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7 Best Things To Do After Being Dumped by agupearl: 3:42pm On Sep 14
No matter where you are in your life or how old and matured you are, every heartbreak hurts as if it’s the first one. Well, am sure it’s a little different for some who get their hearts stomped on every day. However, for most of us, it’s a pain that we have to carry and a wound that we have to heal.

Some go about their lives carrying the weight of the heavy heart while others take the brave step of moving on. While there’s no proven antidote or cure for these aching hearts, there are some things that can make it feel a little better.

1. Talk About It!
While you may feel like shutting yourself out completely and maintaining no contact with anyone, the very opposite of it will definitely make you feel better. Take your time, have a good cry but reach out as soon as you can. It could be a friend or a relative – doesn’t matter. Talking about it will take matters off your chest and through your own discourses, you will be able to see why it failed and may be that will bring some closure.

2. Hang Out With Friends
Now that your calendar is free, reach out to people you have always canceled on. Grab every opportunity of socializing and go for it. Free time would mean an idle mind and that’s what you have to avoid.



3. Do Something Dramatic
It could be a new hairstyle or it could be moving to a new city – there is always something that we put off because our partner may not be fully on board. May be to get that tattoo you have always wanted. Any change will distract you for a while and it will make you feel better about yourself.

4. Get Rid Of Old Memories

We are not saying burn and flush (although that’s not a bad idea) but do keep things that remind you of them out of your sight. May be to ask a friend to hold on to these things till you are ready to deal with them. You know it’s over and you miss them but there’s no need for a constant reminder. By now, you would have their number memorized but trust us, it’s always best to not see them pop up on your WhatsApp. Don’t follow them on social media, it will only make you feel worse. After the initial phase of drunk calling, crying and begging (which is a part of the process), you should delete all traces of them. At least you know, you tried but now it’s time to let that go.


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Re: 7 Best Things To Do After Being Dumped by Ekakamba: 3:43pm On Sep 14
Hmmmm
Re: 7 Best Things To Do After Being Dumped by Kowor(f): 3:44pm On Sep 14
Live your life.
Re: 7 Best Things To Do After Being Dumped by Tamel(m): 3:47pm On Sep 14
yinmu....just cry your eyes out!!
Re: 7 Best Things To Do After Being Dumped by ReneeNuttall(f): 3:56pm On Sep 14
Easier said than done.

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Re: 7 Best Things To Do After Being Dumped by Homeboiy(m): 3:59pm On Sep 14
Drink beer and go ur way
Re: 7 Best Things To Do After Being Dumped by Sabrina18(f): 6:40pm On Sep 14
Enter a rebounding relationship, it helps quite a lot.
Re: 7 Best Things To Do After Being Dumped by Balistic4: 6:53pm On Sep 14
Sabrina18:
Enter a rebounding relationship, it helps quite a lot.
It pays to take your time after a breakup for many reasons. Give makeup a chance, few weeks might not be bad. Rebounding relationship can be fatal and can also mean you can't exist without a relationship.
Re: 7 Best Things To Do After Being Dumped by Edopesin(m): 8:58pm On Sep 14
Story For The Girls
Re: 7 Best Things To Do After Being Dumped by noah24(m): 9:49pm On Sep 14
Bleep her friends

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