Have bn talking to few girls lately and response from 70% of 'em is a guy with a good job, a good car, home of his or just living in a very good home (if rented apartment)..

Only few of 'em believe in starting fro scratch with man.. They never wanted already made man, they want a guy who can't even afford a molue/bike fare..

What's you peoples' take on this? I want to know.

my take on it is.....who no like better thing

They are simply gold diggers.

Me too i would want an already made woman. Lady i mean.

lefulefu:
my take on it is.....who no like better thing

even me bros, if i be lady na to find one guy wey own a plane ooo no be one wey dey use first class..lol... Buh that's why most of 'em are "suffering and smiling" in a house that is supposedly to be a home for them.

Not girls but hoe(losho,loriburuku nd loshi)s

my take on it is that ............. they are all holoshos

smardray:
Not girls but hoe(losho,loriburuku nd loshi)s

lol.. You bn dey vex bro.. Wetin gappen gan gan..

Sugarmummy things.. Hmmmm

HarryDuce:
Me too i would want an already made woman. Lady i mean.

Luxuryconsult:
lol.. You bn dey vex bro.. Wetin gappen gan gan..

nothing egbon

Luxuryconsult:
even me bros, if i be lady na to find one guy wey own a plane ooo no be one wey dey use first class..lol... Buh that's why most of 'em are "suffering and smiling" in a house that is supposedly to be a home for them.

very true
but a guy wey a lady chase after cos of im money will still end up cheating on her cos he knows the lady just loves his wealth only.see davido for example is he faithful to his baby mamas? anyway our ladies say its better to cry inside brand new lexus jeep than laugh inside a thatched hut .

Luxuryconsult:
Sugarmummy things.. Hmmmm

No no... I'm too young to be wasting my life on that.
She should not be idle and expect me to cater for her every need. some guys go want that one, definitely not me.

lefulefu:

very true
but a guy wey a lady chase after cos of im money will still end up cheating on her cos he knows the lady just loves his wealth only.see davido for example is he faithful to his baby mamas? anyway our ladies say its better to cry inside brand new lexus jeep than laugh inside a thatched hut .

@bolded na true sha.. God go kukuma help them.

It is al about choice. Noting is wrong wit them. A poor man 2 day can be rich 2 morrow and vice versa. Girls shld pray nt to make decision they ll regret 2morrow.

I see nothing wrong with them going for what they really want , same as the women who prefer to start from scratch with their guys, same as the women who don't care which one they find as long as he's got the right qualities. End of the day it's a personal choice . The sad thing is when you go for a guy who has it all but accompanied by a cruel character, then you're fu*kd.

Every normal organism wants the best... Even Female Animals only mate with the Alpha Male who is the strongest in the pack...

so you can't blame them... It is how it is supposed to be naturally, but human beings have created a different social relation that makes women who seek already made men bad...

lefulefu:

very true
but a guy wey a lady chase after cos of im money will still end up cheating on her cos he knows the lady just loves his wealth only.see davido for example is he faithful to his baby mamas? anyway our ladies say its better to cry inside brand new lexus jeep than laugh inside a thatched hut .

This is just cruel ....

I don't blame them at all,they just need someone they can rely on when things are rough..

I think it's wrong for a guy who's not working or earning money to have a girlfriend,I swear the girl won't respect you.
The girl might not be asking you for money but there are things you should be doing for her even if she did not ask..
Relationship without funds is boring....
My opinion thou!...

Lionessza:
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This is just cruel ....

thats just d truth

lefulefu:

thats just d truth

Not to everyone though , some people prefer being happy and free.

Lionessza:










Not to everyone though , some people prefer being happy and free.

hehe peace of mind is the best wealth any person should hope to attain.even money can't buy it.

lefulefu:

hehe peace of mind is the best wealth any person should hope to attain.even money can't buy it.

I totally agree.

Most don't recognise potential ...this is why most are single.

It is a completely NORMAL mindset coming from poor miserable people, living in a country where the majority can't get 3 square meals per day.

To each their own misery... But we all know that these babes will have to eventually wake up, smell the damn coffee and go right back to marry one Of these poor dude, they foolishly looked down upon in the past.

there is nothing wrong with that... personally, I am looking for an already well trained lady... I am not willing to go through the pains of training her... so if she also don't wish to go through the pains of suffering with a broke dude... so be it.

ok.



It's like this, if I get to the peak of my career, what kind of man do you think I will attract?fine, some girls want made men, but the question is 'are they made themselves'

lefulefu:

hehe peace of mind is the best wealth any person should hope to attain.even money can't buy it.

Keep deluding yourself

TheCabal:


Keep deluding yourself

you think its everybody who worship money like you.if u can attain your goals (career,house etc) and u comfortable what do you need zillions of dollars stored in an empty building for?
many of our politicians wey dey steal billions na how many of them dey live long.why the billions wey dem accumulate no dey fit save dem

MrBrownJay1:
It is a completely NORMAL mindset coming from poor miserable people, living in a country where the majority can't get 3 square meals per day.

To each their own misery... But we all know that these babes will have to eventually wake up, smell the damn coffee and go right back to marry one Of these poor dude, they foolishly looked down upon in the past.

so true

i dont know abt u all but if i were a lady.... i wouldnt date a broke uninspiring guy with no future..

What's your take on men who prefer women AFTER they are already made?

Most already made men once said NO to a girl during their hustling days -- because they are not financially ready.

So, if a girl is looking for an already made men, and they find one. Then it stand to reason, there are already made guys who are looking for girls looking for already made men.


Get it??

My take.......u sef look for already made women....A+B is nt AB, A×B is AB...simple maths