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Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by Coldfeets: 10:46pm On Jul 16, 2017 |
What type of pôrn? If it the normal he on she pôrn, just cut him some slacks 'cause he's at the age where exploration starts. But if it was gay porn, na dia problem dey start. |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by jceaglewatch(m): 10:47pm On Jul 16, 2017 |
jejemanito: It is both a spiritual, psychological, social and physical problem. If it isn't handled under all this areas, all solutions will fail. I had the same struggle for 8 years and I would be willing to help out. Most people don't understand the problem neither a solution, believe me. |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by maclawrence02(m): 10:50pm On Jul 16, 2017 |
jejemanito:Nokia torch will do the trick |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by Nobody: 10:58pm On Jul 16, 2017 |
jejemanito:always make sure he's occupied with something. e.g tell him to go out and play with other children..(football )that'll exhaust his energy.. get him something else that is addictive like a video game. if he's not into gay porn..relocate his bedroom to yours.. of course all these are temporal options.. he'll still remember to masturbate when these other things are unavailable.. 2 Likes |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by KingEbukasBlog(m): 10:59pm On Jul 16, 2017 |
jejemanito: The best way to deal with a habit is to keep the cues and the rewards but change the routine . The cues are whatever that triggers the habit , it could be visual , sensual ; the routine is the process involved in achieving the reward ; the reward is whatever that one enjoys when engages in the habit . Call him , talk to him , ask him what makes him watch porn as a way of understanding the cues . People watch porn for different reasons , don't assume that he watches porn for the general perceived reason . Also know why enjoys watching porn , the reward . Then try to change the habit by allowing the cues and reward and introducing a new routine . There are positive habits that have the same of effect pornographic scenes give . Try to make him engage in those . Let him understand that why he has to take these important steps to recovery . And make him believe that he can do those . Share stories of people from the internet that have overcome the pornography addiction as a way of motivating him. Like felixomor said , 21 days and you'd see positive changes . 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by VictorJoshua(m): 11:10pm On Jul 16, 2017 |
benedictac:Nw U Sound Lyk A Pessimist(Imean No Harm)Wer Is D Faith? Rememba Daz Not D Total Antidote But D Commencing Package. #ExerciseSomeFaith#ExercisePatience2 |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by Nightking04(m): 11:19pm On Jul 16, 2017 |
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Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by Tmiky: 11:34pm On Jul 16, 2017 |
Apostle will hear this, U too haff been there b4 , so u shud know how to handle him Then |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by encrypt(m): 11:51pm On Jul 16, 2017 |
Elparaiso:That just sent your whole write up to sh*t |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by NigerianScholar: 12:01am On Jul 17, 2017 |
chalantmike: Guilt doesnt help addiction. People that re addicted to cigarettes know its killing them. But they cant stop The child knows its wrong |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by GetHelpWorldwid: 12:02am On Jul 17, 2017 |
jejemanito: Give him Nokia torchlight then... I bet, his life will be boring as heaven. |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by benfluleck: 12:19am On Jul 17, 2017 |
misano: you put it her in the public domain |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by Stanleywaxy(m): 12:20am On Jul 17, 2017 |
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Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by DarkRebel69: 12:30am On Jul 17, 2017 |
Elparaiso: Who says addiction to pornography bears no malign ripple effect? It's been observed that men who watch porn habitually are thrice as likely than male non-porn watchers to see women as nothing more than objects of crude sexual satisfaction, and also that these niche of addicted male porn-watchers tend to be more aggressive and violent toward the opposite sex than male non-porn watchers. Really, does pornography depict anything beyond male domination and the humiliation of females, especially as with acts such as “facial ejaculatiøn”, “bukake”, and in usage of demeaning language during penetration—all of which is cloaked by the unopposing and compliant body language of the female actor which goes the distance in suggesting that she is in fact relishing the degradation, hence entrenching the idea in the minds of chronic porn-watchers that such is the acceptable norm and standard. What about the fact that addictive pornography could lead to depression, low sense of self-worth, and social anxiety disorder or inability to fuction optimally in social situations, especially one involving the opposite sex? What about the fact that the fall of the domino pieces is put into motion the minute a person feasts his/her senses on a tableau showcasing erotic sex, and that if such person is unable to salve his/her sexual frustration by currying mutual consent from another, he/she is more likely to resort to that most dreaded jackboot option: Rape. Yet you wonder how such exposure would negatively color the perception of an impressionable fourteen-year old boy? To worsen matters, you even compared the effects of addictive pornography on a kid still drinking in the first flush of adolescence to the effects of porn on a married couple who probably only indulge in the act on an occassional basis. I fear that you are in fact a (insert apt expletive). |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by DarkRebel69: 12:34am On Jul 17, 2017 |
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Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by hipsyleema(f): 12:47am On Jul 17, 2017 |
Kindly sit him down and make him understand that such videos aren't good for him to watch. |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by timinpharm(m): 1:07am On Jul 17, 2017 |
Y'all saying pornography is demonic na una sabi o., like say most of u neva watch am before. Brov., observe the kinds of friends he has., watch him over time, he should be a good kid, he will turn out fine jhare. I don't know if it affects memory and stuffs like dat but I can say that na testosterone level dey rise like dat, early pubertal stage is hard, he will grow out of it jhare. Peace... |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by ibinaboonline: 1:15am On Jul 17, 2017 |
Not much u can do, bro. We r who we r. Sit him down and talk to him as best u could. Make sure he knows u r doing it bc u care about him and his future. Then leave d rest to him and God. |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by projet: 1:16am On Jul 17, 2017 |
benedictac: benedictac: this was the same method I used for my 15 years old son when I cut him just last week Thursday here. The dad and I really talked some senses into and told him the disadvantages of watching porn one of it is that it will put virus in ur phone. the following day he went to apologize to his dad and promised not to try it again. I just pray he stops it. We can only advice and pray as parents. benedictac: u said from ur quote the disadvantages of watching porn one of it is that it will put virus in ur phone. am very sure that is not what u meant to type. 1 Like |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by jejemanito: 3:07am On Jul 17, 2017 |
Onegai:Every thing except gay p*rn. There was a day I asked him if he were to choose between his phone and a gameboy (video game) what will be his pick? He chose the later That was how I knew he hasn't gone beyond the Rubicon. Sadly I can't afford such now prompting my need for smarter ways to restore his factory setting before he grows into an addict. |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by Horspiroll007(m): 3:38am On Jul 17, 2017 |
deepwater: are u a psychology major? at op follow this steps, if you are buoyant enough and stay in a place like lag book an appointment for him with a psychologist child psychologist preferably. on a second note my diagnosis are probably i.background/environment/peer pressure: if u check with him very well it either he is always at home alone with access to television programs which aren't edifying for his age or he has friends back in school who brings porn to school and they watch together,background wise it might be the maid, he might be going through a face of molestation with the help who then in turn feeds him with tons of sites of porn. the root and solution to stop his addiction lies in the source how he got to know the porn site. or all together his parent might be the lousy ones who didn't care having him around when they are getting abit intimate atimes that might purne his curiosity |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by UncutSk(m): 3:43am On Jul 17, 2017 |
Taa free my nigga |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by UncutSk(m): 3:49am On Jul 17, 2017 |
jejemanito:free him joor wtf is wrong with yall |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by Esdb3: 3:55am On Jul 17, 2017 |
Yeligray:nigga he's 14. He'll download and find a better way to hide.If caning puts sense in people, abacha wouldn't have stolen government funds. 1 Like |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by Sammiejokes(m): 6:17am On Jul 17, 2017 |
Papiikush:All this is unwise talk, the oyinbos that is the pioneer of method are having issues from raising depressed children, to unclassified,transgender, homosexuals. When a child needs the rod to correct every foolish morals you use it. when his an adult above 17, he can make his decision. |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by RealityShot: 6:19am On Jul 17, 2017 |
sexybbstar:even music TV stations are very close alternatives to the real X videos! |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by generationz(f): 6:29am On Jul 17, 2017 |
jejemanito: People fail to realize that wacthing porn is actually an addiction and should be treated as such. In rehab You don't forcefully withdraw all tracies of the substance from the person, it would only cause temporary results, but he would go back to it and night even become worse This is a very dicey situation and should be treated with care to avoid terrible results I think you should do some research on the topic, why it isn't good and how to curb it The goal is to make stop it, you'll have to employ wisdom with dat First and foremost ask him how it started, if he enjoys watching it or it is just an habit that he knows it's bad but can't break from. You have to know if he thinks it's bad because If not you might just be wasting your time especially with an opinionated child. If he knows the dangers then you could even tell him to Google articles on it and read it so he has a clear understanding of what he is delving into. Then both you can discuss with you analysing it more (you too should have read about it) and then linking those articles to his own situation eg porn can lead to feeling like mastubating, does it make you do so? he might lie because he dosent want the to see him in a worse light. You will have to be diplomatic especially if he has an opinionated child Please don't tell his parents, you would have lost his trust which is hard to get back. I pray he is able to to break out of it, because these things lead to bigger issue like sexual promiscuity |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by generationz(f): 6:33am On Jul 17, 2017 |
sexybbstar: Story Even when phones weren't in vogue some of us still found a way to watch porn don't ask me how looool Where there is a will there is a way, you have to find a way to break that will to stop the action from repeating itself. 1 Like |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by redarrr(m): 6:34am On Jul 17, 2017 |
pray to God nd advice on certain things abt it |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by generationz(f): 6:50am On Jul 17, 2017 |
DarkRebel69: Wow a young guy with such knowledge, you are very correct Your signature though... |
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by Kingpinukecy(m): 7:41am On Jul 17, 2017 |
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Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by DarkRebel69: 7:57am On Jul 17, 2017 |
generationz: And who says a vibrant, goal-driven, young adult cannot possess knoweldge should he faithfully commit to seeking for it? What about my signature? Does it offend your priggish side? Or are you simply taken aback–in a good way–by the ingenuity of my wordplay? |
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