"A friend opted for an abortion for fear that her parents will disown her, today she is yet to have a child but now lives with the knowledge that her parents actually brought in and pamper a school girl impregnated by her younger brother."

"His dad was a Christian before converting to win his mum's hand in marriage. He is a Christian. A major clash we had before we parted ways was about the fact that I wouldn't consent to Islamic naming ceremony when we do have children. Today he is married but yet to have a child. When I look back I wonder if it was worth it trying to cross a bridge before getting there."

Looking back at a previous relationship would you have acted otherwise with a glimpse of the future.