Fabulouscity:


Yes we seriously need counselling... Cos obviously we aren't on the same page regarding child upbringing.. . He calls me a sadist.. But truly I want the best for my child the boy is extremely intelligent for his age his memory is Sthg else. And yes sometimes he shows me the porn, mayb I come in and I hear moans I'll be like what are you watching? then he shows me nothing serious like an addiction. (I hope not). Thanks for your advice.

Fabulouscity:


Most men watch porn.. those that send it to him are married men in their 40s and 50s,respectable classy men for that matter.

Fabulouscity:
Thanks everyone, for your input,

We were all tired yesterday so I let it slide, so today very early in the morning I spoke to the father about it, he ws shocked and said he thought he had deleted it from his phone(the videos were sent to him via what'sup. .. . His randy frds).

According to him is phone has a way of storing deleted files then recovering it back unknown to him
So anyway like I was adviced here I told him to speak to his son and all. Which he agreed.

We all just got home now.... the unthinkable happened like its a nightmare... My worst fears came alive,.. .. I was in the room trying to relax, something just moved me to the parlour, the boy had pulled his pants and was trying to insert his little pee, inside another little child bombom....i was horrified.

I asked him where he saw it from and he said his dad's phone.
So without further hesitation I got out the belt n did what I should have done yesterday, I knew something had gone terribly wrong yesterday... Thats y I was so bitter.

I called the father to tell him what happened can u imagine he was still insisting I shouldnt beat him.. . Anyway we ended up quarrelling.

I don finally beat the boy blue black... I will take him to a pharmacy later.. . Yea I injured him. I am waiting for the father and am ready.. Am thinking of calling my mum incase this matter escalates. Am just tired

Fabulouscity:
Thanks everyone, for your input,

We were all tired yesterday so I let it slide, so today very early in the morning I spoke to the father about it, he ws shocked and said he thought he had deleted it from his phone(the videos were sent to him via what'sup. .. . His randy frds).

According to him is phone has a way of storing deleted files then recovering it back unknown to him
So anyway like I was adviced here I told him to speak to his son and all. Which he agreed.

We all just got home now.... the unthinkable happened like its a nightmare... My worst fears came alive,.. .. I was in the room trying to relax, something just moved me to the parlour, the boy had pulled his pants and was trying to insert his little pee, inside another little child bombom....i was horrified.

I asked him where he saw it from and he said his dad's phone.
So without further hesitation I got out the belt n did what I should have done yesterday, I knew something had gone terribly wrong yesterday... Thats y I was so bitter.

I called the father to tell him what happened can u imagine he was still insisting I shouldnt beat him.. . Anyway we ended up quarrelling.

I don finally beat the boy blue black... I will take him to a pharmacy later.. . Yea I injured him. I am waiting for the father and am ready.. Am thinking of calling my mum incase this matter escalates. Am just tired

truthsayer009:


I read at the top where someone said your marriage is on the verge of hitting the rocks because of your hubby is watching porn.
I laugh in my mind !!! The devil you know is better than the angel you don't know.

If married women are smart enough to go thru their husband's phone browser history, their eyes will open. lets call a spade a spade please.

PaperLace:


This is more than we envisaged. Are you sure that's his first time watching it?

You injured him? Jisike!!

pcguru1:


Is it a Tecno phone its true my phone WhatsApp downloads all videos and when you delete them it goes yo another folder called deleted which videos can Stoll be watched from them.you can see I deleted that pix a long time and its there even videos too

classicB:
We are sexual beings and its funny how some modern parents thinks a 5years old child cannot assimilate what porn is about. Its about two naked grown up adults doing that thing naturally curiosity will set in and they will yearn for more. I watched a sex scene from a movie my sister watched years back, I was less than 7, its over 15years now and I still remember like yesterday. Y'all modern parents should sit your ass down and let these small kids that live in same room with their sex driven parents tutor you on what sex itself is I have seen these things and most of the time they are less than 5 actually. Why do you think parents are adviced not to have sex in presence of their less than two year old baby? Why didn't they assume that these babies are still innocent so it won't matter right? Please keep a tab on him and get him busy with kids stuffs. God help u ma.

bluecircle470:


That means you should be around 22 years old now

classicB:

Around that see calculator
Lols

PaperLace:


It's impulse that you want to beat him. You want to beat who you power reach? Go and beat the owner of the phone na .

Talk to him lovingly, my other comment addressed that. I'm grateful for the compliment.

Fabulouscity:
I will go straight to the point, have come to seek advice on how to handle this, I have been here on NL for awhile, but I created this account for advice.
so I woke up early to prepare my children for school today, there was no electricity supply but my son (5 years) was busying with his dad's phone in the sitting room, his composure made me decide to have a glimpse of what game he was playing, I snooped behind him and guest what? He was watching porn!! the way he was clicking and pausing it showed it wasn't his first time, I took the phone from him,and decided not to make a scene that early, Now am confused... I don't knw how to handle this (haven't told his father either). Am just annoyed after all the blocking TV channels... This had to happen. pls how do I handle this?

oluplus:

On a lighter note, should happily and sexually satisfied married men keep such contents on their phones? Could it be as a result of starvation? You need not answer.
I wish you well

ElsonMorali:
First, If you beat a 5 year old boy for watching the videos he found on his father's phone that would make you very wrong.

He is 5, not 15. Instead, watch him real close and see If he is being affected by the videos he's been watching. Hopefully he's not addicted yet, But make sure you have him engage in physical exercises, take him to an open park where he can play with boys his age in the sand. Engage his mind with his school homework and get colorful and decent comics for him, like tintin and Archie comics.

Second, The father is totally in the wrong here. He knew he had porn on his phone and still left it for the boy to handle. He has behaved irresponsibly.

Meanwhile, you have a much bigger problem on your hands than these. Your marriage is on the verge of hitting the rocks.

I'm yet to see a marriage that survived the addiction of one of the spouses to porn.

You need to talk to your husband about this. Let him know you'll support him to break that habit.

He needs to seek professional help and both of you should also go for counselling.

Don't wait until you're done for.

All the best.

Pojomojo:
Why wont u beat him, it is the 15 yrs old u talk too and educate him on the dangers of porns

truthsayer009:
The deed has been done already, When your son is back from school. Pls Beat the crap out of him & leave marks ...Yeah i said that !!!

Then afterwards, talk to your husband & sort things out.

Why would your husband be keeping adult content on his phone without a password? Your husband too also deserves an ass woopping.

Fabulouscity:

Honestly am so annoyed,I don't know ooo why the heck he has such stuff on his phone without a password, see how he has messed up this little boy head thanks alot

SAMBARRY:
madam you cannot control an adult man's decisions or whatever he chooses to do with his phone.I've come across a lot of men with porn on their phone?so what?men Having pornography on their phone is like women having make-up tutorials on their phone.it's not everything you have to fight about otherwise you'll get frustrated .you can shout to death it doesn't mean he won't download another one if he sees another porn material or the pornstars ass fascinates.

Just ignore.it's not a reason to quarrel after ALL at the end of the day it's his phone and he can decide to put whatever he wants there.if he likes he can put aisha bubus ass on it or dezianis brez.it's his phone.

You too get busy and PLS don't beat the innocent boy.It's an opportunity to give him sex education afterall no be him download the video and no be him give am phone

Pojomojo:
sex education at 5

SAMBARRY:
yes.their generation is different and don't think they don't know what sex is

You better teach him now before pedophiles help you teach him.abi you think it's only men that do pedophilia?

Fabulouscity:
I will go straight to the point, have come to seek advice on how to handle this, I have been here on NL for awhile, but I created this account for advice.
so I woke up early to prepare my children for school today, there was no electricity supply but my son (5 years) was busying with his dad's phone in the sitting room, his composure made me decide to have a glimpse of what game he was playing, I snooped behind him and guest what? He was watching porn!! the way he was clicking and pausing it showed it wasn't his first time, I took the phone from him,and decided not to make a scene that early, Now am confused... I don't knw how to handle this (haven't told his father either). Am just annoyed after all the blocking TV channels... This had to happen. pls how do I handle this?

Ishilove:

This is the reason why children of nowadays are so spoiled now and don't have fear.

Funny but so true. Kids of nowadays do get away with lots of things, things that back in the days You dare not try.

Fabulouscity:
Thanks everyone, for your input,

We were all tired yesterday so I let it slide, so today very early in the morning I spoke to the father about it, he ws shocked and said he thought he had deleted it from his phone(the videos were sent to him via what'sup. .. . His randy frds).

According to him is phone has a way of storing deleted files then recovering it back unknown to him
So anyway like I was adviced here I told him to speak to his son and all. Which he agreed.

We all just got home now.... the unthinkable happened like its a nightmare... My worst fears came alive,.. .. I was in the room trying to relax, something just moved me to the parlour, the boy had pulled his pants and was trying to insert his little pee, inside another little child bombom....i was horrified.

I asked him where he saw it from and he said his dad's phone.
So without further hesitation I got out the belt n did what I should have done yesterday, I knew something had gone terribly wrong yesterday... Thats y I was so bitter.

I called the father to tell him what happened can u imagine he was still insisting I shouldnt beat him.. . Anyway we ended up quarrelling.

I don finally beat the boy blue black... I will take him to a pharmacy later.. . Yea I injured him. I am waiting for the father and am ready.. Am thinking of calling my mum incase this matter escalates. Am just tired