gabazin080:
it happened that I exchanged memory card with my wife. so I saw 2 call recordings between my wife and a guy. the guy was toasting her and she was laughing and telling the guy on phone that she will go and think about his proposal and give him a feedback later.

am confused but have not challenged her yet. am thinking of ending the marriage but my mum died last month and no one to take care of my son.

what can I do pls

Great4God:


When you are married,you will understand better

gabazin080:
it happened that I exchanged memory card with my wife. so I saw 2 call recordings between my wife and a guy. the guy was toasting her and she was laughing and telling the guy on phone that she will go and think about his proposal and give him a feedback later.

am confused but have not challenged her yet. am thinking of ending the marriage but my mum died last month and no one to take care of my son.

what can I do pls

dingbang:
don't be a weak man

cstr1000:
I have a low threshold for nonsense.
I will confront her immediately. Get her to call that admirer of hers on phone in my presence and tell him plainly by herself to stay away from her.
And then i will tell her in very clear terms, that the day she so much as look in the direction of another man, she is leaving my house for good, and without my child.
I am being cuckolded in my own home, i would be too furious to even say i want to waste my time investigating or petting her.
In the good old days, it is not romance that stops female infidelity, it is the fear of the consequence. Too many weak men nowadays that their wives have no single fear.
A healthy dose of fear is not a bad thing.

Brugo:


Please don't insult me. Actually it takes more courage to face a situation squarely like a man than to end up beating her like you suggested.

The OP is grieving and now he discovers this? It's common sense that his emotions will be frayed at this point.

mayorkyzo:
I see some people trying to justify the wife's behavior saying maybe the husband is not giving her attention..complete rubbish...what would make a married woman flirt and giving a guy greenlight saying she woud think about it...that's as good as cheating...Op your wife might already be cheating on you...try to gather evidence and do away with her...nothing worse than a cheating wife in marriage..

eezeribe:

After doing a DNA test to confirm if the boy is really your son...just send her packing.

Narldon:
Ok

brainbox1000:



What he saw is not enough to know that she is flirting with another man.? Why would a married woman do such with another man ..that means you can't trust her

alexialin:





God bless you.




Some husbands wil be acting like abacha at home, no more romance, no family hang out, no warmth except when hes itching to get laid, He becomes nice, warm and soft spoken. After sex he shuts down.

Oga do the needful and make your wife feel like a woman around u.
And not like your hired help

WrathOfHadez:
Believe me, this is all the evidence you'll ever need. Her response already condemns her as guilty.

Any married woman who goes about encouraging guys for future consideration will eventually fall into the dick-lehr!
A married woman entertaining a direct fúck proposal is a fúck magnet herself and has no respect for herself or her union.

If she would respond to a new guy hitting on her with this kind of encouraging comments, what happens when her favourite ex comes calling?

Don't be a cockold, tap her line remotely so you can listen to her calls whenever she picks any call.

Any man who willingly cohabites with a cheating wife is walking on a field filled with mine trap.

Amberon11:
would you say the same if it was the man cheating?

Babsmike:
The devil you have known is better than the devil you don't know. Please ask her , maybe she can repent and joy will be restore.

kimbraa:
For the fact that she's married doesn't stop other men from chasing after her 'cause some would, even with a ring on. What these ones want is to get in-between her legs.
#fact, what some women don't get is; any man who sleeps with you knowing you're married has a high threshold not to commit to whatever you both have 'cause if you could do it to your husband then he isn't any different. What matters most is your wife's values, and commitment to her marriage.

Thinking of divorce over the issue is quit a rash decision to take. You either iron things out with her by discussing the conversation you heard or go detective for more facts.

cstr1000:
I have a low threshold for nonsense.
I will confront her immediately. Get her to call that admirer of hers on phone in my presence and tell him plainly by herself to stay away from her.
And then i will tell her in very clear terms, that the day she so much as look in the direction of another man, she is leaving my house for good, and without my child.
I am being cuckolded in my own home, i would be too furious to even say i want to waste my time investigating or petting her.
In the good old days, it is not romance that stops female infidelity, it is the fear of the consequence. Too many weak men nowadays that their wives have no single fear.
A healthy dose of fear is not a bad thing.

989900:
This small thing and you want to start a civil war?

If I sit you down and tell you stories (forget all these kids misconceptions here on NL), you will 'sharply' branch ShopRite buy her gifts, and take her to the movies the next day.

Our world has gone haywire, you need to upgrade your OS of handling these 'modern women' to make them fall in line.

dingbang:
courage my foot....

cstr1000:
I have a low threshold for nonsense.
I will confront her immediately. Get her to call that admirer of hers on phone in my presence and tell him plainly by herself to stay away from her.
And then i will tell her in very clear terms, that the day she so much as look in the direction of another man, she is leaving my house for good, and without my child.
I am being cuckolded in my own home, i would be too furious to even say i want to waste my time investigating or petting her.
In the good old days, it is not romance that stops female infidelity, it is the fear of the consequence. Too many weak men nowadays that their wives have no single fear.
A healthy dose of fear is not a bad thing.

cstr1000:
I have a low threshold for nonsense.
I will confront her immediately. Get her to call that admirer of hers on phone in my presence and tell him plainly by herself to stay away from her.
And then i will tell her in very clear terms, that the day she so much as look in the direction of another man, she is leaving my house for good, and without my child.
I am being cuckolded in my own home, i would be too furious to even say i want to waste my time investigating or petting her.
In the good old days, it is not romance that stops female infidelity, it is the fear of the consequence. Too many weak men nowadays that their wives have no single fear.
A healthy dose of fear is not a bad thing.

Hedonistically:


Well spoken.

See the foolish weak men here making excuses for the woman. Oh sit her down, talk to her, flirt more with her, tel her sweet words, pamper her, find out what she's missing and try and do it for her so that another man wouldn't do it for her... Blah Blah motherfucking Blah!

There's a lot wrong with the sissies of nowadays called 'men'. Your so-called wife that you went through hell to marry and maintain is cheating on you, and instead of doing what you should do, you allow yourself to be blackmailed into conciliatory mode. Well, to each his own.

Timbuktuo:


[s]Another nonsense. So, what happens when he catches her cheating? He will take her to Burj All Arab? Lol. Nairaland comedians are obviously out to play.

So, as we are in the modern world, the modern woman doesn't want a man that can provide for her abi? As a modern, so-called independent woman she can just go and pick a broke nigga and they'll live happily ever after? In this modern world, o Wise One, pray tell, how come women still demand what our mothers and grandmothers demanded of our fathers and grandfathers but in your wisdom we cannot demand what our forebears demanded of our mothers and grandmothers?

It is people like you that have made the world "go haywire", to quote you. You do not negotiate with terrorists and criminals when you are in a position of strength, you fûck them up. Take your advice to your fellow weak, ignorant men.[/s]

gabazin080:
it happened that I exchanged memory card with my wife. so I saw 2 call recordings between my wife and a guy. the guy was toasting her and she was laughing and telling the guy on phone that she will go and think about his proposal and give him a feedback later.

am confused but have not challenged her yet. am thinking of ending the marriage but my mum died last month and no one to take care of my son.

what can I do pls

marisdgreat:
Women can be something else this days in marriage but also applicable to the men. It seems like there is lack of communication, care and attention in your marriage so u need to sit her down and ask her what are the things she likes or dislikes from u.Before u do that ask yourself some questions if there is anything u have been doing before but u have stopped doing it.
Like i myself i love communication so much because it is the top most thing to consider before talking of other things.If there is lack of communication: love, care, trust, attention and the rest of things that spice up a relationship will be reducing gradually and the thought of going outside will come in.