Dating is tough as it is and dating a shy girl makes it even more so. However, dating a shy girl is equally rewarding as well because when a shy girls opens up to you then it leaves no doubt about how much she likes you. Every guy on some level has thought about dating a girl who gets naughty just for him and good in front of everyone else. Its kind of like the fantasy of the librarian and the stripper, the saint and the sinner. Well if you date a girl who is very shy then you can have that too, but you will need some patience. Luckily for you here I provide you with a little insight of how to date a shy girl and make her fall in love.

This is the first step for asking any girl out, but they hold an extra importance when the girl appears to be a bit shy. The process includes first letting the girl know you exist, than that you are interesting and from leaning in on you are interested to actually asking her out. These steps can happen in one go or it may take some time. However, my advice regarding this is not to rush into things but don’t go too slow that you end up in the friend zone.

CASUAL HELLOS

Casual Hello’s are just for letting the girl know that you exist in the world. It is also the best way to introduce yourself without freaking her out. It doesn’t necessary have to be the word ‘Hello’, it can be anything like if she did some notice worthy in office or in school then you can compliment her and at the same time introduce yourself. This way she knows who you are, so the first step is done and then you take it from there and follow the plan to date a shy girl.

OFF TOPIC CONVERSATIONS

Off topic conversations are just so she could get familiar talking to you. This is an optional step if you are going for the one go introduction and asking her out. Otherwise it’s better to have a conversation with her to know if she is interested or whether or not she is single. These topics can be anything except politics, religion or some personal stuff, you don’t want to delve in too deep at first go.

HINTING CONVERSATIONS

This is the fun part as this is where you start with flirting and using double meaning sentences with sexual innuendos terms and conditions applied, of course. Terms are the girl should be smiling or at least comfortable talking to you. Conditions are as always light room, public place, quiet enough that you can hear each other and loud enough or busy enough that others can’t. So, bring out your ‘A’ game because it’s time to go hinting.

ASK HER OUT

We have followed the steps to make her comfortable and now it’s the step to ask her out and date a shy girl you like. If you have hinted about asking her out then she won’t be that shocked when you actually do ask her. The thing with shy girls or an introvert person is that they take some time to prepare themselves just to get comfortable with the idea of going out with you.

Now for the actual moment I would suggest to keep it casual and remember not to do it front of a large crowd or she will get nervous. In fact try slipping it in a normal conversation when flirting. As I have said this could all happen in a single conversation or it may take a couple it all depends on how she react when hinting. If she is smiling or playing with her hair then she is okay with the idea of you two together if not then try again. But whatever you do, don’t force her and don’t wait too long to go for it as in both cases you may miss your chance.

PLAN TO DATE A SHY GIRL

Dating a shy girl is going to be a tad bit different from other girls. You know the things you do that you think makes girl go crazy that impulsive kind, Yeah! That won’t work here. The reason is you want to make her feel comfortable around you, intimately. The goal is to make her trust you that she doesn’t freak out anymore even if you do something impulsive. In other words there are some barriers you have to go through to get what you want like everything else in life. However, here are some tips that you could use depending on how what kind of girl she is.

PLAN AHEAD

If you want to date a shy type girl then you should know to plan ahead. Shy girls like most other girls like to know what’s going to happen next but unlike other girls shy girls don’t like to be in suspense. So, if you plan ahead then this gives the girl low chances to back out of a date and more time to be mentally prepared. The best way is to let her know where you will be going and what you will be doing but don’t make it too obvious. Try doing it like “Want to go to Apple bees”. This way she knows everything in advance thereby making her more comfortable saying yes.

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