aahh! well at poster from ur reaction, quite clearly anyone neutral can see that there is more to this ur story than you have said or can/will say! sure his success is your joy. its just that u somehow wish it was due to you n u wish he would be a tad more grateful so to speak by generally suckin up to you a bit more! inshort u want to be the centerpoint of his life. the guy sef fk up, cos he shld hav prepared 4 d sucking up part. nevermind. what u want is a breakup anyway. u should do that cleanly and politely. no quarrels or insults. N.B. Never have this so and so is ungrateful afterall i did mentality. its sucks and needless 2 say no one owes any1. if u do or help any1 at anytime, u should derive joy and satisfaction from the fact that u could help and not from the persons percieved gratefulness. thats a bonus from a person of true understanding. all this when the going was tough stories. big deal. its d guy at fault in my book anyways. lets hope ur next bf is pretty good at groveling n kissing ur bum 4 ur magnanimity and kind heartedness

I dey like NL because if you want advise you go get: 

a) Good advise
b) bad advise
c)and even insults

Sha, all follow abeg more advise

Breakup politely. Hmnnn!

i tire sef. nl! u don talk am say u no wan do again. * ehn ehn i say tell oga bros say ol boy e don do o! me i no wan do you again. i wan carry my market waka! chikena. no take am do fight matter. na d advice i get 4 u b dat.* why your blood come dey hot u dey vibrate then open oporoko 32 dentition? e pass like dt? abi u want medal?

tell her that u don't want her period

^^^^^ Did you read the post at all?
Who is "her" in this story?

Miss poster, Justice demands hearing from both parties involved before drawing a useful conclusion. The guys side of the story might be totally different.

There are lots of likely possibilities;
1. the guys new job might be very demanding for now as he is still under probation(not yet confirmed).
2. It possible you are rude and he was tolerating you while hoping/praying for better days to come.
3. etc.

He who wears the shoe knows where it pinches, analyse the situation and advice yourself.

dis is one of d many reasons some galz i know of can't date a developing guy talkless of marriage cos as soon as d guy hammers even wen she was d ladder 4 him 2 climb up,he'll dump her like a squeezed orange. at least if u go out with a comfortable dude,he has his money n u av urs so no nid 4 financial or career help,u can think,reason n respect each other,but d developin guy most times never likes a gal dat assists dem 2 get 2 d top,dey just pretend 2 like dem 4 just one purpose 2 GET 2 WERE DEY R GOING.dey av a sense of inferiority complex,dey feel if i marry dis gal dat helped me she wount respect me,she'll always want 2 remind me of my humble beginning n how she helped me.abeg there is no nid 2 continue when u know he doesnt give u attention again.u beta take a walk.takin a walk is simple,dont call him again n dont pik his calls (dats if he calls u anywayz) move on with ur life,i know u'll feel bad but dats an experience 4 u not 2 eva date a guy dat u'll be spending money on at d end of d day he'll turn his back on u.good luck

@post There is nothing polite about breaking up,unless u can tell me u can kill your dog and still keep the corpse.
Just spill it,

mon1881:

@post There is nothing polite about breaking up,unless u can tell me u can kill your dog and still keep the corpse.
Just spill it,