EmekaBlue:
sorry for the initial quote i gave u,coz ur dp got my attention.... after using my software to process into you account kinda, I found out thats not you on your profile. You are making so much feminine meow here but u dont even have self esteem. its better u take it down than use the beautiful lady to be behaving like this. Thankyou

cococandy:

I won't take it down. She gave me her permission

EmekaBlue:
okay.

cococandy:
Why don't we get all the insults out of the way and see if somehow something sensible can come out of you.

1) I'm olosho. Agreed
2) I'm bitter. Agreed very much
3) I need to find a man so my bitterness will turn to sweetness . Oh wait I have one already. I guess he's not a real man then because what real man would be okay with a woman has a voice and cares about female oppression. Sigh.
4) I'm ugly and men don't want me that's why I hate men.
5) there's really nothing else left to insult me with.

Now that I've made your job easier. What sensible thing do you have to say? Oh I forgot you didn't want to 'descend' to my level of discourse. you prefer the high road of calling me a slut as a debate response. Dimwits like you come a dime a dozen and I've been doing this for a while now so I already know that take away those preprogrammed responses listed above, you have nothing meaningful to say. It's like a minion lord some where made your little minds and put nothing else but those in it. You're naked in a debate without the ability to call the woman a slut.


You should go to hell where you belong

Carry your frustrations and bitterness back to the man who made your life miserable.

I was told you've been MAD for more than a while .....but just take your Meds and get some sleep.
It does not take a minute for even a new person, to recognise you are derainged and need psychiatric intervention.

cococandy:

lol that's me. Your software is fake. I hope you don't depend on it

HannahHitler:
Thanks God for social media.

it has exposed all the hidden ills of our society.

God bless these women for their dedication to the girl child that has no where to turn.

Abused by our uncles, neighbors, friends, brothers, boyfriends, husband's and even our fathers that gave birth to us, when we turn to God, our imams and pastor's are right there waiting to even do more damage. The girl child needs all the help she can get.

Make that call today and get it off your chest.

Daboomb:


Hey, enough of the numbering like a Kindergaten, you hear!

Carry your frustrations and bitterness back to the man who made your life miserable.

I was told you've been MAD for more than awhile but just take your Meds and get some sleep.
It doesnot take a minute for even a new person, to recognise you are derainged and need psychiatric intervention.

Enough of this running mad over my mention.

Swerve make l see road jorr, Weyrey.

naijaboiy:


You just spoke my mind bro. Who should the male victims speak to?

All these biased misandrist hiding under the cloak of feminism to champion their hate for men. If they really wanted to fight it they should not focus on one gender alone.

These ones will end up brain washing the victims and make every man look like a devil in their sight.

There should be equality for all rape and abuse victims, whether male or female. Simple

Futureberry:
that a falacy, millions get abused ,wait till it happen your son first,that if it has not happened already,boys get raped,abused etc

pocohantas:


Ahbeg swerve. Written all over it indeed.
People see what they want to see, makes it easier for them to be stupid without any worry.

Obalende:

Why would a man want to prevent a woman from getting help? I cant think of any reason.... you make this sound personal/ gender war... typical US strains of the movement.... I dey tell you....

kense88:
what about aunties, friends, relatives who molest male . I my self still remember my experience and several other attempts by grown up ladies

EasyWork001:


Why you no report? Abi e been dey sweet you, ba?

JeffreyJamez:
Yeaaah, it's always about the female victims. The male Victims can go to hell and burn.

kense88:
what you fail to understand is that, there is a reason why age of consent is placed at 18 . You need to be matured enough to handle the consequences of engaging in sexual activity. Like diseases e. t. c. As for enjoying it, well i was only 5 years, she was my auntys friend .Wonder why she had interest in a 5 year old boy.

EasyWork001:



This one got a cucumber in the brown eye, baby!!!

So ordinary rapist banana dey make you wail like this

Betta find who u go cry complain to

This one just felt like typing trash!

You got the wrong person, so miss me with the bullshyte.

Stellie:
biased?.. U guys r actually condemning des women for dis?? Common ,,,.. We all know d rate of rape is high towards females and somtin needs to b done..
Not neglecting d fact dat guys also get raped and need psychological attention buh if actually d program was mearnt for all genders ,do u think des women wud b able to understnd ur pains?
U al r asking who r we gonna call for help, y nt ask urselves... U can as wel start a program just lyk dis for d male child also......it wud help alot..
Instead of condemning dis gud work .. Try to improve it

I never condemned the good work Miss. You can take your time to go through my reply to bredgetania and see my reasons for the post you quoted.

JeffreyJamez:
Yeaaah, it's always about the female victims. The male Victims can go to hell and burn.

Futureberry:
and the boy child can go to hell for all you care

Tittos:


The write up centers on female victims. They are people that carter for male victims. Also some of these women counsel both male and female victims and help them...

ekensi01:
I wish you had just a cell in your sense.

ibkayee:

I actually acknowledged that men are underrepresented, I recognise that male victims of rape are often either ignored and/or ridiculed therefore even less likely to come forward which I think is wrong. The issue is when people bring up male rape victims solely as a red herring to divert from the issue of female victims and switch up the conversation and/or turn it into a competition

The writeup didn't explicitly state young females either, I guess we should assume it's only goats they want to help

Go be interested in depression, nobody is stopping you mate, you know you can even focus on both issues at the same time too right?

ekensi01:


when last did you check on your brain update service provider?

Tittos:
There is an increasing number of rape cases in Nigeria. However it's shocking to find out that most rape cases are never reported. Also statistics show that a huge percentage of rape cases especially in minors are pepertrated by relatives or close family friends. Nigeria has a society still placed bulk of the blame on rape victims thereby making it difficult to speak up. Studies also found that the majority (76.1%) of the victims that sought help at a hospital did so within 24 hours of their sexual assault, but forensic evidence was not gathered because rape kits have yet to be introduced. This then makes it difficult to prosecute the perpetrator for lack of evidence.

These have made rape victims silent about their ordeal. Thier silence becomes dangerous as it can lead to depression and phobia. Most rape victims are not even aware when they begin to tow this path.
However these three women have taken the fight against rape and sexual abuse to a new level. Enlightening the public about rape and sexual abuse and harassment, helping victims and working hard to combat this ugly crime in Nigeria.

Chi Umeasaka

Aunty Chi has she is fondly called is a life coach, OAP and the producer of 'Teen times with Aunty Chi' on inspiration fm. A victim of rape, she has dedicated much of her life helping victims of abuse and counselling them. Her work earned her an appointment with the Abia State Governor as an SA to the governor on matters related to the girl child. She still shuffles between Lagos and the East and provides life counselling and guidance to youths in general and victims of abuse.
Ig @9ineteenchichi
Contact-08077567379

Blessing Timidi- Very passionate about her work, Blessing has canvassed the length and breadth of Nigeria helping rape victims among other Sexual Reproductive Health and Rights and seeking justice for them. She has spoken on many platforms and strongly campaigns against victimisation and silencing of rape victims.
IG@blessingtimidi
Contact-08052657061

Antonia Ojenagbo-Toniabruisedbutnotbroken is the ig handle of this bold and beautiful woman that usually spots a honey blonde hair. As her name suggests Tonia herself has been a victim of rape and abuse and has gone ahead to turn it around, empower herself and help those who are suffering same fate. She has a support and counselling group for abused and rape survivors where victims come together to talk about their travails, advice and help each other in the process of healing. She is also a certified group counsellor for troubled teens and believes in the power of counselling and collective healing as these helped her too.

IG @toniabruisedbutnotbroken
Contact-08098987884