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Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by ELITE12(m): 7:29pm On Jul 16, 2017 |
Papiikush: first Person to talk sense...our culture at times make tinz worse... 3 Likes |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by Montaque(m): 7:30pm On Jul 16, 2017 |
When that happens, talk to him, be open n discuss all things without hiding. Tell him how u fought ur own wars n won. Ask him if he wants out of porn and how he intends to do that. Follow him up on his plan. Ask him if he has a gf, encourage him to socialise with girls. I did that with my last brother and it works, he still report to me on such issues if he is having a challenge. Be open about it, between the two of u 1 Like |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by Ishilove: 7:32pm On Jul 16, 2017 |
jejemanito: What happened to Nokia 3310 phones? |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by happney65: 7:32pm On Jul 16, 2017 |
NobleAngell: Pray for him?I see. Now I see why Nigeria is like this..Shioor |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by Freethought(m): 7:34pm On Jul 16, 2017 |
sexybbstar: Bad advice... You just gonna be breeding a thug |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by benfluleck: 7:34pm On Jul 16, 2017 |
Vivipop: Best advice on here. He is at an age where he will be curious, he shouldn't be persecuted. People think sex education will just naturally come when you become an adult . The harsh reality is that most learnt stuff off the media (whether wrong or right). My Dad tried to give me a condom talk when i was 24 lol. Thank goodness i followed a good peer group. 2 Likes |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by Macdawid(m): 7:36pm On Jul 16, 2017 |
Papiikush:U on point man. Most of them porn addicts coming here to form holy holy... Smh 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by Barfibassey(m): 7:39pm On Jul 16, 2017 |
jejemanito:dude,just educate him,punishing him is the solution |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by tripoli007(m): 7:40pm On Jul 16, 2017 |
Omoluabi16: Which kind deliverance ,deliverance from the spirit of porn ..when he has a smartphone .. If una call 10 pastors after d deliverance with internet everywhere ,he will still watch porn 2 Likes |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by Orpe7(m): 7:41pm On Jul 16, 2017 |
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Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by Nobody: 7:41pm On Jul 16, 2017 |
Nothing you can do about it, just get condoms for him and tell him about the dangers of std. Its his time to flog you ve had urs so step aside. 1 Like |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by Omoluabi16(m): 7:46pm On Jul 16, 2017 |
tripoli007:Bro, total freedom is not avoiding evil, but looking evil in the face and rejecting it. Give him a toy phone and he'll still find a way to watch it. You have point tho..the phone is a big barrier. |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by oneman1988: 7:47pm On Jul 16, 2017 |
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Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by igho003(m): 7:47pm On Jul 16, 2017 |
hw fa leave am na nature of all boys when i be he mate I Don even dey finger girls 1 Like |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by Nnamaka1: 7:48pm On Jul 16, 2017 |
Guy! The best way to deal with such issue is to take away all his gadgets through which he can get to have an alone time with this video. Beating can't solve this matter, let him know u are watching him, but pls don't condemn him OK. We have all at one time gone through similar issue, just that at that time porn wasn't accessible like it is now |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by jonbellion(m): 7:50pm On Jul 16, 2017 |
Let him be. He's growing up 2 Likes |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by davillian(m): 7:54pm On Jul 16, 2017 |
Hmmm, he has the knowledge already so there is little or nothing you can do about that. Educate him on sex,age to do it, the risk involved, diseases and safety measures. Then u can look for something to scare him from getting involved in sex until he Is old enough to know you lied. Hehehehehe |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by raphy(m): 7:55pm On Jul 16, 2017 |
children of now adays like konji... maybe he use it to mastubate. so just seize his fone for while. but why did u go through his privacy at the face place.he didn't lock his phone right. just take it easy with him.he is growing fast n sex education is important . me too started like that .then later I change. I read many sex magazine when growing up.from hints,hearts,tickle and better lover.. so its turn by turn. na his turn to learn. |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by Nobody: 8:00pm On Jul 16, 2017 |
jejemanito:lol..dis one mak me weak.. |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by Nobody: 8:00pm On Jul 16, 2017 |
NobleAngell:I can't but agree with this. |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by Nobody: 8:00pm On Jul 16, 2017 |
sexybbstar:Good. He should not be allowed alone. He already started masturbating. He needs counselling. |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by rayopt(m): 8:00pm On Jul 16, 2017 |
here's the deal. . . don't play the parent or the accuser. .nah, the last thing you want to do is make him see as another figure to avoid. . . so. . . settle down with him and watch the whole damn video with him. . . as you watch. . . explain the reality of the porn to him, make him see the lies that those porn portrays. .the seeming enjoyment it advertise. .explain to him like an expert. .buh more to this. . . show him the real deal. . .like the process of finding love. .wooing a bae, prolly his classmate, take him out, ask of his crush, ask him to try and talk to the bae, if he feels shy cos he would. .break the ice to him, tell him that those porn is killing his confidence and creative mind. . . well. . this is a process. . . 3 or 4 years down the line, he would stop . .for now, watch him grow and be a friend. that's all you can do my brother 4 Likes |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by Martinez19(m): 8:01pm On Jul 16, 2017 |
Omoluabi16:Gbam but that deliverance and devil thing, me no get oh. #freethinker |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by me69: 8:02pm On Jul 16, 2017 |
jejemanito:find same on by 14 y/o borders laptop. I was so confused didn't know what to do or tell, like you I kept on looking for smart way to confront him but.... With kids you have to scare the crap out of them....tell him if he doesn't stop....something really will happen, like may become gay or not have hormone disorder |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by Nobody: 8:04pm On Jul 16, 2017 |
jejemanito:it's an addiction. It's demonic. It will take the grace of God. Can he be busy always. Don't leave him alone. Give him torch light phone instead. He alone has to make that decision to stop. He needs counselling... if he is a child that listens, he won't be on the path for too long. 1 Like |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by me69: 8:06pm On Jul 16, 2017 |
jejemanito:Or he's doing that because he's bored |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by ussy09(m): 8:06pm On Jul 16, 2017 |
Wow am learning. |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by eROCK247(m): 8:08pm On Jul 16, 2017 |
deepwater: What happens if himself gets caught up in d web? |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by fineboynl(m): 8:09pm On Jul 16, 2017 |
lol, and watching porn Leads to masturbation |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by Nobody: 8:10pm On Jul 16, 2017 |
[b]Op I don't see any reason why you should stop him from watching porn, see when i was just 12 those days when iPhone was bird, no such thing as Internet browsing, no cafe's no smartphones. I had not even 3310 but guess what, I had porn collections hidden in very secret places at home. Even with the strict parenting I had, I know say if them catch me na die but I still get am!! Today am a young man, I watch porn when I like! If I like! It doesn't affect me in anyway, infact I watch porn with my girlfriend sometimes. The addiction dropped drastically as I got older, now i spend less than 3mins a week watching porn and I have no single collection on my phone. What that boy needs is sex education, he needs to understand the risks involved and how to protect himself. If you take his phone he will find another way, infact if he returns home na vex em go use download more than he had initially. It's just nature, he needs advise not flogging him or taking his phone. No matter what you do you can't stop him from watching his MOJO! You can only delay him but when he gets to school he will watch it or borrow a friend's phone for the weekend and hide it from you. [/b] 1 Like |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by benfluleck: 8:12pm On Jul 16, 2017 |
Some people are funny . He has porn on his phone like most guys filled with testosterone and he is demonic. What about rapists and pedophiles aren't those guys demonic?. How can you class a 14 yr old in the same bracket with those criminals ?. Also some people are taking the word addiction out of context, just because you do something you are not proud of does not make you an addict o. Masturbating when you feel like does not make you an addict. Addiction is a condition that results when a person ingests a substance (e.g., alcohol, cocaine, nicotine) or engages in an activity (e.g., gambling, sex, shopping) that can be pleasurable but the continuation of which becomes compulsive and interferes with ordinary responsibilities and concerns, such as work, relationships, or health. People who have developed an addiction may not be aware that their behavior is out of control and causing problems for themselves and others. taken from Psychology Today 3 Likes |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by jomoh: 8:12pm On Jul 16, 2017 |
jejemanito: It does work but with the right combination and not in all situations. Kids nowadays are like mutating malaria parasite that don't respond to chloroquin again but with the right combination, you can still achieve your aim. Use the 4ps formulae Preaching It involves both spiritual preaching and brainwashing. let him know the spiritual and psycoligical dangers of it. You are older an well read than him. Go online and read more thing that he can relate to. you can even link some things that are affecting him presently with it. Prayer This doesn't need explanation. Programming You need to remove things that can lead him to thinking of porn from his reach. Things like gadgets. Program his mind towards films that don't have erotic themes. Possibly season films with good story but no erotic themes. If you can get him hooked on games of any kind, video games board games. Addictive games that is popular with boys his age. Part of programming is to also have him around girls rather than boys. Yes girls. You and I know no boy would want to be caught with porn by girls his age. You can even threaten him that you will tell the girls that he watches porn. Finally Punishment. A little punishment once in a while won't be bad. It doesn't have to be severe. Just a knock on the head will do and make sure to follow it up with threat to tell someone anytime you catch him with such. Advice: It is better you curb it now that he is still young young before he graduates to masturbation. I tell you that is the hardest addiction to kick at this time and age of free nudity. 1 Like |
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