Recently a friend told me she has refused to sleep with her man because he wouldn't give her money to buy a particular 'aso-ebi' she asked for. i told her this was wrong! even the bible says "The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does; and likewise also the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. I Cor. 7:4

why do women (and sometimes men too) love doing this? Is it right to deny your spouse 5ex just for selfish reasons?

Hmmmmm you seem to have a lot of "friends" with alot of s3xual issues.

Ebonyeyes:

Hmmmmm you seem to have a lot of "friends" with alot of s3xual issues.

abeg drop dat make u answer d question

lol, refuses to sleep with him,cause he failed to get her an 'aso ebi'.

that's extreme  

it is not right, simple

[size=13pt]LMAO
clear case of use what you have to get wat you want
use you "thingy" to collect money for aso-ebi[/size]

Isnt dat how some marital problems begin?

no, its not right!!!

When some women act this way they should be ready for the consequences. The following could happen

1. The hubby will see no difference between his so-called wife and the prostitute outside (Money wen go buy one Aso-ebi fit lay 3 sweet sixteen)

2. A vicious cycle of do-me-I-do-you can start and my climb mountain "neverest". - Family wahala

3. There are many desperate girls who do not mind becoming second wife.

My advice:

Do whatever you can to win his love. A man who loves is wife will find it hard to deprive her of things she desires.

Let me get smtin straight pls, is he her husband or just her LOVER? cos if he is a mere boyfriend, den she has done notin wrong. Even d bilble wnt accept dat.

it is not right, But sometimes you got to be selfish

Marriage is not mathematics, meaning the formula that works for A might end B's marriage if he or she uses it.

I will advise not to start what you cannot finish.

Other chicks no dey around? Thats crap

if they are married, then it is absolutely wrong, but if it is on a friendship level, then decisions varies from person to person. to me there is nothing wrong. after all na still on flexxing parole.

ok.

Th

woye77:

recently a friend told me she has refused to sleep with her man because he wouldn't give her money to buy a particular 'aso-ebi' she asked for. i told her this was wrong! even the bible says "The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does; and likewise also the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. I Cor. 7:4

why do women (and sometimes men too) love doing this? Is it right to deny your spouse 5ex just for selfish reasons?

There r other ways of getting wat u want frm ur lover in a relationsip bt denying him/her sex is nt cool. bc h/she can always get it somewhere else

depends on the offence.  "i want money to buy something so your not getting any till you pay up" - not appropriate
"i saw you come out of the hotel last night, untill you show me an std/hiv panel you aint getting any" - appropriate

It's not right to deny your partner in a committed relationship/marriage, if he is suspected to have STD then he should be made to use condoms until tests are carried out. That should be enough punishment for him!

hbabe:

It's not right to deny your partner in a committed relationship/marriage, if he is suspected to have STD then he should be made to use condoms until tests are carried out. That should be enough punishment for him!

condoms are not 100% effective and not all std's can be prevented with condom use

Thats true. And if I suspect my husband of cheating. No intimacy, until we thrash things out and get some tests done. My life is way more important than that.

However poster, If shes simply denying her husband intimacy b.c she wants something material. No thats not right. Thats actually very silly and irresponsible on her part. What is she a p.r.o.s.t.i.t.u.t.e?

Also, why is her husband denying things she wants? I understand if he cant afford it, but just to say no to be ornery and rediculous, than hes not right. If the wife is angry about something then. She wont WANT to have intimacy with you.

They both need to sit down and thrash out their issues before something this minor creates a big ordeal. To sum it all up. They both need to grow up.

any babe that thinks she can punish me by denying me intimacy is foolish- Ill definately get it elsewhere and even if she doesnt deny me of intimacy, Ill probably get else where anyway so . . . iunno care shes denying herself.

lmfao

rokiatu:

it is not right, But sometimes you got to be selfish

That thing between your laps is a money making machine or what?

LMAO
clear case of use what you have to get wat you want
use you "thingy" to collect money for aso-ebi

By their fruits we shall know them,

sjeezy8:

any babe that thinks she can punish me by denying me intimacy is foolish- Ill definately get it elsewhere and even if she doesnt deny me of intimacy, Ill probably get else where anyway so . . . iunno care shes denying herself.

lmfao

Then you need to stay single and not get married.

lalasticlala Mynd44

This forum is a joke! A thread of 2010 making front page in 2017?

Buhari why

No, that's a stupid thing to do. There are several options if one is denied intimacy. That's not punishment in anyway, it's foolishness!

See thread of how many years na.

Rokia2 come and see what you said in 2010 o

The Holy book is again it........ so , it's a No No

Okay na, keep denying them their lawful right until an outsider gives it to them then you come back online and start crying foul