Love and Trust are two different things entirely,
You can actually love someone and yet not trust them, If they were one and the same then many people wouldn't fall in love "at first sight" cuz you cant trust someone you just met, it takes months maybe years of real friendship to actually trust someone completely,

But in reality you can't marry someone you don't trust but love because its just not right, You marry someone you trust AND love not just some drop down dead fine dude you saw at a show-room and your sexual-senses say to you "YES he's the the Man 4 U"   WRONG,

Its means a lot more 2 actually trust someone, a trusted friend or partner is hard to find sisi eko

mama-gee:

Poster. . .

What kind of dumb thread did you create?
I think you need to know the meaning of love before you created this nonsense
Oya, Define Love.

I pity the man who is unfortunate to pick u as wife
You will nag him to an early grave.
I bet ur sado-masochistic inclinations force u to court these verbal brawls for u to cum.
What a waste; Phew!

i cant actually love a guy i dont trust

im very good at smelling fishiness

and thats when i just take my leave

no such thing as marriage in such case!

i can get along with some one i dont trust pretty well
just learn to believe what ever he/she says
but the fact is marraige is a different ball game its not what you jump in and out of
so i think trust and love is really neccessary

mama-gee:

Poster. . .

What kind of dumb thread did you create?
I think you need to know the meaning of love before you created this nonsense
Oya, Define Love.

this thread aint dumb. . .last i checked, nobody forces nobody to make a comment

Love and trust go together like horse and carriage.

That said, you can love someone without trusting them completely. It's just akin to insecurity.

if you don't trust your partner, check well and see where the infatuation lies

that's true in an ideal world but you can lose trust in someone you love based on their actions. Trust and compatibility is more important than love to me.

The right use of word.
Love can be without absolute or any trust.

@ Mama-Gee;

Freiburger:

Why do u always criticise other people thought, ideal and feelings does that makes u perfect? What 're u up to?

oyb:

offtopic - these ridiculous shenanigans will not change the fact that u are nls dumbest poster - all volume and no substance

untainted:

I pity the man who is unfortunate to pick u as wife
You will nag him to an early grave.
I bet your sado-masochistic inclinations force u to court these verbal brawls for u to come.
What a waste; Phew!

calyx:

this thread aint dumb. . .last i checked, nobody forces nobody to make a comment

I'm glad that others made these comments. I was beginning to think I was only one who noticed how unbelievably dense this girl is.


@ Topic; For you not to trust someone means that that person has done countless things to betray you. And for me, when trust is gone, I'll dig a pit for that love or whatever it is and let it die there, cos I'm done.

i must say this is very timely to have been posted now. good numbers of relationship lingers at the brink of collapse because of lack of trust.

this result mostly because because majority of partners that nurse feeling of insincerity toward thier partner are actually also guilty of insincerity toward thier partner as such they feel thier partner have to be cheating on them too.

i strongly agree with the guy that said "he ll rather love to trust" than "trust to love". the former is far more better as it saves one a lot of energy and emotional unrest.

love & trust work 2geda cos u cant love witout trusting & vise versa

Excuse me, do you really want us to answer the question?

My take is that,

Love is about acceptance. It is to know what you know and be accepting of what you don't know. There is no room for trust.

We trust because we are not prepared to accept the unknown.

Good thread.

hummm, u can love someone without 100% trust, but there should be trust to some extent cos if there is no trust at all, 4get the love

yes you can love someone without trusting them, but relationships like that are bond to break sooner or later.

no trust no love,i guess they are synonymous!

Whosai? Did i just hear someone say no love without trust? Abegi, na wetin be love self? No be e dey my body, e dey your body e be?

mamagee has some serious insults waiting for her here!!!

LWKMD!

Sisi Eko:

Can u possibly marry someone you dont Trust but yet you Love?
You dont trust the person to do right by you but yet you love them.
A huge question that has been on my mind.

after seeing ur profile pic, i gotta say yes, that is a woman that can do no wrong even if i dont trust her

.weiRd questi0n. . .bt i feel l0Ve with0ut tRUst=LusT.

These are the important things:

1. Respect
2. Love
3. Trust

It is very unwise to marry a dude you don't trust. Simple. Abi guys don finish for market?

I can never marry a woman I don't trust.

@ Poster,

Write up a Prenup, make ya and her sign am; then marry her - "for better and for prenup"!
Please dont forget to email us ya marriage cake!

Not trusting the one u love is an heartbreak on its own. A good marriage is built on trust, love, understanding, humor and a lot of other things. Love alone cannot sustain a marriage, d conjuction of both love and trust will go a long way to ensure a happy union. Anyone who marries coz of love alone will definitely carry his cross alone!

Taken:

@ Poster,

Write up a Prenup, make ya and her sign am; then marry her - "for better and for prenup"!
Please dont forget to email us ya marriage cake!

death ! ! !

Trust+Love=ekwokirikwo na waya
Love-Trust=ekwokirikwo na wonda

no

mama-gee:

Poster. . .

What kind of dumb thread did you create?
I think you need to know the meaning of love before you created this nonsense
Oya, Define Love.

Look who's talking. 

bawomolo:

that's true in an ideal world but you can lose trust in someone you love based on their actions.   Trust and compatibility is more important than love to me.

Philosophical realist. 

sandee575:

when will women accept that nature made prowlers of men.
that when he's done he will return home should be enough trust.

Mofo realist.  [size=4pt]No disrespect.[/size]

Davidazzle:

Love and Trust are two different things entirely,
You can actually love someone and yet not trust them, If they were one and the same then many people wouldn't fall in love "at first sight" cuz you cant trust someone you just met, it takes months maybe years of real friendship to actually trust someone completely,

But in reality you can't marry someone you don't trust but love because its just not right, You marry someone you trust AND love not just some drop down dead fine dude you saw at a show-room and your sexual-senses say to you "YES he's the the Man 4 U"   WRONG,

Its means a lot more 2 actually trust someone, a trusted friend or partner is hard to find sisi eko

Wrong, mate.

Some women can. They love drama.

A stable and nice guy would be too boring for them, they feed on the danger.

I keep on saying, a vast majority of women only mature in their mid to late thirties. By then, it is too late for most or they are too emotional damaged by their experience based on THEIR CHOICES, but yet they take solace in blaming "men".

RichyBlacK:

These are the important things:

1. Respect
2. Love
3. Trust

It is very unwise to marry a dude you don't trust. Simple. Abi guys don finish for market?

I can never marry a woman I don't trust.

Reality: "Most people (guys and girls) are not trustworthy".

A man justs needs a place to cheat, a woman needs a reason and she would bloody hell find it when she wants, no matter how unreasonable or illogical the reason is.

Taken:

@ Poster,

Write up a Prenup, make ya and her sign am; then marry her - "for better and for prenup"!
Please dont forget to email us ya marriage cake!

If you live in the West or plan to live in the West and you are successful or full of potential to be, this is "words of wisdom".

Prenup = "Gold dust" for rich people.

The West have used legislation to bastardise marriage.

trust is very essential in every relationship and it provides a formidable rock for a realationship to stand 2ru thick and thin while love can easily fade away wen it is not supported with trust.

True love is unconditional. True trust is deserved. U can choose to love even ur enemies, but u can't choose to trust someone just because u decide to. U can try to, but at the of the day the truth will show up and all ur preconceptions and good intentions will be revealed as worthless. And once ur hopes and illusions about someone r shattered to pieces, u can look inside ur heart and see if u can still love. If u can, good for u. Having unshakable love is much worthier than believing in illusions

But that was said about love and trust. Marriage is another story. Ofc u should only marry someone who has proved he can be at least relatively trusted That means, u should put him through a sh.tload of "innocent" tests and see how he acts and reacts to this and that, a good marriage material should score at least 75%