Play into his insecurity; when a man gets older, he tends to loose his masculinity to a certain degree. When he gets older he loses some of his confidence, his youthful vitality.  You need to make him feel the masculinity that he lost.


1) Have an air of innocence and vulnerability; act like you don’t know about somethings. Let him feel like he’s in control, this will make him let his guard down. Just as it is in the wild, during hunting, whenever we see a prey that’s easy, we forget a lot of essentials, we don’t protect ourselves, thereby leaving our guards down. He will emotionally invest in you because he feels like he is controlling you, but in reality you are the one controlling him.
2) Enter his Spirit; act like you are falling in love with him; Act like you depend on him. Act like you are interested in him and his hobbies. What happens here is the because people idolize themselves and feel like they are perfection. When he see someone else displaying his qualities or things that he loves about himself; the ways he talks, the words he uses, etc. it will have a great effect on him. It will make him feel good, like he owns you and is emotionally invested in you. He now feels like he has you but in reality, you have him.
3) Keep your distance by maintaining an air of mystery; don’t let him know everything about you. Creating and keeping distance with a man creates fear of loss, respect and creates the illusion of you being hotter than you are.  By creating space, it makes him feel like he owns you when you are in person but doesn’t have control over you when you are away. And then he feels like he knows you when you are caring, interested in him, his interests but at the same time feels like he doesn’t know you when you are being cold, distant, unavailable when you are way. Your absence will create fear in his heart. Fear will enhance the enemy and reduces him, makes him a lot weaker, reduces his faculties resulting in emotional instability, inability to control his feelings, confusion on if you like him or if you don’t.
4) Be edgy by having two (2) sides but playing the innocent. Read More Here: http://goddessesneversettle..com.ng/2017/07/how-to-flirt-with-older-men.html?m=1