Splinz:


Ahem! Abasi mbok!

Maky there wouldn't be need for that. When you go on your knees for me, I'd also go on mine and kiss your forehead.

Yeap... let us go to the asylum together.

Hahahahahaha

makydebbie:
During courtship, I'll remind him it's the 21st century and I'm not kneeling to greet him.
I'm not begging my man to kneel and propose to me but then kneeling to propose is significant.

Sorry but I'm allergic to alcohol.

21st century does not change people's way of life.


This is 21st century, after God created the earth, the rest of the things in world are made in China yet most families in China use sticks to eat. Does it mean that they can produce enough spoons for their people?

You can either accept his culture or turn down his proposal.

I am ok with that but it has nothing to do with his ego or esteem, that's where you're wrong.

Kneeling to propose is significant because a man is doing it for a woman, reverse the role and you lots will say men are looking slaves not wives.

Only when I'm fulfilling my marital bed duties.(giving head) Lol that's it.

I think the wife has come to a point of realising that there is nothing to gain forming we are same level.
Many things women try to get out of their men could be gotten easily by submissiveness.
Wether we like it or not, being in charge sweets a man the way appreciating/toasting a woman sweets her. And a person who is flattered can hardly do but reciprocate in gesture.

Sorry, have a bad knee so kolewerk...

ZarZar:
Nope.

Not even if he's a leprechaun?

WORLDPEACE:

Not even if he's a leprechaun?

No, because we'll be eye-to-eye

ZarZar:


No, because we'll be eye-to-eye

Hahahahaha I was gonna say leprechauns have the power to grant all your wishes.

You know what baffles me? Many ladies who married late and had to do marathon fasting and prayers to get married, will still get married and forget how they visited church to church to get this spouse and start holding ground with him and forming feminism. Next thing they will see themselves back in those churches praying for their marriage not to scatter.

If she has the grace to kneel till death...more power to her elbow. .but then don't start what you can't finish. .What joy does the man get in seeing his wife on her knees daily?this is neither love nor submission

Nonsense, why will I do that? Is it a master-slave relationship? This is not submission but stupidity.

Cos he is my god or what?

never!!! dats so archaic

kneel daily ke! he should kukuma glue me to do floor so whenever he comes around I would always b on my knees.. I can Neva do dat

Kneel ko, summersault ni.

NotOfThis:
Kneel ko, summersault ni.

LOL. Kukuma kill somebody

uzobaby:
If she has the grace to kneel till death...more power to her elbow. .but then don't start what you can't finish. .What joy does the man get in seeing his wife on her knees daily?this is neither love nor submission

Hmmmm. Want to say it's slavery?

DatesAndMeals:

Hmmmm. Want to say it's slavery?

yeah

I won't allow my wife to do that because she is not a slave.

Tradition first before your personal opinion. The Yoruba tradition demands that a wife kneels before her husband to greet him; that a junior kneels before his/her senior when they greet; that subjects, old or young, bow before the baale or oba to greet him.

So, a typical Yoruba lady who observe cultural values would always kneel before her husband no matter the level of her education or exposure. Not that I support it but it's just what it is and you can't change it. I won't be surprised if some of you here blabbing kneel before ordinary boyfriends that always cheat on you.

If I marry a man whose culture demands it, I will.
But if he thinks he can demand it to massage his ego, he's got another think coming.

PrickGetSize:
Tradition first before your personal opinion. The Yoruba tradition demands that a wife kneels before her husband to greet him; that a junior kneels before his/her senior when they greet; that subjects, old or young, bow before the baale or oba to greet him.

So, a typical Yoruba lady who observe cultural values would always kneel before her husband no matter the level of her education or exposure. Not that I support it but it's just what it is and you can't change it. I won't be surprised if some of you here blabbing kneel before ordinary boyfriends that always cheat on you.

LOL @ ordinarily boyfriend who always cheat on you.

DatesAndMeals:
I know this is a controversial topic in this generation but from the views of the author of this true story, the pros outweighs the cons.
Mr and Mrs E have been married for a few years now. They are in the same peer group and were first friends before spouses so naturally the free mentality continued into marriage.
A few years down the line quarrels began brewing, the underlying issues pointed to the man feeling not respected enough. Mrs E tried all her ideas to keep the marriage happy. Tried to incorporate hugs after prayer time etc as not only was she an affectionate person, but she also read of how hugs and the likes builds connection in couples. This didn't last long as the man quickly grew tired of being forced to hug or peck daily.
One day at a church gathering, marriage was being discussed and an old lady suggested that wives should return to the old ways of kneeling for their husbands. Everyone laughed about it and soon forgot it.
One day months later during reconciliation talks after a quarrel, the husband voiced out that he acted the way he did cos he feels his wife challenges his authority.
The wife calmly joked that did he want her to kneel to greet him daily like the old woman in church suggested, because she could. He turned his face away blushing saying "I beg don't kneel for me oh". Well madam still did kneel and said good morning lovingly. The perplexed man held her in his arms and prayed for her. While giving her all the hugs she desired.
Since that day madam has kept kneeling to greet oga. And even when oga tends to leave the bed before her, she still finds him and says "you want to cheat me this morning abi?" as she kneels down to greet him and he pulls he up giving her a hug.
One morning last week, Mrs E went to bed angrily. In the morning, Mr E hugs her, she didn't respond well. After a few minutes he says "won't u greet me this morning?" She rolls over, kneels and greets him though still mad at him. Then it dawned on her that her husband had begun looking forward to her morning greetings and she smiled.
Needless to say their relationship has take a new dimension of intimacy. You may say she will soon get tired of this ritual, but according to Mrs E she says she even looks forward to mornings just to greet her husband.

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lol why won't i when i be spoilt brat?? ehn i mean spoilt brat at least i suppose get wetin husbie go dey consider iffa misbehave.....on a serious note why won't i when i slide from bed every morning to go on my knees and say good morning to mam n dad