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Biblical Proof Of Why A Jobless Man Should Not Get Married. Check Out Number 2 by Sirhethat12(f): 3:05pm On Jun 12, 2017
The word "Eden" is an Hebrew word for "where God dwells", so the first thing God gave man was "His Presence".

(1)So the first thing a man needs is NOT a woman; it is the presence of God, and a woman should meet him in the presence of God. Eve met Adam in Eden.

(2)The next thing God gave man after putting him in the Garden was WORK. (Gen. 2:15). God gave man work before giving him a woman. That means a man needs a job before he gets a woman. God's priorities are very clear.

(3)The third thing God told man was "Cultivate"...... Cultivate here means, bring out the best in everything around you, to maximize the potentials of everything and everyone around you; to make everything fruitful. He only said that to the male. That's why God will never give a man a finished woman. The male was created by God to create whatever he wants. The woman you are looking for doesn't exist; she's in your head. Your job is to take the raw material you married and cultivate her into the woman in your head. So you have been married for 20yrs and you still don't like the product you get, that's your fault.

(3a)If your wife is putting a little weight and you don't like that, don't criticize her; it's your job to wake her at 6am, " Hey baby, let's go jogging".

(3b)You don't like her dress? Take her to a boutique and buy her clothes you like.
(3c) She can't speak good English? Send her to school and pay her tuition fee. CULTIVATE HER!!!!

(4)The fourth thing God said to man was, "Guard the Garden". The man has to be the protector of everything under his care. That's why God gave you a stronger bone frame. A bigger muscle mass, not to abuse the woman, but to protect the woman.

(5)The last thing God gave man was his Word... God told man not to touch the tree; God never told the woman about the tree, NEVER!!!..... Which means it was the man WHO received the word of God and his job was to teach his wife the word of God.
NOTE: Nothing frustrates a woman like when she asks her man "So what do you think" and the dummy answers "what ever you think is OK"....or keeps quiet. ..Giving Silence...mmmm.
Don't do that bro, don't do that. She's looking for knowledge and direction. That was the last command God gave to man in Vs 17.

★Now watch this: in verse 18, God said, "It is not good for this man to be alone". Now, don't just read the statement fast, read it again slowly, " it is not good for THIS MAN to be alone".
WHAT MAN
Answer : The man who is:
*In his presence
*Has a job (working)
*Can Cultivate you
*Can protect you
*Can teach you.
So here's the problem:

★ if you meet a man who doesn't like God's presence, isn't working, can't cultivate you, can't protect you and can't teach you, then.....
IT IS GOOD FOR THAT MAN TO BE ALONE! *Full Stop!*

source: myles-munroe-relationships-and-

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Re: Biblical Proof Of Why A Jobless Man Should Not Get Married. Check Out Number 2 by Nobody: 3:12pm On Jun 12, 2017
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Re: Biblical Proof Of Why A Jobless Man Should Not Get Married. Check Out Number 2 by Kestolove(m): 3:21pm On Jun 12, 2017
nd dix same God brought KONJI...wich kind wickedness bdix?
Re: Biblical Proof Of Why A Jobless Man Should Not Get Married. Check Out Number 2 by GloriaNinja(f): 3:29pm On Jun 12, 2017
undecided SORRY TO BURST YOUR BUBBLE BUT SUCH MEN DOES NOT EXIST, EVEN IF THEIR WIFE GAIN WEIGHT, THEY WILL SEEK FOR YOUNGER GIRLS.
Re: Biblical Proof Of Why A Jobless Man Should Not Get Married. Check Out Number 2 by fullstreets: 4:43pm On Jun 12, 2017
"Cultivation" most of us know that in relation to farming, ur over explanation no go help. What I will advise every young man to do is just to make two ridges by the side of d compound and plant anything, if gals with ur kind of mindset come our way, we show u what we are cultivating, dassall.
Re: Biblical Proof Of Why A Jobless Man Should Not Get Married. Check Out Number 2 by Nobody: 5:13pm On Jun 12, 2017
Now we have N-power wink
Re: Biblical Proof Of Why A Jobless Man Should Not Get Married. Check Out Number 2 by spartan50(m): 5:22pm On Jun 12, 2017
Very educational OP.. Thanks I learnt alot..
Re: Biblical Proof Of Why A Jobless Man Should Not Get Married. Check Out Number 2 by GoldenSpine24(m): 5:47pm On Jun 12, 2017
Sirhethat12:
The word "Eden" is an Hebrew word for "where God dwells", so the first thing God gave man was "His Presence".

(1)So the first thing a man needs is NOT a woman; it is the presence of God, and a woman should meet him in the presence of God. Eve met Adam in Eden.

(2)The next thing God gave man after putting him in the Garden was WORK. (Gen. 2:15). God gave man work before giving him a woman. That means a man needs a job before he gets a woman. God's priorities are very clear.

(3)The third thing God told man was "Cultivate"...... Cultivate here means, bring out the best in everything around you, to maximize the potentials of everything and everyone around you; to make everything fruitful. He only said that to the male. That's why God will never give a man a finished woman. The male was created by God to create whatever he wants. The woman you are looking for doesn't exist; she's in your head. Your job is to take the raw material you married and cultivate her into the woman in your head. So you have been married for 20yrs and you still don't like the product you get, that's your fault.

(3a)If your wife is putting a little weight and you don't like that, don't criticize her; it's your job to wake her at 6am, " Hey baby, let's go jogging".

(3b)You don't like her dress? Take her to a boutique and buy her clothes you like.
(3c) She can't speak good English? Send her to school and pay her tuition fee. CULTIVATE HER!!!!

(4)The fourth thing God said to man was, "Guard the Garden". The man has to be the protector of everything under his care. That's why God gave you a stronger bone frame. A bigger muscle mass, not to abuse the woman, but to protect the woman.

(5)The last thing God gave man was his Word... God told man not to touch the tree; God never told the woman about the tree, NEVER!!!..... Which means it was the man WHO received the word of God and his job was to teach his wife the word of God.
NOTE: Nothing frustrates a woman like when she asks her man "So what do you think" and the dummy answers "what ever you think is OK"....or keeps quiet. ..Giving Silence...mmmm.
Don't do that bro, don't do that. She's looking for knowledge and direction. That was the last command God gave to man in Vs 17.

★Now watch this: in verse 18, God said, "It is not good for this man to be alone". Now, don't just read the statement fast, read it again slowly, " it is not good for THIS MAN to be alone".
WHAT MAN
Answer : The man who is:
*In his presence
*Has a job (working)
*Can Cultivate you
*Can protect you
*Can teach you.
So here's the problem:

★ if you meet a man who doesn't like God's presence, isn't working, can't cultivate you, can't protect you and can't teach you, then.....
IT IS GOOD FOR THAT MAN TO BE ALONE! *Full Stop!*

source: myles-munroe-relationships-and-

Nice one. Though i think it's all about balance. A woman was created as a complement so he needs to have those qualities, true. So she will have something to complement. However sometimes we yield to the decisions or thoughts of a woman not because we wouldn't have an idea of what to say but for the fact that it still part of what dignifies her.

For the dummy answers part: Come to think of it. A man isn't perfect so from time to time he will make mistakes. Sometimes that yielding is what makes the woman set things right with her certain decisions that if the man had made,could impact negatively on the home. While the man has a role to play, i think it's complementary for both parties and most importantly its about balance cos balance creates happiness.

our points are mostly in sync, but Nice one though.

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