Pwaves:

Haba Mrbrown, must u throw d fact dat death awaits hr to her face? Pls try to show some luv.

rokiatu:

I agree that was really harsh I mean really HARSH!

tishat:

@mr Brown jay,the fact is dat death awaits us all,anyone can go first thats not an issue,but i want to educate you more on HIV,the life span of a HIV patients in America or Africa is 43 years.See alot of drugs are out to manage this but it does not cure it.The possibility that one ll die due to other cause is not overruled too,we live in a world of uncertainties,if people die like you think then you ll probably be leaving in your street alone because u ll be alarmed at the rate of it spreading,if u leave in lagos you can visit NIMR yaba,am sure you ll be speechless for months.

Igwe.:

Hey, Mrbrown or whatever you call yourself, do you really know what you are saying or what . . ? i'm disappointed in you.
you don f**ck up in short.
who's sure of his tomorrow amongst us? you can't just type rubbish and keep defending it like an . . .

MRbrownJAY:

man if you read ALL my post, you will see that i never sugar coat Poo. and i am not going to start today just to please a few people.
i couldnt care less if you were disappointed or happy about what i wrote BUT i will still stand by what i wrote.
THIS IS LIFE! THIS IS HIV/AIDS! take it or go crawl under a rock pretending that it doesnt happen.

maybe you should go and have a look at that center in Yaba that the poster is talking about and maybe you can come back and tell us if HIV/AIDS in Africa is not about DEATH! millions are dying every year, Nigeria is the second african country with the most HIV infected people, second to only South Africa. ARV treatment cost about1000$ per person per year while many people cant earn that much. . . . . . . . . . so do the bloody math, and if thats rubbish to you then so be it!
face the facts: HIV/AIDS=DEATH to most unless someone can come up with a cure very soon.

yes, you 're right about HIV being equal to death just if the person is suffering from diseases like malaria,diarrhea, headache, flew, fever et al without proper medications.

To buttress my point further, HIV is just like a computer virus,of which with the help of an active anti virus could be properly managed by either quarantine and so on, but still exists on the computer just as the virus still lives in the affected person, so HIV is a human immune affected virus that corrupts human immune system, hence reduces their fighting power, but with a drug like ARV, there effects are put to a hold, that's why early detection is advisable.

Please Mrbrownjay, HIV/AID does not kill but diseases do, what HIV/AID does is to knock down the natural bodyguard while ARV serves as an artificial bodyguard which should be steadily supplied from the external sources .

The poster may be right about the boyfriend being by her side, thats also another form of support even though they are yet to get married.
The guy could leave her later, but for now she needs his support and that's what the guy is doing and it's highly commendable.

tishat:

I just peeped here and I was just looking back to the year I wrote this post, a lot has happened and God has been faithful!am blessed with a healthy baby, a good job and  wonderful man! the issue of HIV is the least discussed in my home,I take  diffrent local drug which I discovered through God's grace and am super healthy.

LIFE MUST GO ON!

MRbrownJAY: @poster
sorry but i dont follow you any longer. . . . . . .
so you had unprotected sex with your guy BEFORE the test and then decided after to go and have the test, only to discover that you were + but not him?!
well i guess if he isnt - now, he might not be along the way. some people on ARV drugs would show a - test result while they are positive. . . . . . . . . .dont be fooled people!

as for your story, although very hard to believe in 9ja, i guess you found the right guy so hold on to him until you pass away.

applelady:

Its very much true cos my ex that we were making love without condom for like one year took me for HIV test and I was positive while he was negative and still is negative but unfortunately he ran 4 40, it takes an extra ordinary man to stay after founding out.

gree-die:


i don't get it, i ve heard and read dat guys can sleep wit hiv positive gals and not be infected as long as dey don't ve fresh/open wounds. some say its bcz of d se.xual organs involved. i ve always dismissed it cz der is no medical proof. are u saying dat its actually possible? wow!

its a pity he ran 4 40...a better guy ll come along

applelady:


Its very much true cos my ex that we were making love without condom for like one year took me for HIV test and I was positive while he was negative and still is negative but unfortunately he ran 4 40, it takes an extra ordinary man to stay after founding out.