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Re: I Caught Her Cheating, Wedding In Two Months, Should I Go Ahead Out Of Pity? by chronique(m): 2:49pm On Jul 04, 2017 |
TinaAnita: I have never cheated on anyone I dated cos I've always been a principled person who treats people the way he wants to be treated. That's why I can't stand cheating and infidelity one bit. Besides, I'm too engrossed in finding ways to be successful, to start chasing skirts up and down. I'm not a useless person. 3 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Caught Her Cheating, Wedding In Two Months, Should I Go Ahead Out Of Pity? by Emanodimo(m): 2:49pm On Jul 04, 2017 |
[quote author=Gourdoinc post=58103434]lol. has this one been a good woman in other aspects? has she shown good wifely and motherly attributes ? if the answer to that question is yes. then (I can't believe I am saying this rubbish) forgive her and don't forget her. That's the best way to deal with your present "predicament" like Gordon Comedy Belusconi will say. One thing to be thankful of is that u have seen the signs earlier. One thing to be remembered that we are all humane, let us learn to forgive. Practically, prepare to share the budget of that wedding 50/50 with her, so u won't have cause to scratch your head on the bridge. 1 Like |
Re: I Caught Her Cheating, Wedding In Two Months, Should I Go Ahead Out Of Pity? by LeanonGOD(m): 2:53pm On Jul 04, 2017 |
You better make up your mind - if you go into marriage out of pity, or because of what people would say or because of the amount of money you have spent - you are deceiving yourself and it is a disaster waiting to happen. You can never please this well-well experienced woman sexually nor financially. If you had no evidence this public-dog would deny deny deny. Half a word for the Wise, don't be a big FOOL that end up with another man's children. listenersky: |
Re: I Caught Her Cheating, Wedding In Two Months, Should I Go Ahead Out Of Pity? by poseidon12: 2:54pm On Jul 04, 2017 |
Of course, you should go ahead and marry her. Just don't come back here lamenting later. God is trying to save you but you are doing your best to resist. What a question. |
Re: I Caught Her Cheating, Wedding In Two Months, Should I Go Ahead Out Of Pity? by Heineken(m): 2:56pm On Jul 04, 2017 |
But nawao... Girls sha. Most of them are bad news. Imagine this shii. I no go fit forget wetin this girl sef do Me during service then. I love u wholeheartedly but u still dey fire one mumu guy say naso una dey do for your Lodge. She go come my place do like say na only me dey fire her. If no be God direct me to see her WhatsApp chat that midnyt. Thunder fire you B |
Re: I Caught Her Cheating, Wedding In Two Months, Should I Go Ahead Out Of Pity? by LeanonGOD(m): 2:56pm On Jul 04, 2017 |
Second the motion. Chuvinchi: |
Re: I Caught Her Cheating, Wedding In Two Months, Should I Go Ahead Out Of Pity? by Kfed4ril(m): 2:57pm On Jul 04, 2017 |
listenersky: This is the most stupid reason ever, So you want to marry her out of pity abi what will people say? When she was cheating didn't she think of you? And for the fact that after your introduction she still was cheating, my man use your head. Or you marry her for this reason and go ahead to suffer from the first day of your wedding |
Re: I Caught Her Cheating, Wedding In Two Months, Should I Go Ahead Out Of Pity? by Kachigifto3: 2:58pm On Jul 04, 2017 |
Bro,the reason why u brought this matter to this forum is because u still love her because i believe if u no longer love her u wouldn't need someone's advice u would just take a walk.I know some few men who could cope with cheating partners but not my type but i don't know if u are one of those men.....At least 85% of women who ever cheated never stopped cheating,they only look for new ways to hide it from their partners |
Re: I Caught Her Cheating, Wedding In Two Months, Should I Go Ahead Out Of Pity? by LeanonGOD(m): 3:03pm On Jul 04, 2017 |
You deserves a bag loaded with us$ award. angelusbrut: 1 Like |
Re: I Caught Her Cheating, Wedding In Two Months, Should I Go Ahead Out Of Pity? by Nobody: 3:19pm On Jul 04, 2017 |
ceejay80s: Guy I have seen it happen. Within three years the guy was having serious mental health issues over something that could have been avoided in the first place. A word is enough. |
Re: I Caught Her Cheating, Wedding In Two Months, Should I Go Ahead Out Of Pity? by Ritajovy(f): 3:19pm On Jul 04, 2017 |
lolz? Marry her out of pity and watch your marriage crash before your eyes. Marry her out of pity and have a marriage of pity. Marriage is not something you do out of pity. Its an agreement and obviously, to be spouse ain't committed. Amos 3:3- Can two walk together unless they agree? You can't walk together o. There is no agreement. A broken engagement is better than a broken marriage. Be wise dear!! 1 Like |
Re: I Caught Her Cheating, Wedding In Two Months, Should I Go Ahead Out Of Pity? by Ritajovy(f): 3:20pm On Jul 04, 2017 |
lolz? Marry her out of pity and watch your marriage crash before your eyes. Marry her out of pity and have a marriage of pity. Marriage is not something you do out of pity. Its an agreement and obviously, to be spouse ain't committed. Amos 3:3- Can two walk together unless they agree? You two can't walk together o. There is no agreement. A broken engagement is better than a broken marriage. Be wise dear!! |
Re: I Caught Her Cheating, Wedding In Two Months, Should I Go Ahead Out Of Pity? by LeanonGOD(m): 3:20pm On Jul 04, 2017 |
;VERY Funny. jpphilips: |
Re: I Caught Her Cheating, Wedding In Two Months, Should I Go Ahead Out Of Pity? by Gamboh55(m): 3:21pm On Jul 04, 2017 |
jjjjj2017:;DBurnt amala. Don't mind her |
Re: I Caught Her Cheating, Wedding In Two Months, Should I Go Ahead Out Of Pity? by Gamboh55(m): 3:22pm On Jul 04, 2017 |
Run for your damn life. She will never stop cheating with that same man. Marriage doesnt change anything |
Re: I Caught Her Cheating, Wedding In Two Months, Should I Go Ahead Out Of Pity? by Nobody: 3:23pm On Jul 04, 2017 |
Oga the answer is in your question |
Re: I Caught Her Cheating, Wedding In Two Months, Should I Go Ahead Out Of Pity? by bolajipsalmseen: 3:24pm On Jul 04, 2017 |
bro plz do forgive n forget but dnt even think of getting married to her, n dnt put her to shame if the two family ask wat happen refer them to d lady n stand on it dat if she don't revealed d secret her self u don't hv anytin to say, let her put herself to shame. |
Re: I Caught Her Cheating, Wedding In Two Months, Should I Go Ahead Out Of Pity? by lilytender: 3:27pm On Jul 04, 2017 |
listenersky: It is only stubborn flies that follow the corpse into the grave just like stubborn dogs that do not hear the hunter's whistle. You have been warned by good wishers on Nairaland. An adulterous wife is gateway to the husband's death. Ghanaian ex-International Odartey Lamptey reveals how he found out 3 Children from his former Marriage Former Ghanaian professional footballer and current assistant manager at Ghanaian football club Sekondi Wise Fighters, Nii Odartey Lamptey in a new interview with Nana Aba Amoah of GHOne's "Cheers" revealed how he was betrayed by his ex wife for 21 years. He had been with her for 21 years with 3 kids - ages 20, 19 and 8 - before he found out that they were not his. The wife had filed for divorce over his inability to send the oldest child to the UK for university education. He however arranged for a DNA test for his children following advice from a friend. Breaking down in tears, the ex-Aston Villa and PSV midfielder revealed how shocked he was to discover that the children were not his and how his wife blamed him claiming he was impotent. However, he finalized his divorce and moved on with his life and is now focused on his new family and football academy. He is married with two kids and another on the way. Watch full video on bellanaija.com/scoop SOURCE: https://www.bellanaija.com/2017/07/odartey-lamptey-children-21-years/ |
Re: I Caught Her Cheating, Wedding In Two Months, Should I Go Ahead Out Of Pity? by Maduawuchukwu(m): 3:28pm On Jul 04, 2017 |
last35: Hahaha. People cheat but do not want to be cheated on. |
Re: I Caught Her Cheating, Wedding In Two Months, Should I Go Ahead Out Of Pity? by laudate: 3:29pm On Jul 04, 2017 |
listenersky: listenersky:Why didn't she think of all that when she was cheating on you? What makes you think she would be faithful to you after marriage? |
Re: I Caught Her Cheating, Wedding In Two Months, Should I Go Ahead Out Of Pity? by almarthins(m): 3:38pm On Jul 04, 2017 |
listenersky: Den marry her na, but dont come complaining again. |
Re: I Caught Her Cheating, Wedding In Two Months, Should I Go Ahead Out Of Pity? by Fusion23: 3:51pm On Jul 04, 2017 |
listenersky: if you marry her and she ends up killing you will that be better, there is no trust in that marriage again. Thou follow your mind. but to destroy your life to please someone else is OK if you ready to bear the consequences. |
Re: I Caught Her Cheating, Wedding In Two Months, Should I Go Ahead Out Of Pity? by Anfieldboss: 3:51pm On Jul 04, 2017 |
listenersky: She never thought of that when she was screwing another man. Move on man, and don't look back. |
Re: I Caught Her Cheating, Wedding In Two Months, Should I Go Ahead Out Of Pity? by Davoneskay(m): 3:55pm On Jul 04, 2017 |
The wedding is only a one day or at least two-day event. Marriage is a lifetime event. The 3 wrongs of life- wrong family, wrong wife, wrong church. |
Re: I Caught Her Cheating, Wedding In Two Months, Should I Go Ahead Out Of Pity? by 1stlorenzo(m): 4:11pm On Jul 04, 2017 |
Xsem:. Guy..you get sense... |
Re: I Caught Her Cheating, Wedding In Two Months, Should I Go Ahead Out Of Pity? by Rapture4real(m): 4:28pm On Jul 04, 2017 |
Marvel1206:My dear even a God fearing pastor will tell you don't marry her.You will.appear foolish and stupid at the end of d day.A lady that kept that away from you will be a torn in your flesh.Many years of immoral relationship and she still wanted to hide.She can't eat her cake and have it.She will still do more after wedding.Don't marry her 1 Like |
Re: I Caught Her Cheating, Wedding In Two Months, Should I Go Ahead Out Of Pity? by patonyx1: 4:34pm On Jul 04, 2017 |
Abi o.. My greatest detest in a woman is "Infidelity", I can tolerate arrogance, but for cheating? It's a no-go area. VargasVee: |
Re: I Caught Her Cheating, Wedding In Two Months, Should I Go Ahead Out Of Pity? by TheRaven: 4:48pm On Jul 04, 2017 |
listenersky:If u marry her,u may end up killing her yourself,cos throughout ur married life u will not trust her and u will always be bitter towards her. so runnnnn. |
Re: I Caught Her Cheating, Wedding In Two Months, Should I Go Ahead Out Of Pity? by OgbeniSir(m): 4:51pm On Jul 04, 2017 |
listenersky: Do not listen to anybody on this platform that says run! They are of devil lineage and don't want your happiness. She's your wife, since apologised and after all you didn't meet her a Virgin shebi? Do not fall your hand nor hers. Go ahead with the wedding and the God almighty will nurture and protect your married life Amen |
Re: I Caught Her Cheating, Wedding In Two Months, Should I Go Ahead Out Of Pity? by dnawah(m): 4:51pm On Jul 04, 2017 |
listenersky:pls write ur biography and tell us the kind of uniform we will wear 4 ur burial.or look 4 a replacement now.may the good God be with u. |
Re: I Caught Her Cheating, Wedding In Two Months, Should I Go Ahead Out Of Pity? by Nobody: 4:51pm On Jul 04, 2017 |
listenersky:She should have thought of that before cheating few weeks to her wedding...a broken engagement is better than a broken marriage after 3kids |
Re: I Caught Her Cheating, Wedding In Two Months, Should I Go Ahead Out Of Pity? by Nobody: 4:55pm On Jul 04, 2017 |
For this Op to consider going ahead with the wedding, he may be a cheat himself who has been forgiven by his fiancee a few times. Now that the shoe is on the other side, of course he has to show 'undastanding'. Either that or he just has a soft heart.... If you decide to go ahead, pls watch your back so you won't be killed or destroyed by jealous lovers or a greedy wife. Years of infidelity is different from a one off or a short time affair. They fit kill you 'throway'. Nothing go happen. 2 Likes |
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