PaperLace:

Maybe you're stuck in 1922, that's why you haven't noticed women too are shying away from marriage _hence the babymama and serial divorce trend.

Get home early for your own safety, you're talking feeding. If your wife is staying at work till 11pm, will you understand she is trying to cater for the household. That's me assuming you don't know work is excluded from her rant. Fingers that feed indeed...

This is exactly how a family friend was going from one bar to the other at night, when they kidnapped him, his innocent wife started running around to raise millions.

dingbang:
a man cannot stay out late unless he is a flirt. If I marry you and you make my life a living hell, I would rather sleep in a hotel.

pansophist:


Oh, my post was written excluding the notion of "de-stressing with the boys", I skipped that part.

But about staying late night outside, it's justifiable if it's about work. A bit of perspective, my mum run a restaurant for decades and usually reach home after 11pm. And so far, it has never been a source of conflict in the household. That's what I'm referring to.

The part about been kidnapped has nothing to do with late night out, if kidnappers wants you, they will look for ways even if you don't do nights out.

dingbang:
When you make your house a living hell for your man, why won't he be afraid to come back home? Women sef..

FlirtyKaren:
According to Facebook user, Victoria Onwuchekwa:

I don't think it's proper for a married man to be outside at 11pm in the night with the excuse that he is hanging out with his boys and he needs to de-stress.
I don't know how some women tolerate it.....I can't.

Women stay at home after work even during weekends whether stressed or not...to be with their family.
Since you have decided to be a Married man then you should act like one.

It's not only irresponsible but selfish and also very dangerous.

I know of men that went to hang out...were attacked when coming back and till today their wives haven't seen them.
Some died through accident cause they drank and still drove and drove in the night for that matter.

The risk involved with night movement is too much.
Once in a blue moon with permission from your wife...Yes
but an everyday or occasional occurrence...its not acceptable at all...that is how extra marital affairs begin.

I don't know how some women do it o...I can't be in a marriage where it's only me that is living like a married person while my partner is still behaving like a bachelor.

Marriage comes with sacrifices, especially cutting off some social activities.
If you can't do it then you have no business being married.

http://www.lailasblog.com/2017/06/not-proper-married-man-outside-home-11pm-nigerian-lady.html

FlirtyKaren:
According to Facebook user, Victoria Onwuchekwa:

I don't think it's proper for a married man to be outside at 11pm in the night with the excuse that he is hanging out with his boys and he needs to de-stress.
I don't know how some women tolerate it.....I can't.

Women stay at home after work even during weekends whether stressed or not...to be with their family.
Since you have decided to be a Married man then you should act like one.

It's not only irresponsible but selfish and also very dangerous.

I know of men that went to hang out...were attacked when coming back and till today their wives haven't seen them.
Some died through accident cause they drank and still drove and drove in the night for that matter.

The risk involved with night movement is too much.
Once in a blue moon with permission from your wife...Yes
but an everyday or occasional occurrence...its not acceptable at all...that is how extra marital affairs begin.

I don't know how some women do it o...I can't be in a marriage where it's only me that is living like a married person while my partner is still behaving like a bachelor.

Marriage comes with sacrifices, especially cutting off some social activities.
If you can't do it then you have no business being married.

http://www.lailasblog.com/2017/06/not-proper-married-man-outside-home-11pm-nigerian-lady.html

Destined2win:
You are right.

I want a woman that all I think about, aside wisdom and making money is her and the kids.

That will prompt being ahome as much as possible

lalanice:
right!
I'm all for dnt spend d evening where you cannot spend d night. if you're staying late? you best be sleeping there

vargasvictory:


Never say NEVER, Whilst I admire your positive thinking, it doesn't always work like that, not just your attitude, there could be a thousand reason he might be staying out late.

Lest I forget, when an EDIBLE CATERING is in the equation

Acidosis:
You cannot escape this behavior when you marry an extrovert.


Cook the best meal in the world, dress sexy and in fact, go naked, it still won't keep him in the home all day/nights. You cannot keep an extrovert away from his circle of friends, game house or football viewing centre for too long.

verygudbadguy:


I pray you are able to achieve that when the time comes. Alot of you ladies pretend during courtship and later show ur true colour when the marriage is sealed. Your husband can not say a word and you oblige without giving him a fight.

I am guilty as charged but I have my reasons for all that Waka Waka. My life is based on one routine. Wake up, go to work, come back late, eat, play with my girls, gist with my wife and sleep. I rarely have time to talk to my family and friends during the week. I spent my TGIF with my friends. Life is too short to live like a robot. I hang out with my wiffy once in a while. We also take the children out on Saturday.

Life will be too boring when you don't unwind. I cannot come and kee myself.

Garrirevenge:
My man can never choose his guys over me, never. My attitude will make him wanna always spend time with me. I am absolutely certain of that. Some women just have to change their attitude thats all.

fastgyal:
You're right, but some times you should allow your man unwind especially at weekends. its their own way of chilling after a week of hard work.

chngebeginwthme:


Sorry you sound like the controlling type, You mean your man should choose you he met let's say 5yrs and get married to over his friends he had known for over 2 decades?

I always tell my wife you can distance me from my new friends no wahala but the friends i have known decades before i even know about her existence? Kole werk..

jhudit:

Marry your friends, let them born for you. That's how you people carry your friends matter for head, tomorrow you'll have issues and your friends home will be in peace.

jhudit:

Marry your friends, let them born for you. That's how you people carry your friends matter for head, tomorrow you'll have issues and your friends home will be in peace.

chngebeginwthme:


LOL please remind me how many kids Davido have with his name now? Must i marry before i born pikin? hahah

Baby mama sure pass jare who get time for woman nagging up and down..

oribi:


well great ladies understand there husband and also accommodate there friends...Some friends are blood they even do more than what family does..