Lovely to see someone as relaxed as u wit ur money in another persons hand

QueenMarvella:
Many Times.....Na His Hand My ATM Dey ,I Will Just Be Seeing Alerts But He Do Refund It.

It's good to give people the benefit of doubt.. But one should no also loose guard while doing so.

Fool me one time shame on you, fool me two times shame on me

truthsayer009:


There is no point, Don't Trust anybody & never be hurt. If you must know, Don't trust yourself. Because you can even let yourself down.

Y not, wat z dff wit givin her money

I do give out my atm cards, since I will see the alert immediately.

On 2 or 3 occasions i've given to strangers.

I was in a bar in abia state from lagos , unlike lagos POS was not that familiar there then, I told the bar girl to go to the nearest atm to get cash instead. She went and nothing funny happened.

Meanwhile my main account don't have atm card.

HannahHitler:
So recently, I went to visit a special someone. Told her I needed to eat so she just gave me her atm card and was like "go and eat, then withdraw your transport fare"

Lol. Mehn it was a battle. I thought and thought and finally my good side won. I guess I didn't want to abuse the trust so I just withdrew something really small. Although I regret everyday till now but well...


What is your opinion? Can you just let your girlfriend or boyfriend have your ATM card and not faint?

Me I cant o. I will withdraw the money and give you jeje. I cannot shout.

over to you.

.I can,sometimes we learn to simply thrust and trust people!when one is on flight you love your pilots like hell�Lol

Ok, it's simple, witdraw in excess of what you're supposed to take out and that's it, trust betrayed.

Given my wife my card countless times to get stuff and she's given me hers too. It all boils down to trust, trust bro.

she used jazz,it won't work,cause na every month,I dey remain my own against decimal 10.10,only my mom & sister knows my pin,not a stranger after my money.

Kini big deal, I have done that many times.

Misbehave with my mone then you betrayed my trust. Simple!

With my bae...why not?

I am a yoruba man 50% of my friends are easterner most of them gave their atm card to withdraw for them it depend on u be faithful and truth to urself and it will reflect. in ur character that will make others to trust u.

I have trusted my sister with my ATM, but I can't trust my wife with my ATM. She can't trust me with hers either.

Impossible

Yes, I can and will always give it to my fiancee because she is so financially prudent that she won't even support you spending on frivolities for anyone including herself except on investments.

From your write up,she helped you but left you with regret!
Now I ask you.. Wouldn't you have appreciated it she had transferred exactly what you said you took?

If yes..then why giving out the ATM in the first place?
Is No.then..

Normal thing

There's nothing we don't exchange; phones, ATM, we even reply each others mails and chats. When you chat with me online, you can not suspect the person replying you whether it's me or my spouse. Life is too short to live in distrust. God has blessed me with one I can trust with anything and everything.

You see in life, we just have to learn one or two things.......... ask me this question a year ago, I will unrepentantly say NO!
But here I am today, my fiancee taught me otherwise...... she had on many occasions gave me her ATM card and pin to pay my bills even when I refused. She is so free and give freely.

She doesn't have much, but she can give you anything.


Back to the question
I can give my spouse my card to pay her bill

LordKO:
If I cannot place absolute confidence in you then, I cannot allow you to remain closer least of having you as a partner - pretense isn't my thing. Yes, I do give, but guess what, once you betray me, that marks the end of whatever bond that hold us closely. I'm the easiest person on earth to betray but about the hardest to outsmart.

I don't subscribe to the general norm of "trust no body" instead I believe in giving everyone that crosses my path an unmerited privilege to prove himself/herself. It's unfortunate that 99% of the people that has crossed my path so far has failed to prove to me that they're worthy of being trusted - no wonder, I have multitudes that refers me as their best friends whereas I don't have more than one person I can refer to as my friend. I roll with associates.

To be a nonconformist isn't an easy task but I enjoy living my life as one.

You took the words right outta my mouth!

HannahHitler:
So recently, I went to visit a special someone. Told her I needed to eat so she just gave me her atm card and was like "go and eat, then withdraw your transport fare"

Lol. Mehn it was a battle. I thought and thought and finally my good side won. I guess I didn't want to abuse the trust so I just withdrew something really small. Although I regret everyday till now but well...


What is your opinion? Can you just let your girlfriend or boyfriend have your ATM card and not faint?

Me I cant o. I will withdraw the money and give you jeje. I cannot shout.

over to you.

Why not? Since my main account doesn't have an atm card, so whatever change that's in any of my other bank accounts make her destroy her chances with me by showing her level of greed.

HannahHitler:
So recently, I went to visit a special someone. Told her I needed to eat so she just gave me her atm card and was like "go and eat, then withdraw your transport fare"

Lol. Mehn it was a battle. I thought and thought and finally my good side won. I guess I didn't want to abuse the trust so I just withdrew something really small. Although I regret everyday till now but well...


What is your opinion? Can you just let your girlfriend or boyfriend have your ATM card and not faint?

Me I cant o. I will withdraw the money and give you jeje. I cannot shout.

over to you.

op you told your girlfriend that you want to eat, and she gave you her atm card saying you should go and eat, and you came online to tell us? Op clap for yourself.
I hope when she starts the "i used to feed you" talks you will come and tell us.

I used to give my ex my wallet to hold, each time we step out, I don't like giving out my atm password unless I am indisposed

NO!

Countless number of times... not even when he saves his money in my account sometimes.

Done dah a couple of tyms with my ex nd he left his atm with me for two weeks, guess he was trying to test me. @op yes i can

Martin0:
jeeezzz

She was beside the person now

HannahHitler:
So recently, I went to visit a special someone. Told her I needed to eat so she just gave me her atm card and was like "go and eat, then withdraw your transport fare"

Lol. Mehn it was a battle. I thought and thought and finally my good side won. I guess I didn't want to abuse the trust so I just withdrew something really small. Although I regret everyday till now but well...


What is your opinion? Can you just let your girlfriend or boyfriend have your ATM card and not faint?

Me I cant o. I will withdraw the money and give you jeje. I cannot shout.

over to you.

Seeing that a female monika is the OP and considering the emboldened, my opinion tells me that I might be reading a lesbian's write up. I am not judging, just curious.

[qmuote author=roldee post=59160379] She was beside the person now [/quote]abi

I am naturally honest when it comes to ther people's money so if I'm given I will take as directed nothing extra it's happened once.

I can give my ATM as well if I trust you

truthsayer009:
Thanks for this idea. I will test any girl i want to marry with this. My only fear is Every girl would fail the test. Especially girls like amarabae who like money more than their life.

The same amarabae whey e don marry with pregnancy of triplets?

yes I can

shinarlaura:


Am in Lagos.

Come and collect it

am coming now