thou me n ma bf have bin havin some issues we said our apologoies n i tot tins were back to normal. on val he calls me up n tells me we sud b togeda n asks me ova. ma area to his area is far like an hour journey on geetin to his area i kept callin his line no ansa, i have a house in his area soi went to ma house kept callin him still no ansa.
he called and said he has a new fone n its complicated n doesnt even know wen it goes on silent, by this time was on ma way to his house n i asked him where he was n he said was at home.on gettin to his house even his.ghost wasnt there. i called him sms.him no reply, till monday morn wen he called but i didnt pick.

now he called today beggin me to listen to his xplanations. ma frends tink his a cheat, pls wat do i do?

He must hav been playing with u. Did is what u should do? On the first note; find out from him what his problem really his(if u still has feelings for him) so as to know if u can cope being with him. On the second note; ignore him & move with ur life. It's up to u to make the choice.

I can smell something here!!! .

Wish I kud hep gf but my gf also stood me up. We also had issues & tried 2 resolve it. Hweva, ma own opinion is dat she spent it wit some1 else tho she denies; that she was wit her family (who r in anoda state) & dat val is time 4 small gals to milk men (gosh what an excuse!).Eida ways i've decided 2 move on in ma own case even tho she is now itching 2 come back 4rm whereva she went 2. Cases cud b perculiar but u cud use mine as a ref 2 decide 4 ursef gf.

how can your friends assumed so quickly that he is a cheat maybe something happen.
I think you should listen to what he have to say then u can decide for yourself.

rokiatu:

how can your friends assumed so quickly that he is a cheat maybe something happen.
I think you should listen to what he have to say then u can decide for yourself.

Sis,do u think that guy will hv a reasonable excuse to give when he kept saying he was at home when the gal called him?He will definitely cook up something but the deed had already been done.

Donvilo:

He must hav been playing with u. Did is what u should do?      On the first note; find out from him what his problem really his(if u still has feelings for him) so as to know if u can cope being with him.                     On the second note; ignore him & move with your life. It's up to u to make the choice.

i still have fellins for him n cos he.knows his d only one in ma life n i love him hiz playin me for a fool,

Ediva:

i still have fellins for him n cos he.knows his d only one in ma life n i love him hiz playin me for a fool,

Guys for you once they know they dont hv rivals but we must always break that confidence.That makes them sit tight.Am telling you from experience!!!!

nikkykay:

Sis,do u think that guy will hv a reasonable excuse to give when he kept saying he was at home when the gal called him?He will definitely cook up something but the deed had already been done.

maybe he is just doesn't see Valentines day as something super special. me still think she should hear the guy out

scottN:

Wish I kud hep gf but my gf also stood me up. We also had issues & tried 2 resolve it. Hweva, ma own opinion is dat she spent it wit some1 else tho she denies; that she was wit her family (who r in anoda state) & dat val is time 4 small gals to milk men (gosh what an excuse!).Eida ways i've decided 2 move on in ma own case even tho she is now itching 2 come back 4rm whereva she went 2. Cases cud b perculiar but u cud use mine as a ref 2 decide 4 ursef gf.

both our lovers hurt us, u  heard her xplanationz n made ur choice sud i, i still havefeelnz for him n am so lonley but i dont want to b a fool,

rokiatu:

maybe he is just doesn't see Valentines day as something super special. me still think she should hear the guy out

He shld have said that and explained to her be4 she dressed up and came down all the way from her house.1hr drive ? Haba!!!.Try to be in her shoes ,hw wuld u feel?

nikkykay:

Guys for you once they know they dont hv rivals but we must always break that confidence.That makes them sit tight.Am telling you from experience!!!!

is like ur seein.tins from ma point of view, so sud i hear him out or wat

Pls give him a chance and listen to what hes got to say.You know what if u truly love him,forget anything he is going to tell you either the truth or lies.You move on and pretend as if nothing has happened.Just take it that he has done his own.Just watch out i mean his moves.

nikkykay:

Pls give him a chance and listen to what hes got to say.You know what if u truly love him,forget anything he is going to tell you either the truth or lies.You move on and pretend as if nothing has happened.Just take it that he has done his own.Just watch out i mean his moves.

hmmmm dats easeier said than done gal, wat if he just wants to use me as an assistant gf am faitful dis d dude n i expect dat in return, but how can i love a gut i dont trust, he has anoda gf. ill b lovin him n he will be lovin oda gal, its a fix, am confused

Ediva:

hmmmm dats easeier said than done gal, wat if he just wants to use me as an assistant gf am faitful dis d dude n i expect dat in return, but how can i love a gut i dont trust, he has anoda gf. ill b lovin him n he will be lovin oda gal, its a fix, am confused

I haven said he has another girl.Or are u aware is having another girl?Be4 u or after u met him? Becos for him to have spent the val with another girl means the girl is special or he just used that val day as an opportunity to to get something from the girl.My thot

nikkykay:

I haven said he has another girl.Or are u aware is having another girl?Be4 u or after u met him? Becos for him to have spent the val with another girl means the girl is special or he just used that val day as an opportunity to to get something from the girl.My thot

he used to have a gal but said they broke up. maybe d fire btw dem.stared burnin anew or was still burnin since, or mayb he has a new gal

Just be careful and be on the look out cos guys cant always be faithful.You can just listen to him and try to keep the distance for now.If he truly urs,u will see his seriousness.Generally,guys are unpredictable.

If some1 u luv cannot spend time wit u on val's day w/out a reasonable excuse, Me fink ye shud bounce an' move on. If he can damn d consequences on val's day w/out a gud alibi then danger is staring rait at ya an' u bera leave!

sorry ehn, sorry

[size=13pt]so why did he invite you over then ??
you went thru' all that journey
just for him to use you to rub it
babes, shook that guy knife[/size]

googles:

[size=13pt]
just for him to use you to rub it
babes, shook that guy knife[/size]

^^^ wtf does this mean i dont get it

omega25red:

^^^ wtf does this mean i dont get it

[size=13pt]In Queens english it means
he knew he wasn't gon be at home
yet he invited her over
so he just played mind games with her
so she should stab him with a sharp knife [/size]

googles:

[size=13pt]In Queens english it means
he knew he wasn't gon be at home
yet he invited her over
so he just played mind games with her
so she should stab him with a sharp knife [/size]

WTF that is cold

@ ediva: Repeat after me: "I shall not date any brokeass men again"

Scooby1:



WTF that is cold

[size=13pt]no that is cool [/size]

ravenzord:

@ ediva: Repeat after me: "I shall not date any brokeass men again"

[size=13pt]LWKMD. . . . . . [/size]

ravenzord:

@ ediva: Repeat after me: "I shall not date any brokeass men again"

LMFAO!

this is amazen i need to meet you nikkykay pls on ibgoodnews@yahoo.co.uk

ibgoodnews:

this is amazen i need to meet you nikkykay pls on ibgoodnews@yahoo.co.uk

Add me on messenger

@poster,
Is this the first time he's standing you up or Cuz its Vals day you are complaining about it?

Anyway hear him out and like Topup said,you will know the truth from his explanations.

listen to his explanations not ur friends

@Poster: I tot you are a lesbo