Juliearth:



Afongha,let this slide! This dumskull is beyond redemption.

Statsocial:
Certainly not. You can do things for them occasionally as it is comfortable for you. But don't put ur self under pressure unnecessarily.

afongha:


I was about to rip the idiot to shreds, but I'll take your advice.

Clearly one who doesn't know that it is 'poverty-stricken', not 'poverty stinky' isn't worth my time.

Its a pity the NYSC kit wasn't given to a more befitting candidate, like one who could compose passable English.

sirfee:
Yeah different strokes for different folks...no hard feelings.




Ciaooooo

ITbomb:

Why would someone that can't afford to pay DSTV subscription be watching DStv

1StopRudeness:
For Some family especially if u marry our sisters from the east....its ur duty ooo...cos its a like they did u a great favour by allowing u marry their daughter

...infact as u guys are starting the union...if u are fairly financially comfortable .[/b]they will shock u and ur wife with one or two siblings that you will be taking care of steadily....
[b]
If u are very very very financially okay ..haaaaaaa!!....u will build house for them in the village oooo, replace ur father inlaw's bicycle with a car...
Bye regular holanldis for the mother inlaw...(Igbo mother inlaws don't joke with holandis ooo) she won't even be far from ur crib..men still have some shame so u won't see the father inlaw much...u will pay school fees of siblings oooo...

#no offence to Igbos, just stating experience from my elder brother's union....ndo!!!....emabinu!!

But all in all, Igbos are not bad pple..the wife sabi cook anytime I crayfish go my bro side....and they don't cheat like our ijebu afonja women once they are married...I stand to be corrected though

demefa:
Ok since you went to one dilapidated school and lack good quality education.You don't know the difference between a bad or good sentence.Or was your English teacher sacked?? Or ur poverty stinky parents couldn't pay your school fees?? Oya receive sense empty head. If you don't know what's wrong with that sentence. Then we need to ask you what a noun is!! Illiterate

ebby9z:

Just take your L and move on. There's absolutely nothing wrong with that construction, I'm fact it reveals good schooling and sound education. And please don't attempt to defend yourself.

Juliearth:



"Your family" in this context means your extended family(parents,siblings,uncles...) do you foot all their bills?

ITbomb:
Maybe your friend no pay the bride price finish, na by installment

Or

Your friend had set a bad precedent and they all assume he likes to give.
Why would someone that can't afford to pay DSTV subscription be watching DStv

Rapmoney:
Lol! I think some Nigerian parents feel their sons-in-law owe them financial assistance.

ITbomb:
Maybe your friend no pay the bride price finish, na by installment

Or

Your friend had set a bad precedent and they all assume he likes to give.
Why would someone that can't afford to pay DSTV subscription be watching DStv

Juliearth:

Your wife's family becomes your family after marriage,so you should take care of them as you would your own family.

ice4u999:


As a wife of your husband spend all his money taking care of your family and as result can't save anything. If this man dies tomorrow and then as a wife you have no savings to take care of yourself and children. Trust me you will insult the man for the rest of your life. Also then you will be shocked how this your family will abandon you.
Sister always protect your husband and your children. Make sure you guys are well comfortable before thinking or considering helping others

Sunymoore:

My parents and my siblings. Though, my parents are so comfortable that I can only pray to be better than them, my brother is also good, I only have to care about my junior brother. Apart from the above listed, any help rendered is out of goodwill not responsibility..

ONYII4TRUT:


Plz we are Africans we are not oyibo pple. Our family system is closely knitted and that's how we are. However, wisdom is profitable get it to handle very sensitive issue like this but remember they your family too.

Juliearth:


Exactly....such help is rendered out of goodwill and not a matter of necessitative responsibility...Thats exactly what I mean

Sterix10:
Dats y I will marry from a rich family

signeddocuments:
I think this issue is common most especially when you marry from a struggling family.after I completed my three bedroom flat, I needed housemaid to help my wife in the house, we got one,but the amount we are paying is so high including putting her in a school.I and My wife agreed to go to village and bring one relative to the house to help out.But I could not follow her but to my greatest shock she brought three instead of one person.Since that time, I have been at a war with my wife because I later discovered she wants to use the opportunity to train her brother's children with my resources.I told her I will not be responsible for the children education because their father is still alive.I have given her quit notice to vacate my house except if she returns the children.It is a big shame for any in -law to over burden any man just because he marries your daughter. I am about to divorce my my wife.