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Re: Is She A Wife Material? by MIKOLOWISKA: 4:40pm On Sep 29
Adaumunocha:
Lol... No zoning.
so hope de? You be lepa or orobo
Re: Is She A Wife Material? by mikeycharles(m): 6:08pm On Sep 29
MIKOLOWISKA:
so the man that provides and protects should be the slave abi
And in the case where the woman is also "providing and protecting" she should also be a "slave"
Re: Is She A Wife Material? by MIKOLOWISKA: 6:24pm On Sep 29
mikeycharles:
And in the case where the woman is also "providing and protecting" she should also be a "slave"
no the guy
Re: Is She A Wife Material? by mikeycharles(m): 6:28pm On Sep 29
MIKOLOWISKA:
no the guy
The point I'm trying to make here is, the wife shouldn't be the only one responsible for the cooking, cleaning and taking care of the kids, it shouldn't be a must. The wife herself maybe working too, they should share the responsibilities. We (society) see women as lesser beings that should remain in the kitchen and the "oza" room.
Re: Is She A Wife Material? by Nofuckgiven: 6:36pm On Sep 29
MIKOLOWISKA:
so you married a beta and gave him vegetable to eat. I'm so sorry for the poor man. mumu, cooking as a job is not the same as being your wife's b.itch.now tell me lazinus, what do you contribute to your household.? nothing or you pay bills too? just wait till he meets real woman. sorry will be your name.
Thank God I have always paid my own bills even before I got married and will keep doing so. Not my fault you end up with liabilities who don't do any other thing but take and spend. Maybe its because they know you don't deserve any better. How are you even better than Mark Zuckerberg and other wealthy men who help their wives with chores? Nonsense.

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Re: Is She A Wife Material? by MIKOLOWISKA: 6:40pm On Sep 29
Nofuckgiven:

Thank God I have always paid my own bills even before I got married and will keep doing so. Not my fault you end up with liabilities who don't do any other thing but take and spend. Maybe its because they know you don't deserve any better. How are you even better than Mark Zuckerberg and other wealthy men who help their wives with chores? Nonsense.
mark is a nerd so he has to do the chores
Re: Is She A Wife Material? by Nofuckgiven: 6:43pm On Sep 29
efficiencie:


Madam you dey venzzz oohhhh! You don't have to insult me to state your point...a wife is there to help her husband and the husband must help the woman to help him. If my wife seeks a machine to do the laundry, a maid to clean the house and do the cooking, a nanny to take care of the kids, a counselor to give her husband advice and a massager to keep her husband relaxed then of what use is she as a wife and of what use is the husband to the wife...The mere fact that my wife does things for me and I do things for my wife bonds us. Yes, I believe machines are made to make life easy and if i can afford them I will get as much as I can but there are some things a woman must do for her husband and her husband must do for her to strengthen the bond!

My wife is not my maid, but I am sure she will be very hurt to hear me complementing my maid, right before her, for the fine dish she prepared...and she will be hurt all the more if she sees that my respect and regard for that maid grows daily on account of her services!
Oga if you like make your wife a maid,it is non of my business. My husband respects himself so much that I also love and respect him in return. Machines were created to make life easier and as long as I can afford them,I must use them. If because a maid helps me out with some chores as a working class woman and mother is a crime,then he can go ahead and do whatever he wants. I can't even keep any maid older than 12 years in my house. I can cook meals for my husband and other things she can't do. But every other chore can be taken care of by the maid. I obviously cannot be a full-time house wife,if he wanted one,he would have married an illiterate or those who don't mind. Then if he is mad enough to seduce and have sex with a 12 year old,then he is just useless and a fool and doesn't deserve me. Gbam.

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Re: Is She A Wife Material? by Nofuckgiven: 6:45pm On Sep 29
MIKOLOWISKA:
mark is a nerd so he has to do the chores
And where is it written that only nerds do chores? Your brain is really paining you I swear. grin keep giving excuses for laziness.

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Re: Is She A Wife Material? by Nofuckgiven: 6:48pm On Sep 29
MIKOLOWISKA:
chimamanda is a stooge used to deceive gullible women like yourself while she doesn't practice what she preaches.
we'll see how long your happiness last with this mumu mindset.
you with this your vile mouth, I'm sure you're one of those mercy aigbe types posting picture upandan yet crying in your corner.
we see them all the time.
stubborn things.

it's not a curse o but just watch and when it happens you'll remember somebody told you.
So you are her brother or lives with her inside her house to know exactly what she does. The reason she married a white man in the first place was to escape the glorified housemaid position of the African marriage setting.
I am not Mercy Aigbe,I am me. And I have been married longer than most people and very happy because my hubby is not lazy or a chauvinist like you.

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Re: Is She A Wife Material? by pocohantas(f): 7:03pm On Sep 29
Nofuckgiven:

Oga if you like make your wife a maid,it is non of my business. My husband respects himself so much that I also love and respect him in return. Machines were created to make life easier and as long as I can afford them,I must use them. If because a maid helps me out with some chores as a working class woman and mother is a crime,then he can go ahead and do whatever he wants. I can't even keep any maid older than 12 years in my house. I can cook meals for my husband and other things she can't do. But every other chore can be taken care of by the maid. I obviously cannot be a full-time house wife,if he wanted one,he would have married an illiterate or those who don't mind. Then if he is mad enough to seduce and have sex with a 12 year old,then he is just useless and a fool and doesn't deserve me. Gbam.

A child below 12yrs shouldn't be a maid. That's child labour...
A child below the legal age of adulthood shouldn't be a maid.

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Re: Is She A Wife Material? by efficiencie(m): 7:15pm On Sep 29
Nofuckgiven:

Oga if you like make your wife a maid,it is non of my business. My husband respects himself so much that I also love and respect him in return. Machines were created to make life easier and as long as I can afford them,I must use them. If because a maid helps me out with some chores as a working class woman and mother is a crime,then he can go ahead and do whatever he wants. I can't even keep any maid older than 12 years in my house. I can cook meals for my husband and other things she can't do. But every other chore can be taken care of by the maid. I obviously cannot be a full-time house wife,if he wanted one,he would have married an illiterate or those who don't mind. Then if he is mad enough to seduce and have sex with a 12 year old,then he is just useless and a fool and doesn't deserve me. Gbam.







your comment is too full of bile...Do yu or did you av a brutish dad, bullying ex boyfriend or a violent ex hubby...my dear, not all men are walking beasts breeding feminists. i have a woman who works and yet would love to be part of everything involving me...she never sees submitting to me as slavery though she could be boisterous and obstinate....na epp we dey epp ourself strengthening our bond...
Re: Is She A Wife Material? by Nofuckgiven: 8:39pm On Sep 29
efficiencie:








your comment is too full of bile...Do yu or did you av a brutish dad, bullying ex boyfriend or a violent ex hubby...my dear, not all men are walking beasts breeding feminists. i have a woman who works and yet would love to be part of everything involving me...she never sees submitting to me as slavery though she could be boisterous and obstinate....na epp we dey epp ourself strengthening our bond...
I have loving and wonderful father and brothers who were brought up to take care of themselves without waiting for a woman. So forgive me if I am not used to lazy men. It is the way I was brought up.

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Re: Is She A Wife Material? by Nofuckgiven: 8:41pm On Sep 29
pocohantas:


A child below 12yrs shouldn't be a maid. That's child labour...
A child below the legal age of adulthood shouldn't be a maid.
Why not tell that to your female relatives? Charity begins at home. I am sure you even have a 6 year old slaving away in your house but come online to pretend. Not everyone maltreats their maids.

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Re: Is She A Wife Material? by efficiencie(m): 7:56am On Sep 30
Nofuckgiven:

I have loving and wonderful father and brothers who were brought up to take care of themselves without waiting for a woman. So forgive me if I am not used to lazy men. It is the way I was brought up.

...then your brothers would be happily single since they dont need a woman for anything...and your husband just married you to start a family obviously he cant form one all by himself but he is so hard working that he needs you for nothing else....your darling hardworking husband has it all covered...
Re: Is She A Wife Material? by MIKOLOWISKA: 9:29am On Sep 30
Nofuckgiven:

So you are her brother or lives with her inside her house to know exactly what she does. The reason she married a white man in the first place was to escape the glorified housemaid position of the African marriage setting.
I am not Mercy Aigbe,I am me. And I have been married longer than most people and very happy because my hubby is not lazy or a chauvinist like you.
whatever helps you sleep at night
Let's see how long it takes a real hardworking woman to snatch your husband
Cos I don't see what you bring to the table except children.
And even that can be gotten from any woman so nothing special about you o.
You don't pay bills
You don't do housework
Na only clap you de clap for your man?
Or maybe you're just a trophy wife
Re: Is She A Wife Material? by MIKOLOWISKA: 9:30am On Sep 30
Nofuckgiven:

And where is it written that only nerds do chores? Your brain is really paining you I swear. grin keep giving excuses for laziness.
only men who couldn't get women easily do chores to get them. Don't deceive yourself
Re: Is She A Wife Material? by MIKOLOWISKA: 9:44am On Sep 30
mikeycharles:
The point I'm trying to make here is, the wife shouldn't be the only one responsible for the cooking, cleaning and taking care of the kids, it shouldn't be a must. The wife herself maybe working too, they should share the responsibilities. We (society) see women as lesser beings that should remain in the kitchen and the "oza" room.
it isn't a must
Also not a must I marry feminist man basher
If she sees guy who can tolerate it,more grease
Me o can't do it
Let her marry her career since she doesn't need a man
I need wife, not roommate with toto (excuse my French) cos no difference with her and outsourcing
If I'm not worth feeding and cleaning after then why should I provide roof over your head And vice versa
Re: Is She A Wife Material? by Nofuckgiven: 3:48pm On Sep 30
MIKOLOWISKA:
whatever helps you sleep at night
Let's see how long it takes a real hardworking woman to snatch your husband
Cos I don't see what you bring to the table except children.
And even that can be gotten from any woman so nothing special about you o.
You don't pay bills
You don't do housework
Na only clap you de clap for your man? Happy
Or maybe you're just a trophy wife
A wise man created this post to educate educated illiterates like you who think they know but are just plain dunces that working hard doesn't mean suffering. How can you understand that? If success was a result of hardwork, why are bricklayers still poor? I work smart not hard because I have the tools and finances to help me and I put them to good use.
Your case is really beyond human reasoning. Pathetic I must say. Try harder. Lol grin

Re: Is She A Wife Material? by Nofuckgiven: 3:48pm On Sep 30
MIKOLOWISKA:
only men who couldn't get women easily do chores to get them. Don't deceive yourself
Who couldn't get women easily. So you mean his money can't get women easily? Very funny grin
Re: Is She A Wife Material? by Nofuckgiven: 3:51pm On Sep 30
efficiencie:


...then your brothers would be happily single since they dont need a woman for anything...and your husband just married you to start a family obviously he cant form one all by himself but he is so hard working that he needs you for nothing else....your darling hardworking husband has it all covered...
My brothers are very happy with their partners because they understand what women go through more than you chauvinists. My darling hubby is the best man in the world to me. Why would I want to lose him? He knows he is a part of the house and not a guest or visitor. He knows the kids are also his and not only mine. It takes a wise man to know that.
Re: Is She A Wife Material? by MIKOLOWISKA: 7:42pm On Sep 30
Nofuckgiven:

Who couldn't get women easily. So you mean his money can't get women easily? Very funny grin
pvssy yes, women no
Re: Is She A Wife Material? by MIKOLOWISKA: 7:45pm On Sep 30
Nofuckgiven:

A wise man created this post to educate educated illiterates like you who think they know but are just plain dunces that working hard doesn't mean suffering. How can you understand that? If success was a result of hardwork, why are bricklayers still poor? I work smart not hard because I have the tools and finances to help me and I put them to good use.
Your case is really beyond human reasoning. Pathetic I must say. Try harder. Lol grin
see English speaker
No such thing as an educated illiterate
Success is a function of working hard not hard work
So you bought your husband, no wonder
I knew it. He's a gold
digger
It's your type that pay their own bride price yet won't learn from their past foolishness
Re: Is She A Wife Material? by Nofuckgiven: 10:04pm On Sep 30
MIKOLOWISKA:
see English speaker
No such thing as an educated illiterate
Success is a function of working hard not hard work
So you bought your husband, no wonder
I knew it. He's a gold
digger
It's your type that pay their own bride price yet won't learn from their past foolishness
There is such a thing as an educated illiterate. That is exactly what you are as you exhibit your ignorance and keep spewing trash.
My husband is richer than I am and there is no way I can buy him. Not everyone is a gold digger like you who marry white women for green cards. Idiots like you complain about paying brideprice but turn around to accuse a woman who pays her own because you are a bloody confused hypocrite. Not as if you can afford to even marry a decent and well-educated lady like me so I don't give a damn.
Re: Is She A Wife Material? by Nofuckgiven: 10:05pm On Sep 30
MIKOLOWISKA:
pvssy yes, women no
Dick yes,men no tongue
Re: Is She A Wife Material? by lopside12: 5:36am On Oct 01
nairanaira12:


Anty please shut up. If you (either the man or the woman) refuses to condescend, that home can't be in peace. In a marriage, it isn't about you anymore; it is now about "us". Everything you do shouldn't be about what you feel is right or about the way your upbringing tells you it should be; it is now about "what will work for us"

Fool go and read my initial post again I see you lack comprehension skills..
Is there marriage I was talking about or people generally..

Go ahead fooling yourself with half of a brain that's in your skull
Re: Is She A Wife Material? by MIKOLOWISKA: 11:23am On Oct 01
Nofuckgiven:

Dick yes,men no tongue
?
Re: Is She A Wife Material? by MIKOLOWISKA: 11:24am On Oct 01
Nofuckgiven:

Dick yes,men no tongue
so you know yet you de bjblab upandan
Re: Is She A Wife Material? by MIKOLOWISKA: 11:26am On Oct 01
Nofuckgiven:

There is such a thing as an educated illiterate. That is exactly what you are as you exhibit your ignorance and keep spewing trash.
My husband is richer than I am and there is no way I can buy him. Not everyone is a gold digger like you who marry white women for green cards. Idiots like you complain about paying brideprice but turn around to accuse a woman who pays her own because you are a bloody confused hypocrite. Not as if you can afford to even marry a decent and well-educated lady like me so I don't give a damn.
decent?
WELL educated?
I don't think you even know what those words mean.
And you're the gold digger who has been talking about money and richer and green card for more than a week
Re: Is She A Wife Material? by nairanaira12: 12:55pm On Oct 01
lopside12:


Fool go and read my initial post again I see you lack comprehension skills..
Is there marriage I was talking about or people generally..

Go ahead fooling yourself with half of a brain that's in your skull


You that have comprehension skill, we can all see how you are disgrscing your useless patents here like a useless immbecile. The way you comment, one would think your brain has been replaced with sawdust. Idiotic fool.
Re: Is She A Wife Material? by efficiencie(m): 3:54pm On Oct 01
Nofuckgiven:

My brothers are very happy with their partners because they understand what women go through more than you chauvinists. My darling hubby is the best man in the world to me. Why would I want to lose him? He knows he is a part of the house and not a guest or visitor. He knows the kids are also his and not only mine. It takes a wise man to know that.


it takes a trampled woman to label those she barely knows as "chauvinists"!
Re: Is She A Wife Material? by Nofuckgiven: 5:02pm On Oct 02
efficiencie:


it takes a trampled woman to label those she barely knows as "chauvinists"!
It takes a fool to think he is wise when he is not. Sad but you are the perfect definition of a hopeless fool.
Re: Is She A Wife Material? by Nofuckgiven: 5:04pm On Oct 02
MIKOLOWISKA:
decent?
WELL educated?
I don't think you even know what those words mean.
And you're the gold digger who has been talking about money and richer and green card for more than a week
Stop confusing yourself. You are just an educated illiterate. Maybe that is why you don't know such word exist. Shameless fool. Your school fees was indeed a waste that is if you even went to one. Useless piece of poo,loathsome scoundrel,son of a bitch go and die! You are worthless to even yourself. grin grin

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