Gud day nairalanders.

I'm not one to share my problems online buh this one has been eating me up.
I met my girlfrnd about a yr ago, she was veri cool, nice and all lovey dovey, well things turned sour when we got admission, she had to study out of our state, while I remained in town. ever since she went to skool, its been one problem or the other.

I haven't been dere for her like I should buh truth is I ve been faithful to her. the long distance thinggy is realli messing things up. she sent me a breakup text, after I didn't call her for like 3days. I didn't reply I simply deleted the text. though she kept on calling after like 4days, wen I finally answered she said it was becos I don't call her, and she needed my attention??

well I decided to take her out this break and make up for everything. while we were chilling for our movie 2 start, she decided 2 ease herself, she left her fone so I decided to go through it, wasn't looking for anything in particular buh I stumbled upon a message she sent one guy and my babe was like telling this dude how much she loves him. I admit I had messed things up with her. Wats so annoying is d fact that these msgs were sent these months, the latest a day b4 our date.

wen I confronted her she said he was just a crush, and dat he has been the one pushing her through these low points. mind you d last time she told me she loved me was like 3mnths ago.

I still love her. all I want is to know is if having a crush on d opposite sex wen ur in a relationship is total OK, moreso telling them how much u love them.

I didn't read all that but yeah. Its normal to crush on someone else whiles in a relationship but then, its left for that person to kill that crushing spirit and focus on his present relationship.


Invest more time on yr girlfriend and you'd see she's more beautiful than that whom you have a crush on...

DeGuyNxtDoor:
I didn't read all that but yeah. Its normal to crush on someone else whiles in a relationship but then, its left for that person to kill that crushing spirit and focus on his present relationship.


Invest more time on yr girlfriend and you'd see she's more beautiful than that whom you have a crush on...

tnx bruh. buh it ain't me who's having a crush, its her

Hmmm. My signature says it all.
Move on bro and turn her to a side chick, but don't let her know.

eddysernal:


tnx bruh. buh it ain't me who's having a crush, its her

now that's another thing, I believe you're more involved in the relationship than she is right? Which is the reason you feel this worried...hmm.


You got to talk to her about it, let her see reasons why it isn't healthy for ur relationship, and show her more love these times. Seem like you're not doing much to show her that you care and love her more than she actually thinks...if you wanna rekindle the fire in ur relationship and make her forget this dude she's crushing on, you gotta give her you time and take her out for dinner or something, the beachside where you can confess and assure her of you undying love and mean it!


But while all these are going on, I'd advice you give it an open mind so as not to be too shocked if something goes wrong. Good luck bro.

It's either she's cheating on u or not but one thing is for sure, she's going to cheat on u if she isn't already

DeGuyNxtDoor:
now that's another thing, I believe you're more involved in the relationship than she is right? Which is the reason you feel this worried...hmm.


You got to talk to her about it, let her see reasons why it isn't healthy for ur relationship, and show her more love these times. Seem like you're not doing much to show her that you care and love her more than she actually thinks...if you wanna rekindle the fire in ur relationship and make her forget this dude she's crushing on, you gotta give her you time and take her out for dinner or something, the beachside where you can confess and assure her of you undying love and mean it!


But while all these are going on, I'd advice you give it an open mind so as not to be too shocked if something goes wrong. Good luck bro.

for some reason, u seem 2 understand everthing...
ill try what you ve suggested. tnx, it means alot
I hope she stays

Nbote:
It's either she's cheating on u or not but one thing is for sure, she's going to cheat on u if she isn't already

I realli don't care if she's cheating or has cheated...I would take her back, all I need is for her 2 love me just the way I do love her

eddysernal:


for some reason, u seem 2 understand everthing...
ill try what you ve suggested. tnx, it means alot
I hope she stays

we all have our experiences bro. Just don't be too bothered over it. What will be, will be.


Stay safe bro.

eddysernal:


I realli don't care if she's cheating or has cheated...I would take her back, all I need is for her 2 love me just the way I do love her

How exactly do u think dat can happen? If she luvs u jus d way u do den d cheating part won't come up. I understand u're luvstruck but U shld luv with ur heart and think with ur head, not the other way round.