paiz:
She is a good woman
She hate sex

She hating sex maybe due to the following reasons
Its either you can't satisfy her
Or she is getting it outside

See what you are going to do
Try to talk to her about it
Try to be romantic
Make her happy
She will change believe me

But if she remains defiant
Have you heard of spanish fly
Just sip small into her drink
She will tear your jean trouser that day

alphaconde:
theres always a bad side of every good thing, deal with urs, my own wife bleeps alot but very lazy upstairs, i am dealing with it

soberdrunk:
Was she like that before marriage or she just changed?

monex:


there are women who hate sex. I was told about someone whose wife only agrees to sex once a year. typically for child birth. The hubby was almost running mad. He unfortunately started having sex outside

it is both physical (hyposexual) and psychological (hidden fears, trauma etc.).

alphaconde:
theres always a bad side of every good thing, deal with urs, my own wife bleeps alot but very lazy upstairs, i am dealing with it

nwadiuko1:
bros abeg where i fit get spanish fly?

amicableamos:

oga, I feel u n I have d understanding of what u r passing through. if u like take her to d most expensive hotel in Dubai, buy her Ferrari even ordinary kissing u may not get in return. excuses everyday, today body pain, tomorrow headache, next tomorrow cold or malaria. she would get u frustrated sometimes. she is not doing it intentionally, l think she needs a medical assistance. it is hormonal imbalance. pls, don't b offended with contribution o.

victovrry:
My wife is a good and I can call her a virtuous woman but she won't give me sex when needed, though we have male and female kids ...please what can I do again? Tried all I have read online and even attends seminals together just to make her change but she did not. Please I'm not saying this to paint her black but that is only one aspect I wish she could change.

Advise please !!!

paiz:


But if she remains defiant
Have you heard of spanish fly
Just sip small into her drink
She will tear your jean trouser that day

yettymuse:
Does she maturbate? This act has killed a lot of sexual drive in marriages

sodiq961:

Weldone Sir

akinvest:
My brother don't dance to the tone of those who says " get side chic or whatever" just take easy with her I have a similar case like urs. Sometimes i felt like descended on her with beaten but God forbid i will not, what i normally do is that i would pet her try to make her happy asks her what's wrong with her, sometimes she will tell me she is down then i will start to let her know that i cares for her, you know women are so very cunning, sometimes she will say let me sleep if I wake up don't worry, well I just need to allows her. Don't forget we have 2kids a boy and a girl. Moreover, you need to understand her and b patient with her and love her more keep telling her that you love her she shouldn't allows devil devices in her marriage, prayer together with her and don't approach her only when u need sex .

paiz:
She is a good woman
She hate sex

She hating sex maybe due to the following reasons
Its either you can't satisfy her
Or she is getting it outside

See what you are going to do
Try to talk to her about it
Try to be romantic
Make her happy
She will change believe me

But if she remains defiant
Have you heard of spanish fly
Just sip small into her drink
She will tear your jean trouser that day

victovrry:
My wife is a good and I can call her a virtuous woman but she won't give me sex when needed, though we have male and female kids ...please what can I do again? Tried all I have read online and even attends seminals together just to make her change but she did not. Please I'm not saying this to paint her black but that is only one aspect I wish she could change.

Advise please !!!

victovrry:


That is a good question, she wasn't like that.... Now changed after the kids

TINALETC3:
Some women dnt naturally like sex, she may b in dat crew. Bt al hope is nt lost, u no Wat she likes na, go extra mile to spoil her wt tins she likes, offer 2 gv her a bath sometimes, during d bath caress her body until u get her down even in d bath. Always go extra mile 2 get her in d mood.

omolorlarh:

Maybe she is scared of getting pregnant for now.You both should discuss.You both can plan properly

paiz:
She is a good woman
She hate sex

She hating sex maybe due to the following reasons
Its either you can't satisfy her
Or she is getting it outside

See what you are going to do
Try to talk to her about it
Try to be romantic
Make her happy
She will change believe me

But if she remains defiant
Have you heard of spanish fly
Just sip small into her drink
She will tear your jean trouser that day

MhizzAJ:
Please don't listen to those people saying u should get a side chic

There's something u r not doing ryte in d other room

ojojoshuaseun:
Did u just comment?

LordAdam16:
Konji bad aswear.

Ooo OP. You go need to adjust. There are people who don't like s*x. They may use religion or morals as reasons, but it's just their physiological makeup. And that's why counselling wouldn't work. At best, it'd make her see s*x as a chore. You know that thing you don't like to do but you have to do.

I'm not quite sure it's a good idea to get such a person to becoming more sexually active by pumping them full of drugs, but maybe it's an option worth exploring.

I'd keep reiterating it, have a partner who has same/similar sexual libido as yourself. Life is too short to be perpetually begging for s*x in the middle of the night or always having to say "please dear, I'm not in the mood, tomorrow..."

-Lord

thesuave10:


Please shút up. There's no room for mediocrity OR average. We want to live life and not survive it

victovrry:
My wife is a good and I can call her a virtuous woman but she won't give me sex when needed, though we have male and female kids ...please what can I do again? Tried all I have read online and even attends seminals together just to make her change but she did not. Please I'm not saying this to paint her black but that is only one aspect I wish she could change.

Advise please !!!

Adaumunocha:
A drop of Spanish fly perhaps? Just to experiment, let's see d outcome.
Don't mind d dude that mentioned side chic o, he's a sworn bachelor.

MhizzAJ:
Please don't listen to those people saying u should get a side chic

There's something u r not doing ryte in d other room

Sagay212:
Why should you be begging your wife for sex? That's the most senseless thing any man should do, especially when she already has 2 children for you. If you make move to have sex and she turns you down, just phucking ignore and go get yourself some fresh nani outside. The moment she notice you not disturbing her anymore, she 'll either come back to her senses or continue to act stupid. You also need to monitor her to ensure she is not cheating. You catch her cheating, you send her outta the house.