy family, it's better to marry someone that would depend completely on you and whatever you bring to avoid your ego being tampered with. 3 Likes |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by dingbang(m): 6:44pm On May 25, 2017 |
a car and 5bedroom house? what is she even doing with a 5bedroom house in the first place.... |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by princecase: 6:44pm On May 25, 2017 |
Saintsammurai: No form of brilliance my friend. The whole situation wasn't properly handled. Simple |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by Nobody: 6:45pm On May 25, 2017 |
What is the difference between a car gift and a set of pots? |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by Nobody: 6:52pm On May 25, 2017 |
ImaIma1:to add to it, the man isn't man enough |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by yaki84: 7:01pm On May 25, 2017 |
ImaIma1:imaimammi. Abadie? Se nanga aflesh nte flesh fish |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by Nobody: 7:02pm On May 25, 2017 |
Let's clarify this 1. If the gifts were for the daughter then there is a problem. He could have done this before she got marriedWhy should a man dictate when a father gifts her daughter? Since when did it become a bad thing for a father to gift ONLY his daughter? The daughter is no fool and should know that in the confines of marriage everything a man owns belongs to him and his wife and vice versa except where there is a prenuptial agreement. 2. Since when do you give one party gifts at a wedding is it not meant for both of them? Refer to the answer above. 3. Maybe the daughter is one of those women who makes the man know she comes from money, they argue " get out of my house" she is unhappy " get out of my car!" So the man left. It's not just about the car or the house as it was 6 months after the wedding. It is about what the car represents. It is only an insecure man that will be worried about the intent of his father-in-law in gifting his daughter. Nigerians and double standard! If a man marries a girl from a humble(poor) background, the girl is expected to "tu-sh" up to meet the standard of the rich guy she married. But if a rich girl marries a poor guy, she is expected to re-learn life and adopt poverty as a way of life so that she would be a good wife, abi? 7 Likes |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by cooljoe(m): 7:04pm On May 25, 2017 |
Shey dat husband don dey mad nee, or e smoke weed? whre was he wen I was giving birth nd raising her. abi he is d one dat nids to take permision to buy her a car 2 Likes |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by Alennsar(f): 7:17pm On May 25, 2017 |
Mofpearl: I tire ooo dis our people self 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by delishpot: 7:24pm On May 25, 2017 |
DOnlooker: Una still dey drag head for this day and age? Ego destroys the him faster than even the devil himself. A father telling his son in-law about a gift he wants to gift his daughter should not be because he feels his daughter has become secondclass human simply because she married some stranger but rather because he sees the husband as his son, a member of his family and would want the man to be in the know of such a big gift ahead of time. Besides the dad was wrong, he should have bought the car and presented it to Mr and Mrs so so instead of giving it to his daughter alone. Doing it that way shows he has included the husband as a member of his family. That is the error of his action. |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by ImaIma1(f): 7:32pm On May 25, 2017 |
yaki84: Idem nfo isongo. |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by innobarca(m): 7:33pm On May 25, 2017 |
ImaIma1: And the woman that is driving a car while the husband is jumping a bus is MATURE for marriage? After marriage, Husband and wife becomes one...Nobody wants the other to suffer if there is true love. For the gift,A gift should be for husband and wife and some responsible father in-laws knows how to go about it,It doesn't matter where it is coming from,the most important thing is that the gift is for the NEW COUPLE. |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by Optimist88(m): 7:44pm On May 25, 2017 |
LePrezident:You sounds like a boy! Is she not your daughter when she drops your name for his? |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by ImaIma1(f): 7:45pm On May 25, 2017 |
innobarca: If the father in law has to point that out, the couple should not even be getting married. |
Re: Giving Your Daughter Car As A Wedding Gift Wrong Without The Husband's Consent? by Optimist88(m): 7:49pm On May 25, 2017 |
Present it to the Mr & Mrs and not Mrs alone! Even if you give the car to the husband, he's still conscious of the fact that it belongs to the wife! 1 Like |
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