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Re: How Do I Break A Blood Oath I Took With My Late Boyfriend? by ITbomb(m): 1:56pm On Sep 27, 2017
Since he is dead, you are free

If it was generational stuff, it would have been different but this was between two living people
Re: How Do I Break A Blood Oath I Took With My Late Boyfriend? by Nobody: 4:51pm On Sep 27, 2017
Oaths are broken by death. It does not bind you anymore.
Re: How Do I Break A Blood Oath I Took With My Late Boyfriend? by deafeyez: 5:11pm On Sep 27, 2017
Choiszman:
When Teniola was 16, she went into a blood vow with a man she thought was the only thing that could happen to her. Now she is trapped in fear.

"My name is Teniola, a 28-year-old lady. I am in a very serious dilemma due to a foolish act I committed when I was a teenager by going into a blood vow with my then boyfriend, Tokunbo, who s now dead.

I call it foolishness because I went into the blood vow without thinking what the repercussions would be in the future.

But then, I did not know better as I was just 16 and in a relationship for the first time and just like any teenager, I thought that was the love of my life and nothing would ever separate us.

Toks was in the university and way older than I was and when he asked me out, I felt on top of the world as he was the most sought-after guy in my area and many of my friends went out of their way to get his attention.

He was so cool and anytime he came home on holidays, we did everything we could to get his attention, even fighting ourselves and keeping malice with one another all because of him.

So I was surprised when he stopped me one day on my way back from school and told me he loved me. I felt myself floating and could not believe my luck that the coolest guy in town found me worthy of dating.

When I told my friends later, I became the envy of all and many of them tried to dissuade me from dating Toks but I felt they were just jealous of my good fortune.

Anyways, Toks introduced me to a whole new world and made me see love in a different way. I had read so many romance novels but what I felt for Tokunbo could not be compared to anything I ever read.

When he deflowered me on my 16th birthday, I made a vow that no man would ever touch me as long as I lived and dedicated myself to him. I loved Tokunbo so much and worshipped the ground he walked.

In fact, the way I felt then, I could have easily denounced my parents if I had to make a choice between them and Toks. I was that crazy about him but looking back now, I know it was all puppy love.

But Tokunbo took advantage of me and said we should take a blood vow to cement our love and I gladly accepted. That day, he made some incisions on our thumbs, collected the blood which he mixed with some powdery stuff and gin and we drank from it.

He told me the vow was to bind us together and that anyone that dated or had sex with another person would either run mad or die.

Stupidly, I went along with him. In my childish mind, I never thought of ever dating or sleeping with another man. Toks was my world and no man could ever come close to him.

But tragedy struck when Tokunbo was involved in an accident in his final year in the university and died on the spot.

I was 20 then and since he died, I have not been able to have any meaningful relationship with another man as I always fear running mad or lose my life.

My fear has also been compounded by the fact that when I tried having a relationship some years ago, the man also died in an accident.

My parents are worried that at 28, I am yet to settle down or even bring a man home to meet them. I have gone for deliverance in different churches but I am still afraid for my life.

Teniola."

Please, what do you think I should do to break the blood vow?

http://m.af1234.com/Af1234/details/how-do-i-break-a-blood-oath-i-took-with-my-late-boyfriend

CC; Lalasticlala, Mynd44

U never kpash for 8years tell me d truth oooo
Re: How Do I Break A Blood Oath I Took With My Late Boyfriend? by Nobody: 5:20pm On Sep 27, 2017
simultaneousboi:
Go to ur nearest mkt and purchase a rat poison cos that will catalyst ur time of joining him in under world.

Why would u engage ur self in a relationship @ ur 16?
see judgement o .... at what age did YOU have ya first kiss? yea she did that at 16 maybe influence and all we all make mistakes thats life
Re: How Do I Break A Blood Oath I Took With My Late Boyfriend? by Donkalio: 5:24pm On Sep 27, 2017
Let's assume dis story is true. Den Toks must have died tryin to love sum1 else. U also made mention of anoda guy who u also dated afta the death of Toks, he also died. Let's say it's coincident. Death breaks Oath, he is dead, the oath is broken. Go to a bible believin church, let them counsel & pray with you, then on ur own, go for atleast 7days fasting & prayers.
Re: How Do I Break A Blood Oath I Took With My Late Boyfriend? by onyidonaldson(m): 5:26pm On Sep 27, 2017
Choiszman:
When Teniola was 16, she went into a blood vow with a man she thought was the only thing that could happen to her. Now she is trapped in fear.

"My name is Teniola, a 28-year-old lady. I am in a very serious dilemma due to a foolish act I committed when I was a teenager by going into a blood vow with my then boyfriend, Tokunbo, who s now dead.

I call it foolishness because I went into the blood vow without thinking what the repercussions would be in the future.

But then, I did not know better as I was just 16 and in a relationship for the first time and just like any teenager, I thought that was the love of my life and nothing would ever separate us.

Toks was in the university and way older than I was and when he asked me out, I felt on top of the world as he was the most sought-after guy in my area and many of my friends went out of their way to get his attention.

He was so cool and anytime he came home on holidays, we did everything we could to get his attention, even fighting ourselves and keeping malice with one another all because of him.

So I was surprised when he stopped me one day on my way back from school and told me he loved me. I felt myself floating and could not believe my luck that the coolest guy in town found me worthy of dating.

When I told my friends later, I became the envy of all and many of them tried to dissuade me from dating Toks but I felt they were just jealous of my good fortune.

Anyways, Toks introduced me to a whole new world and made me see love in a different way. I had read so many romance novels but what I felt for Tokunbo could not be compared to anything I ever read.

When he deflowered me on my 16th birthday, I made a vow that no man would ever touch me as long as I lived and dedicated myself to him. I loved Tokunbo so much and worshipped the ground he walked.

In fact, the way I felt then, I could have easily denounced my parents if I had to make a choice between them and Toks. I was that crazy about him but looking back now, I know it was all puppy love.

But Tokunbo took advantage of me and said we should take a blood vow to cement our love and I gladly accepted. That day, he made some incisions on our thumbs, collected the blood which he mixed with some powdery stuff and gin and we drank from it.

He told me the vow was to bind us together and that anyone that dated or had sex with another person would either run mad or die.

Stupidly, I went along with him. In my childish mind, I never thought of ever dating or sleeping with another man. Toks was my world and no man could ever come close to him.

But tragedy struck when Tokunbo was involved in an accident in his final year in the university and died on the spot.

I was 20 then and since he died, I have not been able to have any meaningful relationship with another man as I always fear running mad or lose my life.

My fear has also been compounded by the fact that when I tried having a relationship some years ago, the man also died in an accident.

My parents are worried that at 28, I am yet to settle down or even bring a man home to meet them. I have gone for deliverance in different churches but I am still afraid for my life.

Teniola."

Please, what do you think I should do to break the blood vow?

http://m.af1234.com/Af1234/details/how-do-i-break-a-blood-oath-i-took-with-my-late-boyfriend

CC; Lalasticlala, Mynd44

Go for mountain of fire deliverance
Re: How Do I Break A Blood Oath I Took With My Late Boyfriend? by kilojoDesigns: 6:05pm On Sep 27, 2017
what people don't understand about blood oats is that as far as he still has a close blood relative chances are it still holds. but you can use the relative to cancel it . the relative has to be someone the boyfriend liked/likes not just anyhow relative. have a powerful spiritual clergymen follow you. tell him everything and follow his instructions. some gift would probably be involved, you can't go empty handed to the relative. then you and the relative would break the covenant in front of the dead boyfriend under the instructions of the pastor. each case is usually different. it helps to be in fasting during that period
Re: How Do I Break A Blood Oath I Took With My Late Boyfriend? by donMIG(m): 6:10pm On Sep 27, 2017
Hahhahhahaha....I laff ooh...because u have enta! Only if na true u talk oo
Yyyyyy my sister oath??... Neva
Go meet men of God
Re: How Do I Break A Blood Oath I Took With My Late Boyfriend? by rosy1992(f): 6:36pm On Sep 27, 2017
Things people do for love. I guess u were still young and immature,
that was a dangerous thing to do. But I believe that the blood of Jesus would set u free. U need to have a personal relationship with him
Re: How Do I Break A Blood Oath I Took With My Late Boyfriend? by Nobody: 6:44pm On Sep 27, 2017
Choise:
I really don't believe in this blood covenant crap but if you must,


Go to God in prayers

Lefufu, ishilove and lalasticlala over to you
haha wich one be lefufucheesy?...its lefulefucheesy .by the way op i suggest u go visit TB Joshua synagugue make he unbreak the covenant.u need to do this ASAP make this ur late boyfriend ghost no come dey visit u every midnight.if u no fit go TB Joshua synagogue then make u Search for a strong pastor or powerful malam near ur area wey dey sabi unbreak convernantscheesy.
Re: How Do I Break A Blood Oath I Took With My Late Boyfriend? by ScienceWatch: 7:27pm On Sep 27, 2017
lefulefu:
haha wich one be lefufucheesy?...its lefulefucheesy .by the way op i suggest u go visit TB Joshua synagugue make he unbreak the covenant.u need to do this ASAP make this ur late boyfriend ghost no come dey visit u every midnight.if u no fit go TB Joshua synagogue then make u Search for a strong pastor or powerful malam near ur area wey dey sabi unbreak convernantscheesy.
You are giving the best advice for covenant problems. It will be easier for her to first watch and study the live personal testimonies on Emmanuel TV. Then prepare and decide on it. These problems are deeply spiritual and destructive to a persons progress.

I am eternally grateful to the person that told me to study spirituality using Emmanuel TV. I would never ever have known
what I know today about all aspects of spirituality.
Re: How Do I Break A Blood Oath I Took With My Late Boyfriend? by Nobody: 9:24pm On Sep 27, 2017
Vomit the blood...so simple
Re: How Do I Break A Blood Oath I Took With My Late Boyfriend? by makydebbie(f): 9:32pm On Sep 27, 2017
WizAkzy:
Your boyfriend not even your husband. It's like sense have finish in this world
Some threads I see these days makes me believe that too.
Re: How Do I Break A Blood Oath I Took With My Late Boyfriend? by WizAkzy: 11:07pm On Sep 27, 2017
makydebbie:
Some threads I see these days makes me believe that too.
It is well, with the few people with sense smiley

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Re: How Do I Break A Blood Oath I Took With My Late Boyfriend? by mrErific: 2:11am On Sep 28, 2017
If he is dead,then u r free as suchoath are only effective if both parties are alive I guess. So move on n go to God in prayers if ever u are in doubt.
Re: How Do I Break A Blood Oath I Took With My Late Boyfriend? by adexxy234(m): 3:15am On Sep 28, 2017
Go to mfm prayer mountain for cleansing
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Choiszman:
When Teniola was 16, she went into a blood vow with a man she thought was the only thing that could happen to her. Now she is trapped in fear.

"My name is Teniola, a 28-year-old lady. I am in a very serious dilemma due to a foolish act I committed when I was a teenager by going into a blood vow with my then boyfriend, Tokunbo, who s now dead.

I call it foolishness because I went into the blood vow without thinking what the repercussions would be in the future.

But then, I did not know better as I was just 16 and in a relationship for the first time and just like any teenager, I thought that was the love of my life and nothing would ever separate us.

Toks was in the university and way older than I was and when he asked me out, I felt on top of the world as he was the most sought-after guy in my area and many of my friends went out of their way to get his attention.

He was so cool and anytime he came home on holidays, we did everything we could to get his attention, even fighting ourselves and keeping malice with one another all because of him.

So I was surprised when he stopped me one day on my way back from school and told me he loved me. I felt myself floating and could not believe my luck that the coolest guy in town found me worthy of dating.

When I told my friends later, I became the envy of all and many of them tried to dissuade me from dating Toks but I felt they were just jealous of my good fortune.

Anyways, Toks introduced me to a whole new world and made me see love in a different way. I had read so many romance novels but what I felt for Tokunbo could not be compared to anything I ever read.

When he deflowered me on my 16th birthday, I made a vow that no man would ever touch me as long as I lived and dedicated myself to him. I loved Tokunbo so much and worshipped the ground he walked.

In fact, the way I felt then, I could have easily denounced my parents if I had to make a choice between them and Toks. I was that crazy about him but looking back now, I know it was all puppy love.

But Tokunbo took advantage of me and said we should take a blood vow to cement our love and I gladly accepted. That day, he made some incisions on our thumbs, collected the blood which he mixed with some powdery stuff and gin and we drank from it.

He told me the vow was to bind us together and that anyone that dated or had sex with another person would either run mad or die.

Stupidly, I went along with him. In my childish mind, I never thought of ever dating or sleeping with another man. Toks was my world and no man could ever come close to him.

But tragedy struck when Tokunbo was involved in an accident in his final year in the university and died on the spot.

I was 20 then and since he died, I have not been able to have any meaningful relationship with another man as I always fear running mad or lose my life.

My fear has also been compounded by the fact that when I tried having a relationship some years ago, the man also died in an accident.

My parents are worried that at 28, I am yet to settle down or even bring a man home to meet them. I have gone for deliverance in different churches but I am still afraid for my life.

Teniola."

Please, what do you think I should do to break the blood vow?

http://m.af1234.com/Af1234/details/how-do-i-break-a-blood-oath-i-took-with-my-late-boyfriend

CC; Lalasticlala, Mynd44
Re: How Do I Break A Blood Oath I Took With My Late Boyfriend? by asksteve(m): 4:50am On Sep 28, 2017
mhizesther:
My dear, Run to God..Asin don't look Back!!! Run to him...but if ure like me grin omo japa
Continue with ur life..I don't believe in covenants... Why are u even scared shey the bible says once a person is dead, he's dead niyen.. When u start freaking out, believe me u start to imagine things..Ur mind becomes weak.. My dear be strong And move on!!! But if u end up going to mfm be prepared for war!! Those guys would beat u up in the name of deliverance

My sis, its not as easy as u think ie. talking abt d later part of ur post.
Wen u take such oat it becomes binding n even God respects ur oat cos HE gave us free will.
How I wish she knew all wat Toks did n how n where he got to no how to prepare d oat, it would have made life easier.
D only remedy is to seek d face of God, whom through d oat was told to step aside, HE alone can remedy d situation.
Re: How Do I Break A Blood Oath I Took With My Late Boyfriend? by morbeta(m): 5:30am On Sep 28, 2017
Go and listen the the song of Ghetto boys 1991." My mind is playing tricks on me" and your problem will be over.

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