Hello guy, I will go straight to the point. Am married with two kids and I love my wife even though we have our differences I still love her. I know so many of her friends but there's particular one among them that controls her alot and my wife always heed whatever she says but I was hoping those will change once we are married. Unknown to me that my wife always tell her whenever we have any issues and she knows everything happening in my family. So we had a team bonding in my place of work and I snapped with a female colleague and put it on my DP. Next thing, this lady sent a lot of derogatory messages to me. Before now, her boyfriend slept with another lady and my wife never said anything about it let alone of calling to abuse him or anything. I was infuriated when I saw her messages and my wife response killed me. She said "if I respect her, I won't use my pix with al colleague on my DP that her friend is right". Her parent heard about it and begged me and I told her parents I don't want her to have any relationship with the lady again, all this happened 18 months ago. I have caught her several times calling or chatting with the lady. Each time I catch her, she either lie or beg. I caught on Sunday again and we fought about it. I sent the the screen grab to my brother anh he is always sad and ask what gave the lady such audacity to be that rude if not my wife, my aunt for UK was furious when she saw the screenshot of the messages. Am I asking for too much by telling her I don't want her friendship with the lady again? Honest response

........op i hope u v uploaded a picture of ur wife several times on ur dp before uploading a picture of a colleague u bonded with at the office.
why exactly do u want ur wife to cut ties with her friend :1) is it that ur wife tells her everything that happens in ur family.
or 2) is it that she is a bad influence on ur wife.

Before you start cutting friendship that started before you came into the picture,you should also find a replacement.cos everyone most especially women(not the secretive type) have that one person they talk to about some, if not all the happenings in their life.
You can make her ur bestfriend and try telling her in reasonable way not by ordering her y she should put a stop to the friendship. she cant just wake up one morning n make an enemy out of a friend,have patience with her and try opening up to her.

No you aren't asking for too much.

Your should stand your ground and tell her to make a choice between you and her friend.

Taking your issues out is way out of her way.

Now be the man and don't spill what you know about her boyfriend because doing otherwise places you at her very low level of thought.

u are doing d right tin

vivypretty:

abi na u be d wifey

is the said friend married? I asked because she might just be jealous of your wife and wants to destroy her marriage without your wife knowing

in fact your wife has to be very careful of such friends. I hope she listen to you anyways.

blessings on your family

Draei:

Family section please...

lmao

dude i've noticed ur non-chalant attitude towards almost every thread here

is that you've gat no chill or you've gat no joy
which is it



and ermmm op stand your ground on that shiiii

those kinda friends are demons in the form of wretched hoes

forbid ur wife from associating with the bitch and if possible show the comments here so she'd see shes just being foolish sticking to the M0R0N she calls a friend

abeg dont let her make u change ur mind........stop her at all cost

It Is Not Wrong for You Or Your Wife To Have Close Friends, but If Such Friendship Is Becoming An Obstacle To Your Home & Love Life, It Is Better You Think Twice & Put A Check To It.

No, you ain't asking for too much. If your wife refuses to listen to you, tell her to choose between her marriage and her friend. Zimpu sturvz

Through a security tracker/software on your phone, just track her live calls and, respond to her live sms and chats to your wife directly from your phone. it will cost you heavy data though. If she didn't stop chatting with your wife after that, you can blow up her phone using a hacker.

You must stop this nonsense or live to regret it.

No you are not asking for too much, it is sad that your wife cannot see that this unhealthy relationship with her friend is ruining her marriage.

I imagine it's not easy to leave a marriage especially one with kids, so i won't tell you to do that.

If i were in your shoes, I'd start detaching myself slowly but surely from my wife until she figures out how she's becoming a stranger in her own home. If she still doesn't change, in the long run i don't see how I can remain in that marriage.

The problem with most people is that they think people change with marriage....people don't change,they either remain the same or get worse!!!!!!....ladies and guys should stop been sentimental when getting married.. What you see is what you get..... Bro...Gos help you as you carry your cross

Draei:

Zero chill for anyone
Do me a favour and arrange that your face well joor

Divay22:

Zero chill for anyone
Do me a favour and arrange that your face well joor

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Your wife is being childish.. Tell her to choose between her friend and you.

Draei:

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No No No
Not that kind of face either

Divay22:

No No No
Not that kind of face either

Draei:

Lol, Falsified 18million naira dumb retardèd iguana with component psychological disorder . How are you fool?

Always seeking for that reply from me . Anyways...We are on sessional break okay? And even at that, I'm at work Atm so wrap up you stupid post and shove it up down into your cancerous alimentary canal, dumbfućk!

e pain am e forget post him nonsense to the right see errors abeg hope u get english as carryover, your brain hasnt fully understood usage of words

your wife should be mindful of the kind of friend she keeps..obviously the lady is jealous of her marriage and wants to destroy it.....tell her to choose between you or the lady,,then watch her response

Nenejeje:
is the said friend married? I asked because she might just be jealous of your wife and wants to destroy her marriage without your wife knowing

in fact your wife has to be very careful of such friends. I hope she listen to you anyways.

blessings on your family

The Frnd, she is likely to be jealous bt foolishly for the wife she no grab the wave naw, until things fall apart

You don't expect your wife to pull out from the friend she has known for long at once, give her time and make her see reasons why she shouldn't be close friends with that lady, she'd reason with you and pull out gently. Do all these in love.

But you sef, why will you just snap with a colleague and post it just like that? Hope you won't complain if your wife post a picture of herself and another guy on her profile?

Draei:

Lol..
Now that's better

Stevengerd:
The Frnd, she is likely to be jealous bt foolishly for the wife she no grab the wave naw, until things fall apart

I dey tell you especially if the wife is enjoying her marriage and she is not or not even married