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How Do I Break A Blood Oath I Took With My Late Boyfriend? by Choiszman(m): 9:26am On Sep 27, 2017
When Teniola was 16, she went into a blood vow with a man she thought was the only thing that could happen to her. Now she is trapped in fear.

"My name is Teniola, a 28-year-old lady. I am in a very serious dilemma due to a foolish act I committed when I was a teenager by going into a blood vow with my then boyfriend, Tokunbo, who s now dead.

I call it foolishness because I went into the blood vow without thinking what the repercussions would be in the future.

But then, I did not know better as I was just 16 and in a relationship for the first time and just like any teenager, I thought that was the love of my life and nothing would ever separate us.

Toks was in the university and way older than I was and when he asked me out, I felt on top of the world as he was the most sought-after guy in my area and many of my friends went out of their way to get his attention.

He was so cool and anytime he came home on holidays, we did everything we could to get his attention, even fighting ourselves and keeping malice with one another all because of him.

So I was surprised when he stopped me one day on my way back from school and told me he loved me. I felt myself floating and could not believe my luck that the coolest guy in town found me worthy of dating.

When I told my friends later, I became the envy of all and many of them tried to dissuade me from dating Toks but I felt they were just jealous of my good fortune.

Anyways, Toks introduced me to a whole new world and made me see love in a different way. I had read so many romance novels but what I felt for Tokunbo could not be compared to anything I ever read.

When he deflowered me on my 16th birthday, I made a vow that no man would ever touch me as long as I lived and dedicated myself to him. I loved Tokunbo so much and worshipped the ground he walked.

In fact, the way I felt then, I could have easily denounced my parents if I had to make a choice between them and Toks. I was that crazy about him but looking back now, I know it was all puppy love.

But Tokunbo took advantage of me and said we should take a blood vow to cement our love and I gladly accepted. That day, he made some incisions on our thumbs, collected the blood which he mixed with some powdery stuff and gin and we drank from it.

He told me the vow was to bind us together and that anyone that dated or had sex with another person would either run mad or die.

Stupidly, I went along with him. In my childish mind, I never thought of ever dating or sleeping with another man. Toks was my world and no man could ever come close to him.

But tragedy struck when Tokunbo was involved in an accident in his final year in the university and died on the spot.

I was 20 then and since he died, I have not been able to have any meaningful relationship with another man as I always fear running mad or lose my life.

My fear has also been compounded by the fact that when I tried having a relationship some years ago, the man also died in an accident.

My parents are worried that at 28, I am yet to settle down or even bring a man home to meet them. I have gone for deliverance in different churches but I am still afraid for my life.

Teniola."

Please, what do you think I should do to break the blood vow?

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Re: How Do I Break A Blood Oath I Took With My Late Boyfriend? by doughziay: 9:27am On Sep 27, 2017
grin

Marry His Brother, They have the same blood

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Re: How Do I Break A Blood Oath I Took With My Late Boyfriend? by Choiszman(m): 9:27am On Sep 27, 2017
Re: How Do I Break A Blood Oath I Took With My Late Boyfriend? by Young03(m): 9:30am On Sep 27, 2017
visit okija shrine for cleansing
Re: How Do I Break A Blood Oath I Took With My Late Boyfriend? by Ladyjumong(f): 9:31am On Sep 27, 2017
tongue

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Re: How Do I Break A Blood Oath I Took With My Late Boyfriend? by Choiszman(m): 9:34am On Sep 27, 2017
hmmm...Pity her na
Ladyjumong:
tongue
Re: How Do I Break A Blood Oath I Took With My Late Boyfriend? by Ladyjumong(f): 9:37am On Sep 27, 2017
Choiszman:
hmmm...Pity her na
is it ur pity undecided

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Re: How Do I Break A Blood Oath I Took With My Late Boyfriend? by Adaumunocha(f): 9:37am On Sep 27, 2017
Prayers.
Re: How Do I Break A Blood Oath I Took With My Late Boyfriend? by Nobody: 9:40am On Sep 27, 2017
My dear, Run to God..Asin don't look Back!!! Run to him...but if ure like me grin omo japa
Continue with ur life..I don't believe in covenants... Why are u even scared shey the bible says once a person is dead, he's dead niyen.. When u start freaking out, believe me u start to imagine things..Ur mind becomes weak.. My dear be strong And move on!!! But if u end up going to mfm be prepared for war!! Those guys would beat u up in the name of deliverance

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Re: How Do I Break A Blood Oath I Took With My Late Boyfriend? by paiz: 9:41am On Sep 27, 2017
He dead move on with your life

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Re: How Do I Break A Blood Oath I Took With My Late Boyfriend? by WizAkzy: 9:42am On Sep 27, 2017
Your boyfriend not even your husband. It's like sense have finish in this world

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Re: How Do I Break A Blood Oath I Took With My Late Boyfriend? by ladensmith(m): 9:45am On Sep 27, 2017
hmmm... lord save me too
Re: How Do I Break A Blood Oath I Took With My Late Boyfriend? by Nobody: 9:48am On Sep 27, 2017
People still take blood oath in this 21st century? Wow.
Anyway the fact that he is dead means that its no longer valid.

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Re: How Do I Break A Blood Oath I Took With My Late Boyfriend? by Choiszman(m): 9:51am On Sep 27, 2017
cheesy grin
Ladyjumong:
is it ur pity undecided
Re: How Do I Break A Blood Oath I Took With My Late Boyfriend? by simultaneousboi(m): 9:52am On Sep 27, 2017
Go to ur nearest mkt and purchase a rat poison cos that will catalyst ur time of joining him in under world.

Why would u engage ur self in a relationship @ ur 16?

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Re: How Do I Break A Blood Oath I Took With My Late Boyfriend? by adepeter2027(m): 10:00am On Sep 27, 2017
Blood convenant of whatever they call it is damn UNREAL.

Don't allow fear hold a grasp of you cos that will be the beginning of the end for you.

Kindly move on with your life joor.

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Re: How Do I Break A Blood Oath I Took With My Late Boyfriend? by Choise(f): 10:04am On Sep 27, 2017
I really don't believe in this blood covenant crap but if you must,


Go to God in prayers

Lefufu, ishilove and lalasticlala over to you

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Re: How Do I Break A Blood Oath I Took With My Late Boyfriend? by Florblu(f): 10:15am On Sep 27, 2017
Can you imagine?

The only oath i take is Quaker oats

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Re: How Do I Break A Blood Oath I Took With My Late Boyfriend? by sleekyskillz(m): 10:24am On Sep 27, 2017
Is it that some of you cannot read ni? She was 16 when she took the oath now she's 28, can't compare what happened back then to now... SMH



Stop being superstitious on move on with ur life jawe, tho i'm not an expert on oath takin but i believe since the day is dead ur no longer tied to anything so go out there and bleep a guy or two but if anything happens no be me send u oh
Re: How Do I Break A Blood Oath I Took With My Late Boyfriend? by tgmservice: 10:31am On Sep 27, 2017
the only way out of it is to suck his late cock

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Re: How Do I Break A Blood Oath I Took With My Late Boyfriend? by NeeKlaus: 10:34am On Sep 27, 2017
So you said the conditions for the blood oath was to make either of you mad or die if the other person cheats??

From my angle, that MIGHT be why the Toks guy died.. he probably cheated.


Well, seek spiritual help. I don't think there is any bond prayers cannot break.

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Re: How Do I Break A Blood Oath I Took With My Late Boyfriend? by Nobody: 10:41am On Sep 27, 2017
Just pray to God
Re: How Do I Break A Blood Oath I Took With My Late Boyfriend? by Antoeni(m): 10:50am On Sep 27, 2017
See TB Joshua,or Apst Sulaiman
Re: How Do I Break A Blood Oath I Took With My Late Boyfriend? by DckPssy(f): 12:00pm On Sep 27, 2017
Story
Re: How Do I Break A Blood Oath I Took With My Late Boyfriend? by Shinapraise(m): 12:03pm On Sep 27, 2017
This is real in some customs I will urge you to tell your parent what you did and get a good pastor like prophet tb joshua or iginla or go to your community where you can get a good babalawo they know the antidote of this and you need to be cleansed asap cos if you continue like this every man u marry will die prematurely peace .

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Re: How Do I Break A Blood Oath I Took With My Late Boyfriend? by adepeter2027(m): 12:14pm On Sep 27, 2017
Shinapraise:
This is real in some customs I will urge you to tell your parent what you did and get a good pastor like prophet tb joshua or iginla or go to your community where you can get a good babalawo they know the antidote of this and you need to be cleansed asap cos if you continue like this every man u marry will die prematurely peace .
It's not real.

It's mind control

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Re: How Do I Break A Blood Oath I Took With My Late Boyfriend? by Balistic4: 12:14pm On Sep 27, 2017
Ladyjumong:
tongue
Loved the movie Jumong. Have watched it over 4 times and still watching it. cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

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Re: How Do I Break A Blood Oath I Took With My Late Boyfriend? by Ladyjumong(f): 12:23pm On Sep 27, 2017
Balistic4:

Loved the movie Jumong. Have watched it over 4 times and still watching it. cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
haa, just 4 times cheesy

for me to be using it as my moniker what do u think grin cheesy

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Re: How Do I Break A Blood Oath I Took With My Late Boyfriend? by rossyc(f): 12:59pm On Sep 27, 2017
Prayers and deliverance.
Re: How Do I Break A Blood Oath I Took With My Late Boyfriend? by trojan84(m): 1:15pm On Sep 27, 2017
My dear the oath is broken, even divorce is allowed on a count that u don't remarry till ur spouse dies, so if the oath u take on the alter of God can b broken on a condition of death, why will an ordinary blood oath not break wen a party dies

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Re: How Do I Break A Blood Oath I Took With My Late Boyfriend? by Nobody: 1:54pm On Sep 27, 2017
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